Porn's influence?

Porn, especially gay and bisexual stuff, has help come into terms with my own bisexuality. It also got me totally interested into having sex with another man.

And sounding isn't cool to me, looks like it would hurt like Hell.
 
Not porn

It wasn't porn for me but the Internet and all of its glory especially the jack off camsites they put me over the edge. To watch someone jacking off and shooting a load is so awesome:) I think its better than porn, but there are some porn sites that are good too.
 
I didn't start with porn, but erotica. I was reading one of Anne Rice's "Beauty" books and there, to my surprise, was a gay sex scene. I wasn't sure what to make of it at first, but the more I thought about it, the more turned on I became. That led to reading not just straight erotica, but bi stories and eventually completely gay ones.

It was a long time before I became interested in bi/gay porn, but working in an adult video store and catching bits of the TG/bi vids gradually increased my interest. I've thought (and fantasized) about it enough that I came out as bi a couple years ago, but still have yet to actually act on my interests, which I guess technically makes me bi-curious.

Still, porn definitely opened my eyes to possibilities I wouldn't have otherwise considered.
 
I think porn definitely has an influence on whoever watches it. That can be both negative or positive influences depending on the person...and who they are with! A lot of fetishes are born from watching porn, at least for myself anyways. You watch something then want to try it in real life...:devil:
 
Porn, especially gay and bisexual stuff, has help come into terms with my own bisexuality. It also got me totally interested into having sex with another man.

And sounding isn't cool to me, looks like it would hurt like Hell.

It is a beautiful thing to watch and be watched:)
 
For us, it opened our eyes to the variety, of hot, sensual, dirty, sex that can be experienced and enjoyed by others.
We don't really label sex into categories - gay, straight, Lesbian, bi, shemale,etc. We think its all just, well, sex. And we watch and enjoy it all.
For us it's about the passion and intensity. Two guys into each other, kissing passionately while one rails his cock into the other's ass is as much a turn on for us as the latest large-breasted porn starlet strutting her stuff in six inch pumps and then energetically fucking some dude poolside, or three lovely lasses exploring their sapphic desires in soft focus.
If the performers are into it and into each other, we'll probably be enjoying the performance as well. If it looks like they are just phoning it in, or if somebody looks uncomfortable or like they don't want to be there,...Stop > Eject.
If it's bad - bad camera work, campy dialogue, bad editing and acting. It gets shut off. Unless it's just so bad, it's funny. Then we'll watch a bit for laughs and giggles.
As far as influencing us, we've explored ass-play (hers and mine) beyond just the occasional finger or two, and introduced some new toys to the tickle-trunk.
And there has been a lot of candid conversations starting with "Can you imagine...", "What would you do if...", or the popular "Would you..." Some of the less-than-mainstream porn we've watched has resulted in some of our best pillow talk.
 
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