Positions for G-Spot Orgasm

Madison4U

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So...I have a problem. My boyfriend is great with his hands. Oh my god. I have the best orgasms when he has two fingers inside and rubs just right on my G-spot. I love it, but I'd love to have that feeling with him inside me. I just can't get the same full orgasm when we make love. Does anyone have suggestions for positions that will make this better? We haven't tried too much (still fairly young and new to this all...I'm 19, he's 21) but I'm interested in trying anything to help with this.

Thanks for all your help in advance. You all seem to be such good help for others. I just had to ask.

Maddi
 
For us it works better using some variation on doggy style. You might try it by laying on the edge of the bed or bent over a chair. If you're on your tummy, try getting up on your knees a little, push your hips up and your tummy down. That is one sure way for us :)

Treeview
 
Not really into Doggy

Hey Tree,

Thanks a lot for your help. I'm not really into the doggystyle thing....I don't know..call me old fashioned by it doesn't feel as intimate to me and it feels more just like we're having sex, not making love. Maybe i'll have to get over that unless someone has another suggestion. Thanks again

Maddi
 
Mabey this will help you. You lay on your back just like the missionary position and you move your legs up and down instead of wrapping them around your partners waist. From what I heard this helps the man's cock hit your g-spot and is also feels real good to him. I haven't tried this yet myself but I seen it on Real Sex 31 a couple of days ago and thought it might help you. Good luck:D
 
when youre doing doggie style, have him sort of lean over you and kiss your sh oulders and your back, and you can turn your head and kiss him too. He can touch your breasts then and your clit too...it really can be a very intimate position if you do it with taht intention.. and have him say nice things to you, I dont know if that'll help you, but it really can be a romantic position
 
Perhaps you could try having him sit up and you lower yourself onto him with your back to him. This may not satisfy the intimacy you desire, but it won't be 'doggystyle'.
 
Id say doggie style as well. Try not to focus on the position as not intimate. The act of fucking or making love to your BF can be the intimacy. Try to look at it as branching out. Its an amazing position.

GOOD LUCK!:rose:
 
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pogogirl said:
Mabey this will help you. You lay on your back just like the missionary position and you move your legs up and down instead of wrapping them around your partners waist. From what I heard this helps the man's cock hit your g-spot and is also feels real good to him. ))



Pogogirl is right this is a very good postion for both of you. There is a varation to the doggy style and that might help with the feeling of like you are making love. One is for you both to lay on your sides with you back to his chest and for him to wrap his arms around you and hold you. Another way would be to place a pillow or 2 under your hips while in the missionary postion. This might help to. Good LUCK:rose:
 
Having him on the bottom and you riding him is also a good position. That way you can lean over closer to him or sit straight up to get the angle of penetration just right.
 
Is his dick completely straight? I have a bit of a "left turn" to mine, which I sometimes use to my advantage - if my partner is built just right, I can turn her on her right side with me above her and hit it with each "in" stroke! I suppose it would work if he had a "right turn", as well - just lay on your left side!

If it is straight...I dunno...
 
One thing my gf really loves that hits her G-Spot -

1. The guy kneels, butt on his heels, and pulls her up on top of his legs. So he's in her, but she's kind of thrus upwards. This isn't a thrusting position, instead, since she's reclined downwards, and his dick is pointed upwards, it's naturally rubbing on the G-Spot, add a little clitoral stimulation here (I prefer to use the thumb ;)) and it's good for teasing for my gf (she gets off vaginally, not clitorally). If you get off clitorally, it's a fun one. There are variants, like her bracing against a wall, and him on his knees, as long as he's angled up and she's angled down.

Then there's also the A-Spot, you shouldn't restrict yourself ;)

My gf and I are still experimenting...just have him change the angle a little bit each time by trying your legs in different positions, him in different heights (lying on top of you, partially on knees, etc). Another good one is to put a pillow under your ass in missionary. This keeps him at the same height, but puts your g-spot higher. Changing position just a little bit can mean worlds of difference in feeling, for both of you.

Melesse
 
Throw your curly vibrators in the bin! The Graffenburg spot doesn't exist! :)

Or maybe it does?............

To be honest, who knows?!

Seriously, I read somewhere that after all these years of searching for the mysterious 'G' spot, we were all being taken in, 'cos scientists have decided that it just doesn't exist!

Zeldas Slave
 
Zeldas slave said:
Throw your curly vibrators in the bin! The Graffenburg spot doesn't exist! :)

Or maybe it does?............

To be honest, who knows?!

Seriously, I read somewhere that after all these years of searching for the mysterious 'G' spot, we were all being taken in, 'cos scientists have decided that it just doesn't exist!

Zeldas Slave

While there certainly those in the medical profession who reject the entire idea, there are many who do not. Doctors often reject anything that they cannot with absolute certainty see or at least prove through conclusive testing. This is why not many doctors believe in say Chiropractors and such.

Some of the most recent and most comprehensive studies indicate that it should be looked at more as an "area" vs. a "spot." I know exactly where my wife's "spot" is I can feel it like an almond inside her, but she doesn't like the "spot" stimulated. But if I'm less focused on the "spot" and more focused on the "area" she loves it. The studies also indicate that whther it be spot or area, everyone responds differently from one another and often differently within themselves from one orgasm to the next.

See, the trouble with this is very much depends on the sexual state of mind. A doctor can tell a man to jack off until he comes. he sees the cum and says, "men ejaculate and orgasm from stimulation." He can see it, touch it, and measure it. What he can't measure was the intesnity of pleasure from said orgasm. Ejaculation strength is a poor measure and not necessarily relevant to the intensity of pleasure. But, can a man (or woman) tell you how the orgasm felt? Of course. And don't we all have verying orgasms? Of course.

Don't get too lost in what scientists say about sex. Use it as a guide. Let your body and mind be your own labratory and text book.
 
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