Preparing For First Real Full Cum Kiss

[LookN2Talk]

The discussion has been had...the decision has been made...we are both in agreement. It's time for me to have my first full load cum kiss. This is a turn-on for both of us. We've tried it before but it always ends up with me chickening out at the last second. We've tried getting past that by having her jump up and kiss me quickly after the first couple of spurts. That was ok but not the full experience we both desire...plus it's kinda hard to concentrate on kissing while still in mid-orgasm. She wants to let me fully enjoy my orgasm while in her mouth and then share the whole cum load with me in a passionate make-out session. I really want to do this with her. I'd appreciate any suggestions on how to fully prepare myself mentally. I'm not afraid of the taste or texture or smell or anything like that...I've tasted mine and to be honest a couple other guys before. It's those nasty post orgasmic blues...any body have a secret on how to avoid them?

My wife got me used to it using anal play and penetration but the first several times she flat out surprised me with kisses after sucking me off. Sort of didn't have a choice or opportunity to bow out.

Tonight's The Night

We're doing this tonight...for sure. I told her she cannot let me back-out and she promised she wouldn't. She just texted me and said she's going to suck me real slow so I build up a good load cause she wants to give me a mouthful. She's as excited as I am and I just find that so incredibly hot. God I love my woman!! I'll post an update and let y'all know if it turns out to be as exciting as the fantasy.

It is exciting. Still is.

Did It!!

She gave me this long wonderful slow job and I came so hard and so long. She took every spurt, squirt, and the even the final dribbles and then she kissed me with the whole mouthful. I hate to say it but the build up and anticipation were allot more fun than the actual cum kiss. I wasn't bothered by the taste, smell, or texture...hell I didn't even really have the post cum blues when she kissed me. I was ready for it. It just didn't turn her on as much as we were thinking it would. She was excited to try it but realistically she's not real fond of cum. She thought she could get past that knowing that she was going to give me a whole mouthful. Oh well...At least we tried it. We're going to take it to the next level. I'm going to cum in her and then eat her out. She's definitely excited about that.

Lol. The bubble has been popped. My wife slowed her excitement over the years but loves for me to do it all manner of ways that she will suggest or set up.

We were very young, early 20’s. My wife gave me a blow job then began to kiss me without swallowing. I suspect she did it out of spite but I just opened my mouth and swirled my tongue in hers to help the transfer. I thought, what the heck, she swallows I might as well too! It wound up turning her on like crazy and the taste was good. It lead to me sucking it out of her after sex and we both enjoyed it. Still sucking it out of my wife and off her tits too,

YUMMMM!!!

I'd really love to try this. I've mostly had it direct from the tap.

I get it direct from the tap as well when my wife is super froggy about it. It is something she loves to masturbate to watching.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I get it direct from the tap as well when my wife is super froggy about it. It is something she loves to masturbate to watching.

I love it so much.

 

[tristantrotsky]

You don't need to prepare. Just do it. If you have to overthink it, probably best not to bother trying.

Exactly, it shouldn't be pre-planned, it should be spontaneous, simply follow your instinct....

 

[LookN2Talk]

Exactly, it shouldn't be pre-planned, it should be spontaneous, simply follow your instinct....

Yep, let it happen. I learned a long time ago, when the lady wants it, do not deny it, no matter what.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Honestly? Turning the girl/woman on is all that it takes for me to do or try anything. If you focus on her excitement, everything is easy.

 

[wouldloveto]

Honestly? Turning the girl/woman on is all that it takes for me to do or try anything. If you focus on her excitement, everything is easy.

I think that sums up how I started. Now it is second nature, even something I crave.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

In the words of Sheryl Sandberg: lean in

 

[devakama469]

Old thread, I know, but I still wanted to add that it's something that you simply have to desire, plain and simple, and if you're forcing yourself into it, it just not going to work.

I of course understand about post-nut clarity, we've all been a victim of that and have stopped short of doing something we were convinced we were going to do before cuming. And for that one thing I've found that really helps is to be super turned on, more than usual, when you're planning on doing something for the first time, something you're interested in but perhaps a little hesitant to when you're not too aroused, etc. Whatever floats your boat, e.g. porn about subject, dirty talking, whatever, do lots and lots of it, sort of edge yourself pretty hard with that one idea front-and-center, and when the time comes, e.g. you cum, just jump right into it immediately without too much thought! You'll realize that not only it was a lot easier than you expected, but also how much you enjoyed actually taking the plunge.

My first cum kiss was a surprise, I thought she'd swallowed all of my cum but, instead, snowballed it into my mouth with a deep and passionate french kiss, and other than unexpected, I found the whole experience so incredibly erotic and arousing! And that's what got me into it, but I can't deny that at times I was still a little hesitant, e.g. going down on a girl after cuming on/in her pussy… so that technique I described is what I used: I edged myself pretty hard with the thought of it, 'cause I knew the reward would be amazing (we both become super aroused for an almost immediate second round), and then I just jumped to devour the pussy after drenching it with my cum.

