Prolong Ejaculation Techniques

[richxr7]

I have been trying the kiegel type exercises with my cock everyday now for a couple of weeks. I heard that it will help ejaculation control. To really doesn't seem to have done much. Is their any other techniques that are a possibility?

 

[Different Guy]

I wish mate... I think ya either have it or you don't...

I use Durex Performa condoms with a lube inside that is supposed to prolong... I think with my will power and thought of it working, it has helped.

Slowing down always helps for me to prolong.

If I ain't wearing a condom however, the sensation is way too much and I don't stand a chance.

 

[richxr7]

I wish mate... I think ya either have it or you don't...

I use Durex Performa condoms with a lube inside that is supposed to prolong... I think with my will power and thought of it working, it has helped.

Slowing down always helps for me to prolong.

If I ain't wearing a condom however, the sensation is way too much and I don't stand a chance.

ya thats just it, my wifes so hot and I just can't prolong that too long. I may try those condoms.

 

[Geezerguy]

Ah right I see why you've asked the question now ...

As I already said - you have a lovely wife - so if you are coming quite quickly then that would not surprise me and she could take the view that it is quite flattering that you are so turned on by her. Of course, if this is so soon as to be described as "premature ejaculation" then it could be a problem - but heck I have at least one suggestion - whatever the circumstancce, coming once doesn't mean you can't come again does it?

OK there's going to be some "down" time - pardon the pun. Focus on her needs, cuddle, caress, massage, kiss, lick her etc. Make her come with your tongue and your fingers. My guess is that by the time you've spent sometime doing that you'll be starting to feel aroused again yourself. And you can then go for a second round of intercourse. Even if you can't come again - you can still enjoy the intimacy of being so close to her and inside her.

Again just my view.

 

[Straight-8]

Is their any other techniques that are a possibility?

Getting older worked for me . But really, have a look at the poll in HT Cafe about how long women actually want to be pounded. Work on your 'out of body' play as well; it is probably more important in the long run.

 

[SouthernDom]

From a medical standpoint you can see a urologist that can prescribe a low doseage of antidepressant to be take taken only before sex.......it curbs your sex drive and allows you to last longer.

Or........do what most everyone else does,Viagra to help reload the gun that shoots a lil quicker than you would like for it to.......

 

[cactiphile]

The keigals do help, but dont expect to see much results before at least a month.
I also found that I can multiple times, 3 -5 times in half an hour, no down time.

The other thing to do is emmm practice on your own.
Masturbate to the point of coming, and stop.
Balance there on the edge. See how long you can hold it there.


Two other short cuts is masturbate a few hours before you have sex, sure to slow you down some.

and last if all else fail, if your about to cum too quick, think of Margret Thatcher, naked. This is only for very desperate moments though as it can do you serious psychological damage if used too often.


good luck.

c.

 

[richxr7]

The keigals do help, but dont expect to see much results before at least a month.
I also found that I can multiple times, 3 -5 times in half an hour, no down time.

The other thing to do is emmm practice on your own.
Masturbate to the point of coming, and stop.
Balance there on the edge. See how long you can hold it there.


Two other short cuts is masturbate a few hours before you have sex, sure to slow you down some.

and last if all else fail, if your about to cum too quick, think of Margret Thatcher, naked. This is only for very desperate moments though as it can do you serious psychological damage if used too often.


good luck.

c.

Thanks for the input and the all else fails method I may try lol, appreciate all the help

 

[LoboBoy]

Half an ssri tablet (citalapram, prozac etc) will slow you down big time.

 

[PerthOzMale]

I found for me its hearing my gf moan that does it for me, as if I have achieved what I set out to do. Weird .

Other times I can go for a while and stay hard longer, alcohol usually helps. Other times its just so dammed worked up its all over before it began

 

[richxr7]

Actually its the same with me, as soon as i hear my wife start to cum then i am just ready to pop.

 

[sonali00783]

well my sisters husband had same problem
my sis is too good
they went to a doctor and he told him to think about work while doind sex for a few days and slowly his stamina increased

 

[Different Guy]

...and yet when I managed to block the urge to cum... I then can't and I've worn out my girlfriend...

 

[kman33fl]

For me, it's mostly in my head and what kind of shape I'm in. When I was in my teens and twenties I could go forever. Now I work too much and don't make it to the gym as often as I used to. When I'm tired or not feeling very good, I don't seem to last as long.

