Prolong Ejaculation Techniques

[hangdawg]

Retrograde ejaculation I think

There's a book out called "Male Multiple Orgasm" (I think) that helps beyond what I could've ever hoped for.
Doing the counting and abc's and naming the 7 dwarfs and all that other stuff just takes away from the experience.
So the book deals with cumming as often as you want. Most guys know the down time in between shots. But, whoever wrote the book has a technique so there is no down time. You stay hard straight through the orgasm. The trick is that you cum but don't ejaculate.
Long story short, you do kegel's, practice the technique (alone and with spouse,etc.) and when you think you have it down you get down to doing the naughty.
When you hit the "point of no return" you clamp down which is what the kegel practicing has both strengthened and taught you to do. If you can hold that muscle for long enough you will orgasm but not ejaculate. If you do that you will not lose your erection. You can do that technique as many times as you want and then when you want to be done you orgasm again but don't clamp down.
For me I usually only need to do it once. Once I get off it takes awhile for the second one and by then my wife has gotten off already too.
It takes a little work and practice but man it is well worth it all. I can guarantee that it works.
I think the book is a paperback so it should be cheap, especially if you get it used.

 

[mjl2010]

There's a book out called "Male Multiple Orgasm" (I think) that helps beyond what I could've ever hoped for.
Doing the counting and abc's and naming the 7 dwarfs and all that other stuff just takes away from the experience.
So the book deals with cumming as often as you want. Most guys know the down time in between shots. But, whoever wrote the book has a technique so there is no down time. You stay hard straight through the orgasm. The trick is that you cum but don't ejaculate.
Long story short, you do kegel's, practice the technique (alone and with spouse,etc.) and when you think you have it down you get down to doing the naughty.
When you hit the "point of no return" you clamp down which is what the kegel practicing has both strengthened and taught you to do. If you can hold that muscle for long enough you will orgasm but not ejaculate. If you do that you will not lose your erection. You can do that technique as many times as you want and then when you want to be done you orgasm again but don't clamp down.
For me I usually only need to do it once. Once I get off it takes awhile for the second one and by then my wife has gotten off already too.
It takes a little work and practice but man it is well worth it all. I can guarantee that it works.
I think the book is a paperback so it should be cheap, especially if you get it used.

What hangdawg says is true. I didn't read that book though so I can't comment on it. I got something out a mens mag years ago that described what he's talking about. So sitting in the car, at the desk, right now even I practice those Kegals.

The results take a while, but they are so worth it. Not only do you get those "Dry Cums" but you can last as long as you want. A great benefit when she's gone down on you and you wish it would never end. As I recall, it took three to six months before I was getting tangible results and a couple of years before I mastered complete control.

Another benefit of those exercises, they seem to make your orgasms more intense.

I can't be entirely sure of this part but I think you shoot harder too.

One thing to be prepared for; if you pound her into the bed for an hour, don't expect a second round that night or even the next morning.

MJL

 

[babexbabe]

all i can say is Whisky, not huge amounts, but a few shots an hour or so before works wonders for me.

the thig i find annoying is that i enjoy foreplay soo much that by the time im ready to do the business, im so aroused its over way too fast, luckily by then my wife has enjoyed an hour or so of other activities so she doesnt mind...ithink

 

[KimmyKim]

My boyfriend just masturbates a few hours before we get together... it seems to work okay... only occasionally does he finish before I've had at least one.

 

[Guest]

book

There is a small book by an American sex therapist - "How to make love all night and drive a woman wild", which, despite the title, explains in good detail a method for using kegels for orgasm control.

It is a commitment, but it is a fairly serious work that can bring good results.

Good luck,

Maharat

 

[Hagar]

Instructional Course to Prolong

THE INSTRUCTIONAL COURSE
All of this material is taken from the book Extended Sexual Orgasm by Alan & Donna Brauer; a MARVELOUS little book! This section is "A Ten Step Program for Early Ejaculators". One week on each phase.
Phase I Stimulate by hand for 30 minutes before orgasm. Stopping for control as necessary. Afterwards you can fuck your brains out!
Phase II Full insertion but neither can move their hips. Only pulse by him and squeeze by her is allowed. Practice until both can last for 30 minutes. Afterwards you can fuck your brains out!
Phase III Full insertion thrusting gently but stopping for control and lasting for 30 minutes before orgasm. Afterwards you can fuck your brains out!
Phase IV Full insertion with full thrusting but lasting longer than 30 minutes, preferable one hour. Stop for control as necessary. Afterwards you can fuck your brains out!
Final Exam See how long you can last! heh heh heh heh
Hagar the Horrible

 

[Hagar]

Let's Make It Simple

Let's Make It Simple.
Go to amazon.com and Search --> Titles --> Multiple Male Orgasms and you will get a LONG listing of books on the subject.
Hagar the Horrible

 

[cele2flowers]

Just a couple comments...

