Practical Anal Hygiene Question

[SlickTony]

Some considerations on the practical aspects of back-door action...

 

[Chicklet]

I've never had an enema, and have never had a problem with a mess during anal sex... it's been messier sometimes than others, but never something I'd say I had to protect against...

 

[Tighter]

I do use the enema beforehand, it's just the added cleanliness (like douching). If for nothing else than consideration for the guy.

 

[wicked woman]

I've never had an enema, and have never had a problem with a mess during anal sex... it's been messier sometimes than others, but never something I'd say I had to protect against...

Ditto.

 

[Guest]

I do use the enema beforehand, it's just the added cleanliness (like douching). If for nothing else than consideration for the guy.

Yep.

I prefer to be clean, myself. I want no surprises.

It's me I'm thinking of, actually.

 

[Davross]

My wife and I have never had any mess problems with Anal sex, and we do not use enema's.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I've never had problems with clean up after anal. It helps to go and sit on the toilet for a few minutes afterward, to wash properly too.

If you just mean the mess made just after you withdraw from her then holding a tissue under your cock as you pull out will catch most of it. Do you ejaculate quite a lot?

I've never used a douche but I suppose I would if asked to. I think that adequate washing of both sets of genitals before and after should suffice.

 

[SlickTony]

Me, ejaculate? No, I don't. What prompted me to to run this poll was a session having to do with my husband and variouis toys. Quite a while back I got a couple of Fleet enemas with a view to him using one of them, but he didn't think it was necessary; when a toy gets withdrawn and leaves a streak of brown on my leg or somewhere, I think it is. I just wondered what everyone else did. It's no use consulting literature; you very seldom run across any santorum there!

 

[Guest]

Me, ejaculate? No, I don't. What prompted me to to run this poll was a session having to do with my husband and variouis toys. Quite a while back I got a couple of Fleet enemas with a view to him using one of them, but he didn't think it was necessary; when a toy gets withdrawn and leaves a streak of brown on my leg or somewhere, I think it is. I just wondered what everyone else did. It's no use consulting literature; you very seldom run across any santorum there!

Clean.

Clean is good.

We're not into brown streaks either.

 

[Hand_Pict]

Yep.

I prefer to be clean, myself. I want no surprises.

It's me I'm thinking of, actually.

A refreshingly honest answer. As you can see from my post count I'm a 'virgin' and expect all the abuse any noob takes - lol

Nice to see a forum where honesty and free opinions/questions (if by definition is wonderfully deviant) dictates topic.

'Keep it up' please

 

[Guest]

A refreshingly honest answer. As you can see from my post count I'm a 'virgin' and expect all the abuse any noob takes - lol

Nice to see a forum where honesty and free opinions/questions (if by definition is wonderfully deviant) dictates topic.

'Keep it up' please

I think Lit is a refreshingly honest place.

Welcome and enjoy.

 

[SweetErika]

Me, ejaculate? No, I don't. What prompted me to to run this poll was a session having to do with my husband and variouis toys. Quite a while back I got a couple of Fleet enemas with a view to him using one of them, but he didn't think it was necessary; when a toy gets withdrawn and leaves a streak of brown on my leg or somewhere, I think it is. I just wondered what everyone else did. It's no use consulting literature; you very seldom run across any santorum there!

If you think it's necessary, you should ask him to try it. Who knows, he might even LIKE enemas, especially if you combine them with some form of stimulation (even mental, e.g. making it a part of roleplay or a D/s scene).

If you're using a fleet enema, replace the solution that's in there with plain old warm water. That solution can burn and the temperature makes it a lot more unpleasant, IMO - just not the best bet for encouraging him to use them in the future!

We've never had a problem either, but then we don't do ass play if the receiver might need to use the bathroom or has issues that day, and use a slick silicone lube and condom on any insertables.

Maybe the mess could have something to do with your guy's diet or bathroom habits (e.g. too much fat, not enough good fiber, going much earlier, in the afternoon/evening or several times a day)? If that could be it, you might want to look into foods that make for good colon/digestive health, and plan play around his schedule.

 

[wordofvirtue]

Ah, to have a husband that didn't jump out of bed if something gets near his bottom ... sigh ...

 

[SlickTony]

I guess some people don't know when they're well off...

And that reminds me, our doctor is hocking him to get a colonoscopy...

 

[Climaxamus]

I have never tried at all other then a finger or two. But when I do try it I'd image to first make sure that's it's empty, showered, and have some wipies on had along with penty of lube.

 

[herecomestherain]

We don't do enemas. Good diet, bowel motion, soapy finger in the shower - pretty much all okay from our experience. Whichever route you go, anal play takes a bit more forethought and planning which may not fit with the whole "aren't we a pair of spontaneous funsters!" scenario or maybe kind of awkward to broach prior.

Some folks use condoms on toys.

Jack Morin is the anal king -- lotsa info.-- http://www.sexuality.org/morin98.html

 

[Guest]

diet

A good diet and Jack Morin's book should do the trick.

I have heard it preached that regular enemas are not healthy for your bottom,just as frequent douching is bad for the 'geena. There is a whole symbiosis going on down there.

Maharat

 

[77Cobra]

Sometimes it is messy sometimes not.Just don't do it after a big meal,I prefer enema's so there are no surprises.

 

[cebalrai]

This poll seems really silly. For one, "santorum" isn't even a word.

Secondly, I have anal sex all the time without an eneme involved and it's never really been messy. Definitely not on the sheets.

 

[jcguild]

just had a thought for those out there ready to break up with their bf's

tell em you wanna be done in the ass, a few hours after several ex lax

 

[Guest]

This poll seems really silly. For one, "santorum" isn't even a word.

Secondly, I have anal sex all the time without an eneme involved and it's never really been messy. Definitely not on the sheets.

Santorum?

That term was coined after Rick Santorum, a very ultra-conservative prick of a Senator.

Here's the origin, I believe -

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=14422

Santorum - the frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of anal sex

Check out the blog - funny as hell. http://www.spreadingsantorum.com/

 

[Guest]

just had a thought for those out there ready to break up with their bf's

tell em you wanna be done in the ass, a few hours after several ex lax

?

Are you old enough to be posting on Lit?

 

[silverwhisper]

sarah: now now, you already know perfectly well he isn't. :>

ed

 

[reignophelia]

Santorum?

That term was coined after Rick Santorum, a very ultra-conservative prick of a Senator.

Here's the origin, I believe -

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=14422

Santorum - the frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of anal sex

Check out the blog - funny as hell. http://www.spreadingsantorum.com/

Gotta love Dan Savage.

 

[Guest]

sarah: now now, you already know perfectly well he isn't. :>

ed

I was trying to be polite.