Preferring Masturbation to Sex

[Forestmusic1]

It almost feels taboo to write, but I'd rather masturbate than have sex. I know I'm not the only one out here, and I'd love to have others chime in. Sex is great for an emotional connection with another person, but masturbation has always been better for me, pleasure-wise. Maybe it's because sex is an orgasm I have to work for while also focusing on the pleasure of my partner, while I can be completely selfish when I'm pleasuring myself. I've never been with someone who has made feel like I didn't have to masturbate in addition to our s

 

[Forestmusic1]

I like masturbating while going down on a woman that gets me off the most and she likes it too

 

[Cuck_veronica]

I prefer it too. I love when other women touch me too. But I have always had the best orgasms when it's just me and my fingers.

 

[wankerholic42]

I’ve enjoyed full sex in the past (mainly with guys), but I always preferred masturbation, particularly mutual. Still love pleasuring a man with my hands and, of course, my own cock!

 

[MissyDaddyGirl]

My fingers are always available, 24/7/365, whereas a cock isn't!!

 

[Samtran123]

Although I love sex with women, I do enjoy masturbation. I am sexually more active than my partner which gives me enough scope for masturbating.

 

[Serge69]

I am almost getting to that point, for various reasons...

 

[PSO77]

It almost feels taboo to write, but I'd rather masturbate than have sex. I know I'm not the only one out here, and I'd love to have others chime in. Sex is great for an emotional connection with another person, but masturbation has always been better for me, pleasure-wise. Maybe it's because sex is an orgasm I have to work for while also focusing on the pleasure of my partner, while I can be completely selfish when I'm pleasuring myself. I've never been with someone who has made feel like I didn't have to masturbate in addition to our sex life.

Why do you think that it might be taboo to write that?

 

[PSO77]

Why do you think that it might be taboo to write that?

I know this is an old post, but masturbation is one of the favorite things I love doing to myself. I'm also very fortunate that the man I am married to enjoys watching me masturbate and helping me.

 

[ppete3]

Why do you think that it might be taboo to write that?

Because there is a common belief that sex is always better than masturbation and that there's something wrong with you if you don't prefer sex out of the two.

 

[PSO77]

Because there is a common belief that sex is always better than masturbation and that there's something wrong with you if you don't prefer sex out of the two.

That's society and most of the time society has no f****** clue what they're talking about. I'm learning to live my Life by doing me. And if that means masturbation So be it! Why the hell do we have such pleasurable spots on our bodies if we can't enjoy them ourselves? I say masturbation is better a lot of the time because we know how to pleasure ourselves. No one else can beat that! So enjoy it! May society and their ridiculous opinions be damned. It's your body you do what you want.

 

[Justfantasies]

I love the real thing. But I masturbate regularly and even have fantasy lovers. It’s more intense than sex could ever be

 

[silverbeam44]

Masturbation is more fun most of the time because it allows for complete control of the edging process. I can edge for hours, which leads to powerful, shaking climaxes with more cum. My ejaculations are bigger, more filled with pleasure, and shoot further when I masturbate than when I'm having sex. Don't get me wrong - sex is awesome. But the pleasure high from slow and powerful masturbation is out of this world and can't be duplicated.

 

[Nekidinaz]

I enjoy both sexual intercourse and masturbation, especially when someone or multiple someones are watching me and coaxing me on camera or in person.

 

[desire30]

100% agree

it is wonderful to revisit past memories and lovers .In my mind i can improve the past experiences. More so i can vision a new setting for someone I am attracted to

 

[NakedStoryLover]

I like masturbating while going down on a woman that gets me off the most and she likes it too

Love this, but I'd prefer stroking my cock while she's riding my face and watching me stroke

 

[Daddydomtex48]

Depends on sex with who

 

[susurrus]

Since my last post, even masturbation is more infrequent. Maybe two, three times a week, tops. Even the concept of sex with the wife is now, literally, impossible.

I long for contact, even if it doesn't lead to more. I especially miss the emotional connection, that was enhanced and strengthened by sex.

 

[tylersteve234]

I do have sex and i enjoy sex,with both men and other women, but i openly admit i masturbate ,its something that ive been doing more and more in the last few years, surely we can combine both but at the moment i seem to be masturbating more than sex, i masturbate every day

Agree- I love to masturbate and enjoy edging!!!

 

[xerotique]

 

[OnaTangent]

Masturbation is an excellent option! Even when I am having regular sex it's nice to settle in for a good stroke occasionally. It's fun when you're partner enjoys it with you.

 

[smooth-boy]

I kind of would rather jerk than have sex right now. I had a female friend that I jerked for, and she really enjoyed it.

 

[TomnDiane]

In a long time sexless marriage, masturbation is the only outlet (cheating isn't an option for me). No guilt or shame. Thankfully, with the ready availability of all types of porn, I am able to indulge myself and satisfy what used to be a mutual activity. Like Dice Clay once said: Masturbation is sex with someone you love.

 

[chatty_matt_uk]

This is a really interesting thread and I have enjoyed reading other opinions. I am glad to see I am not the only one who can feel like this. I enjoy sex, but most of the sex I have had has been loving and tender with passion only going so far. It has all be great with partners and intimate, but a lot of the time, especially of late I have enjoyed exploring masterbation a lot more.

I think this is because i can explore topics and fantasies easily without fear my partner at the time would disapprove etc. Also, masterbation for me can last as long or short as I want, and even be repeated multiple times in the same session.

I have also found myself exploring myself more with masterbation, exploring some anal play whilst doing it which has increased the sensation of my orgasms, something previous partners would not have tried at all.

I do think masterbation is very health it is the sexual form of medation , plus it allow us (I know this is true for me), to explore fantasies and turn onsin safety and without judgement.

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I kind of would rather jerk than have sex right now. I had a female friend that I jerked for, and she really enjoyed it.

Fuck that must have been amazing