Property markings

[MissDarkKitten]

I desire to be marked, and have yet to have been offered such an opportunity.

 

[wallstreetguy]

Marking...

...is one of the best parts of a Dom/sub experience. I have to mark her. It is essential. For her and for me. And for others to see that she is mine.
I happen to love biting. Especially on breasts and ass. Sometimes on thighs and belly.
I want people to see it when she wears a bathing suit or a skimpy dress or summer wear. And for me to see it in private.
I would never hurt her. I am not into that abusive stuff. No objects are used in marking that are not my body - hands and mouth.
If she complains that it hurts, sometimes I can stop. Sometimes I cannot. Sometimes I do not care. It is not truly painful and again, marking is important to me.
I also need to mark her with cum. Rub it in afterwards. Or have her rub it in. Or walk around with it - not allowed to wash off.
Yes, there are different marks for different circumstances.

 

[skirt_chaser]

Not into extreme pain or abuse. But I like marking a girlfriend as my property. Bites on the neck. Handprints and bruises on her ass and tits. Letting her know she is mine from the passion we shared together.

 

[Fermina_Daza]

Art play is fun and a good way of incorporating touch even in a nonsexual way. After my car accident, I was so banged up there could be no actual, er, banging. When I got really down, J wrote kind words and hearts on me as a light massage. It was playful and fun.

And I do like to see temporary or semi-permanent marks after playing. It does bring back the feelings and emotions experienced receiving them. We talk about permanent marks, but it’s just talk - heat of the moment stuff.

 

[IrisAlthea]

So, what's your stance on marks or being marked - hot or not?

Starting with removable markings like pens, permanent markers or lipstick over to semi-permanent like hickeys, bruises and bite marks or permanent like tattoos or brandings.

Where do you draw the line or what are the requirements for each category?

I’d say two chili peppers on a scale from one to three.

I have fair skin and bruise easily, so a no mark policy would make no sense at all. As far as possible I prefer if it isn’t publicly visible and take extra care ahead of planned doctors visits etc. It’s uncomfortable to have to field the questions but even worse to have to cause the discomfort of the person being put in a situation where they feel the need to ask.

I’ve never been in a relationship with someone who was big on body writing. As a puplic service message from what little experience I have: Don’t let someone write on your forearm and fall asleep with your forehead pressed against it.

Permanent markings are interesting. We actually talked about tatoos linked to a partner or relationship recently. I totally get the thought that feelings and circumstances change and that you might not want the permanent reminder and thst they might be offensive to a new partner.
Personally though, my significant relationships are still significant and in most cases actually still relationships if in another form. Those people left huge marks on me and helped make me who I am. Most of those marks are not on my skin and those that are were not intentional. So no tatoos but kind of facinated with my scars like others have mentioned.
Anyone who has a problem with the fact that I have a past is going to be a poor fit as a new partner anyway.

The location of the mark, permanent or not, is another interesting conversation.

The thought of having a brand on my ass feels delightfully humiliating and cattle-like, which is a big plus. But at the same time it would be lovely to have the mark somewhere where I could see it as well.

There is something about the word property, isn’t there.

 

[lanceGibs]

I’d say two chili peppers on a scale from one to three.

I have fair skin and bruise easily, so a no mark policy would make no sense at all. As far as possible I prefer if it isn’t publicly visible and take extra care ahead of planned doctors visits etc. It’s uncomfortable to have to field the questions but even worse to have to cause the discomfort of the person being put in a situation where they feel the need to ask.

I’ve never been in a relationship with someone who was big on body writing. As a puplic service message from what little experience I have: Don’t let someone write on your forearm and fall asleep with your forehead pressed against it.

Permanent markings are interesting. We actually talked about tatoos linked to a partner or relationship recently. I totally get the thought that feelings and circumstances change and that you might not want the permanent reminder and thst they might be offensive to a new partner.
Personally though, my significant relationships are still significant and in most cases actually still relationships if in another form. Those people left huge marks on me and helped make me who I am. Most of those marks are not on my skin and those that are were not intentional. So no tatoos but kind of facinated with my scars like others have mentioned.
Anyone who has a problem with the fact that I have a past is going to be a poor fit as a new partner anyway.



There is something about the word property, isn’t there.

Welts at the right places would be interesting and exciting .

 

[seela]

Personally though, my significant relationships are still significant and in most cases actually still relationships if in another form. Those people left huge marks on me and helped make me who I am. Most of those marks are not on my skin and those that are were not intentional. So no tatoos but kind of facinated with my scars like others have mentioned.
Anyone who has a problem with the fact that I have a past is going to be a poor fit as a new partner anyway.

Ding ding ding! This describes it perfectly for me as well. Significant relationships stay significant to me even after they're over. It's both a blessing and a curse.