Super hot! You won't regret it!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

If it's your first or first few do it the second you fill her mouth while your still at your orgasmic level. Many guys lose desire so quickly after orgasm they no longer are in the mood for anything sex related.
No different than filling her pussy just dive right in.
Tell her to kiss you during the blowjob too, tell her you love kissing her after she sucks cock.
Lastly just do it and quit being a baby about it cum isn't going to kill you and you might find that you like it.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

IMO knowing it's going to happen is a plus. It's not something I had even thought about doing and it took me completely by surprise. My wife was often willing to suck my cock, but never to completion. She'd finish it with a hand job and then kiss me. (As an aside, that was how I learned that I like the taste of my cock on her kisses).

After the first time she'd let me cum in her mouth I was lying there taking in the wonder of it all and she came up for our usual post-BJ kiss with my assuming that she'd spit my cum out. Instead I unexpectedly found myself with a mouthful of her tongue and my cum - and I freaked out. Now I'd like for that to happen again (and again and again!) but unfortunately she hasn't tried to do it since. I'm afraid now that I've killed that goose that could have been laying golden eggs.

 

[devakama469]

IMO knowing it's going to happen is a plus. It's not something I had even thought about doing and it took me completely by surprise. My wife was often willing to suck my cock, but never to completion. She'd finish it with a hand job and then kiss me. (As an aside, that was how I learned that I like the taste of my cock on her kisses).

After the first time she'd let me cum in her mouth I was lying there taking in the wonder of it all and she came up for our usual post-BJ kiss with my assuming that she'd spit my cum out. Instead I unexpectedly found myself with a mouthful of her tongue and my cum - and I freaked out. Now I'd like for that to happen again (and again and again!) but unfortunately she hasn't tried to do it since. I'm afraid now that I've killed that goose that could have been laying golden eggs.

Something similar happened to me. I got my cum sucked out to the last drop, and when the kiss was planted deep in my mouth, with my brain still being pretty much deprived of blood for any rational thinking I was surprised to find that mouth full of my cum, and to feel it being fed to me by her tongue in an extremely passionate french kiss… and I was incredibly surprised, no doubt, but very positively, because I absolutely fucking *loved* it!

And I told her so, told her that she'd been a sneaky slut (most definitely NOT an insult ), but that it'd been amazing, and encouraged her to never stop doing it!

 

[Raybies93]

IMO knowing it's going to happen is a plus. It's not something I had even thought about doing and it took me completely by surprise. My wife was often willing to suck my cock, but never to completion. She'd finish it with a hand job and then kiss me. (As an aside, that was how I learned that I like the taste of my cock on her kisses).

After the first time she'd let me cum in her mouth I was lying there taking in the wonder of it all and she came up for our usual post-BJ kiss with my assuming that she'd spit my cum out. Instead I unexpectedly found myself with a mouthful of her tongue and my cum - and I freaked out. Now I'd like for that to happen again (and again and again!) but unfortunately she hasn't tried to do it since. I'm afraid now that I've killed that goose that could have been laying golden eggs.

Just ask her if she’d do it again. You freaked but you’re over it now.

 

[ronandamber]

I have done this with my wife several times. It took a while for me too, and for her. I almost always stay hard or get hard very quickly and fuck her again, and we share the "taste of her love for me" in a tongue swirling cum kiss as we fuck. When I am about to cum again, I spit whatever is in my mouth back into her mouth and tell her to swallow it, as I explode inside her. We have done this about 15 times or so. She always has an orgasm while I am kissing her with it in her mouth.

I often cum in her mouth or all over her pretty face, but she didn't used to do it so openly and lovingly until after the first time I shared a cum kiss with her. She used to dodge or brace for it, and seem to be wincing, it ruined it for me. Now she reaches for it with her tongue out and her eyes glued on me, full of love and that look of orgasm in her eyes. She experiences what I am experiencing with me, as I do. It is absolutely overwhelming. Me sharing the first cum kiss with her, removed all doubt in her mind that me cumming on her face was a degrading act. The "why" was far more important than the actual act of cumming on her face. And now she knows why. She knows I am worshipping her with it, and that I am mesmerized by her beauty and her sexual power. After our first cum kiss, she often wants me to cum in her mouth and on her face, and she almost always cums when the first splatter hits her. It's a magical moment. Heaven on earth.

 

[wideboybrown]

I have done it amd am all for cumswapping amd cumkissing, the whole shebang

 

[Unapologetic_Bull]

This is one of the most loving and intimate things a couple can do.

 

[fredjone]

Most everyone believes that orgasm and ejaculation are the same thing. They are two separate actions. You can train yourself to ejaculate and not orgasm. This will delay the release of prolactin and the refractory period. I am able to bring myself really close to orgasm back off and ejaculate but not orgasm that way I keep my desire and enjoy a cumkiss or eat a creampie. You have to edge and get real close to orgasm. Do this a few time and get to know what will take you over the edge. Find that point and back off. You will find that point where you back off on the orgasm but still ejaculate. This is the 'sweet spot' so to speak. It took some practice but I can bring myself real close to an orgasm and shoot my load. I am still in the mood and can enjoy the cumkiss. You have to practice to find that point. Once you know how to do it you can definitely separate the two.