Preferring Masturbation to Sex

[Bisnjguy]

In my younger days, sex was great with my wife or occasionally others. As time has gone by, I have found that masturbation is my go to. I
Truly enjoy my time with myself. I still find different ways or places to enjoy myself. Plus it can last
As long as I want it to. Some days I can lay and enjoy myself for hours, others a quick stroke to cum
Is also great. Imagination, toys and occasional chats or phone conversations are very enjoyable for me.

 

[Bigspurt]

I would have to say that I have a better orgasm going solo than the one I have with my wife. She, after 46 years just doesn't have the same touch. If she were to allow me to cum in her mouth that could change but since she doesn't, well...
I discovered Tenga products way back when they were new to the toy scene and the spinners and eggs are great.

 

[kevinbrighton]

I much prefer solo these days. That way I get to call out her mother's name, or her sister's, as I cum. Try doing that when she's present.

 

[xerotique]

Erectile dysfunction,
A one hit wonder.

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[pussyhammer2021]

The release is always better when there is someone else to receive it. I also get off on making women have orgasms and i cant get that part of me fulfilled thru masturbation so for me, give me sex over masturbation

 

[PMarky2]

I prefer sex to masturbation, but it can be a close thing sometimes. With sex I need the right partner because there is something more going on there than mere physical release. I need to feel some sort of emotion and intellectual bond with my partner, and I do not run into women like that very often.

When it is simply a matter of mechanics and being able to think clearly, the right hand is handy. It is basically fast food.

 

[TheUKGent]

It's a bit of a double-edged sword for me. I love having sex with Mrs. Gent and, after a few years together now, we both know what moves/positions/pace work for each other. That means that we can either go for the quickie pushing the right buttons to cum as quickly as possible, or we can draw it out for longer sessions.

However ...

Her sex drive has slowed a little, so I do find myself masturbating to fill in the gaps, and I just have that bit more control of my own pleasure and whether or not I orgasm (sometimes I just like to edge a few times before I cum, just to see how long I can tease myself until the inevitable).

That also doesn't mean that masturbation is a solo thing for us either. We do indulge in masturbation sessions together instead of (and as well as) just having penetrative sex, and I find that mutual masturbation to orgasm can be at least as pleasurable as sex itself, and you don't have quite the same physical issues that can arise from it (a bad hip is a current example of something that's getting in the way of sex, but not mutual masturbation).

 

[MrMannson]

50/50

My sex life is amazing, but I also like to use my over active imagination as well by myself. Even a little porn doesn’t hurt.

I find when my wife gets a hold of my cock I don’t last long, because she knows how to pleasure me. On my own, while I do as well, sometimes I can stop myself and hold off a little longer.

 

[CockSparrow]

I'll vote for masturbation - with a twist: mutual masturbation.

Some years ago, I was visiting my sister who was between husbands. I'm not sure how we got talking about sex - although talking about sex with her was not that unusual. Anyway, during the course of the conversation she cast her vote for mutual masturbation.

'As a way of kicking things off?' I suggested.

'No. no. As the main event,' she said. And she removed her skirt and lowered her knickers. Since she was sitting facing me on the couch, I could see what she meant.

 

[PSO77]

The release is always better when there is someone else to receive it. I also get off on making women have orgasms and i cant get that part of me fulfilled thru masturbation so for me, give me sex over masturbation

I enjoy both. Although, last night my husband ate me out so good I came several times and then came again when he put the vibrator on my pussy making me squirt. I think I had the best sleep of my life afterwards

 

[silverbeam44]

I enjoy sex, but my best climaxes come from masturbation. I get to control the process as I gently touch myself.

 

[OnaTangent]

Masturbation is a different animal from sex with another person. But it can be very enjoyable and even fulfilling, especially when you share the experience with another person

 

[Buttboy7869]

I’ve spent the bulk of my life living alone. When I was younger I was very sexually active but now that I’m older it sometimes seems not worth the effort. I’ve always been a masturbator but now almost exclusively so.