There's a book out called "Male Multiple Orgasm" (I think) that helps beyond what I could've ever hoped for.
Doing the counting and abc's and naming the 7 dwarfs and all that other stuff just takes away from the experience.
So the book deals with cumming as often as you want. Most guys know the down time in between shots. But, whoever wrote the book has a technique so there is no down time. You stay hard straight through the orgasm. The trick is that you cum but don't ejaculate.
Long story short, you do kegel's, practice the technique (alone and with spouse,etc.) and when you think you have it down you get down to doing the naughty.
When you hit the "point of no return" you clamp down which is what the kegel practicing has both strengthened and taught you to do. If you can hold that muscle for long enough you will orgasm but not ejaculate. If you do that you will not lose your erection. You can do that technique as many times as you want and then when you want to be done you orgasm again but don't clamp down.
For me I usually only need to do it once. Once I get off it takes awhile for the second one and by then my wife has gotten off already too.
It takes a little work and practice but man it is well worth it all. I can guarantee that it works.
I think the book is a paperback so it should be cheap, especially if you get it used.

There is a small book by an American sex therapist - "How to make love all night and drive a woman wild", which, despite the title, explains in good detail a method for using kegels for orgasm control.

It is a commitment, but it is a fairly serious work that can bring good results.

Good luck,

Maharat

The book mentioned by these 2 is by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., a sex therapist. It's a very good instructional book on accomplishing multiple orgasms for men. It will NOT happen overnight though. But once you've accomplished the exercises, you should be able to do this indefinitely. It teaches you how to pay attention to your body and have more control over it during sex. You can decide when it's time for the final orgasm instead of your body. It's simply training yourself to do it.

On a side note, she has written another book for women called the Super Sexual Orgasm, which will teach women how to experience more than just the clitoral orgasm. All I can say is, it works.

The keigals do help, but dont expect to see much results before at least a month.
I also found that I can multiple times, 3 -5 times in half an hour, no down time.

The other thing to do is emmm practice on your own.
Masturbate to the point of coming, and stop.
Balance there on the edge. See how long you can hold it there.


Two other short cuts is masturbate a few hours before you have sex, sure to slow you down some.

and last if all else fail, if your about to cum too quick, think of Margret Thatcher, naked. This is only for very desperate moments though as it can do you serious psychological damage if used too often.


good luck.

c.

For the short term, I would really recommend some of this. Removing your mind from what is stimulating you, sexually, generally prolongs the ejaculation. Stopping, slowing down, changing positions, inflicting slight pain on yourself, even thinking of Margaret Thatcher (though I've heard of Barbara Bush more often) naked will help temporarily. But these will give you only minutes extra. The book mentioned above will give you indefinite extra minutes.

 

[Hagar]

Some Other Authors You GUYS Should Read

I once had a very wise ladyfriend who had me read books by Ms Keesling and Ms Lou Paget and Ms Laura Corn (101 Nights ,,,). These are geared to pleasing your lady. These really, REALLY improved our relationship!! I highly recommend these to ALL men who want to improve their relationships. Unfortunately the ladyfriend met a guy with over $3 MILLION in the bank and they now go on world cruises. However I will be eternally grateful to her (and some of my recent ladyfriends will be grateful too) for introducing me to these authors. Just go to Amazon.com and search for these auhors.
Hagar the Horrible

 

[tonightsthenigh]

A plain simple (non-vibrating) cock ring works wonders for the lady and me. You can buy them at any adult store for like a dollar or two - my favorite is called the Tiger. You can even use the rubber o-rings sold at Home Depot - measure your circumfrance and buy the right size.

Jani
http://G-gasm.com/blog

 

[jamescomp]

slow you down some.

and last if all else fail, if your about to cum too quick, think of Margret Thatcher, naked. This is only for very desperate moments though as it can do you serious psychological damage if used too often.


yep i guess its a regional thing on what nasty bitch makes your dick go limp for me id just think of barbara bush--- not naked !! if i did that i dont think id be able EVER fuck again . rofl

but the one response above works for me also licking her and using you fingers on her but first this helps me.

the first thing i do is get my dick sucked until i shoot the quick load and then eat her and use the fingers and touching on her until im hard again and i can last a long time after that.your women will think your an awsome lover never knowing the truth.unless of course you know the women realy well and then theres no pretense just have her get you off and THEN you can start the real sex play.

good luck

 

[Snowman5933]

There is a drug called Klonopin (a benzodiazipine) that some doc's prescribe for restless leg. It also prolongs ejaculation, but to frequent use can affect your erection all together.

Snowman