I'm more in the scars and burn marks camp myself too, but wouldn't say no to a tattoo either as long as it isn't something like initials or overtly BDSM and cliched. It'd have to be meaningful and reflect the relationship, not "BDSM" as it's usually portrayed and recognized.

And yes, property, cattle... Good stuff.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Bumping

 

[kerijane]

I'm awkward and solitary, not much of a relationship girl, so for me being marked is more sensual than it is sentimental, more for them than it is for me. And I’m okay with that.

So, I like it when they leave me bruised and welted and too sore to walk right, covered with marks that I feel under my clothes every time I move and remind me constantly what I am. The only permanent markings on my body are scars, most of which I gave to myself, and though I'm not opposed to tattoos and piercings they don’t result spontaneously and that loses something for me. I have to say though, the idea of being covered by tattoos like a well-used sticker-plastered suitcase that's been around the world does seem kind of hawt. I've never been branded but I don’t think I’d say NO. There is something abject, primal and just so brutally erotic about labels being seared into my skin. The pain of the act I’d suffer appreciatively for their pleasure, being marked forever as their livestock a privilege for which I would willingly spend the rest of my life paying.

Just my worthless $0.02.

 

[cripple92996]

please turn on your profile

 

[ToPleaseHim]

please turn on your profile

Ew. Don’t do that.

 

[cascadiabound]

Much will depend on the relationship with partners. While branding and tattoo's are permanent and difficult to alter if a relationship changes, there are options, temporary tattoo's being one. Modern temporary tattoo's can last 4-6 weeks and provide that marking, especially when associated with play, that a couple desire. They are great and the person being marked has the comfort of knowing that ultimately it will be gone.

I like appropriate piercings. Done correctly, these are personal to the partners, and they too once removed leave minimal visible evidence.

I am not so much a fan of using marking pens. If you use the incorrect pen, and I have seen this, the writing can take a long time to fade and disappear, even when using turps or other product to remove the ink, if possible. This is where temporary tattoo's are I believe much better.

We have talked about temporary tattoos at some length. I really like the idea of it. I really can't imagine getting an actual tattoo as part of signifyinga BDSM relationship. There are few tattoos I have seen that really appeal to me personally, and as a nurse, I have seen a LOT of body art... when done well I often admire it. I love that it tells a story and am grateful when people choose to share what their tattoos mean.

I do like the idea of a lot of different kinds of temporary marking. Ink, lipstick, bruises... in non public places, as so many others have said. I have fantasized about rope work and paint brush marking... I think it would make me feel very submissive, his and I think the combination of rope marks and paint on my body would be very erotic.

I had never heard about using botox to create erect nipples for weeks at a time (I am intrigued), but I have been asked to wear tiny bands around my nipples which give the same effect. I love how sensitive it makes me and how extra aware I become of my body. I like that it makes me appear more sexual and available.... with the possibility of embarrasment. A signifier that I am his and will do things to please him. Idk... is that marking?

Interesting discussion.

As TPH said, it's personal and situational.

 

[Kinkykay21]

I would love to be marked by someone but until sure of that person nothing permanent

 

[WishesforRome]

Hot... love tattoos, art, symbols so marking very intimate and intriguing to me

 

[Enthralling15]

Yes.. all of this...

 

[PapaRomantic]

Something that is perhaps permanent and yet not entirely permanent...

Most farmers are now using ear tags on their livestock, including some that send out radio waves so they can be tracked and located. Granted they use large plastic or metal tags that would seem strange on a human, but I would think a smaller tag similar to an earring could be secured through a piercing and might actually be quite tasteful and very personal.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ear_tag

 

[DappleDoxie]

I miss the necklace I wore for years ... but a permanent marking is a no go for me.

 

[shemyezza]

I must confess I do like the idea of a tattoo maybe a small pink butterfly or a rose with my mistress initials entwined may be on my thigh or butt, some where that would not show in the office but the beach or when in shorts would be so hot. We do have some semi permanent transfers that we use on occaisions but its not really the same thing

 

[pumperguy191]

When we first started a FLR with chastity, we agreed that I would be tattooed. I had no input into the design. Things got put on hold due to COVID and recently, I was marked. Here you go. I love it.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

When we first started a FLR with chastity, we agreed that I would be tattooed. I had no input into the design. Things got put on hold due to COVID and recently, I was marked. Here you go. I love it.

I love that!! It looks great!

 

[pumperguy191]

I love that!! It looks great!

Thank you. She has the key on her forearm. Not posting that one "publicly"

 

[Moochienanu]

I love being reminded every time I see it.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Markings can be quite fun and quite meaningful

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

https://imgur.com/a/hfzyYJt

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That's my left tit