If I've been excercising and I'm feeling good, happy not stressed, I can last a long time.

Oh, yea, probably because of being rested, but I last a lot longer in the middle of the day than at night.

Anyone else notice things like this?

 

[kman33fl]

A Joke

A man goes to the doctor and says he can't last but a few minutes when getting a blow job. What can he do about it.

The doctor tells him what to do so he goes home early from work to try it out.

He gets home and finds his wife butt naked on the bed with her legs open and she's all wet! This just turns him on more and he's really worried he won't last. So he tells his wife to close her eyes while he prepares things the way the doctor told him to.

When everythings set up they start making out and he tells her he wants to 69. She asks if he's sure because he doesn't usually last. He says yes and she climbs on top and they go to work on eachother. At nearly the point of no return he reaches under the pillow, pulls out the pistol he had placed there, points it at the ceiling and POW!!! Pulls the trigger!




The next time he goes to the doctor, the doctor inquires about how the method worked. The man stares at the doctor and said, "I only showed up for this appointment to tell you that you give the worst advice in the world!!"

"When I fired that shot it scared my wife so bad she nearly bit my dick off, she shit on my face, and my next door neighbor came out of the closet with his hands up in the air saying, "don't shoot!!"

 

[Maximus11]

Doing Algebra in your head works as a last resort.....................

 

[HeavenCanWait]

yep

Both the 'Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day' and 'algebra' technique work wonders for me. As does the imagining my trip from a to b in great detail.

 

[culloden]

I've found that taking breaks before I need to cum allows us to screw for a long time. After a while of that, she usually gets on top, and I cum fairly soon - usually before her. But not by much, and she can continue to ride me for a time before I get soft. By then, it's routine for her to cum three, four, five times. Try it, she'll like it.

 

[BigGunandBigMan]

Kindof hard to explain, but what I have done is when you feel that orgasm slowly arising kind of try and push it into your stomach so to speak. Works for me in a way and makes me last about 7-10 minutes longer.

 

[SpiritualLover]

reciting the 1980 FA Cup final team in my head generally helps then if that doesn't remembering the 1975 one as well.

 

[DrDav]

Thinking about pregnancy might help some guys

 

[kman33fl]

Thinking about pregnancy might help some guys

Come on doc, we want it to last longer! Not go limp! LOL

 

[DomRick]

I've never heard that Kiegels prolong ejaculation, but they do build the inner muscles that help you with the force of an ejaculation. For me, when nearing orgasm, moderately pinching the head of my cock, or have your significant other do this, for about 15 - 30 seconds. This should give you several more minutes of play time. Repeat as often as necessary. Happy shooting.

 

[Noobix]

To be honest I've read and lost interest in a few essays on lasting longer. The few good things I've gotten out of them are:
1. Breath deeply. Through your nose.
2. Focus on other things. The feeling of the sheets beneath you... The smell in the air. The sounds in the room. The movement of air across your skin. Anything like.
3. Slow down when close to climax. Stop if you have to. Switch positions.
4. If i'm still having troubles I actually go through the alphabet backwards. Starting from A.
Example. "A... B,A... C,B,A... D,C,B,A... E,D,C,B,A..."
It takes my thoughts away from my concern.
5. Another point brought up again and again is the concern with finishing too fast. They say that you dont' HAVE to finish at all and that we are so fixated on it at times that it's half the problem.

I'm not sure this will help but at least you can get some ideas and go from there.
Good luck!

 

[richxr7]

To be honest I've read and lost interest in a few essays on lasting longer. The few good things I've gotten out of them are:
1. Breath deeply. Through your nose.
2. Focus on other things. The feeling of the sheets beneath you... The smell in the air. The sounds in the room. The movement of air across your skin. Anything like.
3. Slow down when close to climax. Stop if you have to. Switch positions.
4. If i'm still having troubles I actually go through the alphabet backwards. Starting from A.
Example. "A... B,A... C,B,A... D,C,B,A... E,D,C,B,A..."
It takes my thoughts away from my concern.
5. Another point brought up again and again is the concern with finishing too fast. They say that you dont' HAVE to finish at all and that we are so fixated on it at times that it's half the problem.

I'm not sure this will help but at least you can get some ideas and go from there.
Good luck!

Those are some really good tips, I will have to try them out and let you all know. However that won't be for about a week. Wife's got her montly friend and doesn't like to play then.