Prostate Massagers - Vibrate or No?

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

For those who use or have used prostate massagers, do you prefer them to be vibrating or not?

It's been a long time since I used a vibrating toy because I remember it sort of making me numb after a while. But I've gotten much more experienced in my anal play and how to relax, where to focus, etc. and am considering a new vibrating massager.

I like my standard massager but it is very much a slow go affair and is really more about creating wonderful sensations that significantly enhance my eventual orgasm. Only one time have I had an actual prostate orgasm and that is after A LOT of attempts.

To be clear, I'm talking about shaped massagers not plugs or dildos.

What say you all?

 

[TheVegasMark]

I just want something on my PSpot...!!...Especially when my cum starts to move to load up a release...I believe that is a slice of heaven...!!

 

[leftwantingmore]

I use both.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

I use both.

Cool. Do you have a preference? Do you have insights to what each type does for you?

 

[leftwantingmore]

Cool. Do you have a preference? Do you have insights to what each type does for you?

I agree that prolonged use of heavy vibration can cause a numbness, more like a desensitivity more than numb.
My vibe toys are silicone. A butt plug the vibrates and several dildos that vibrate. Non vibe, I have a realistic dildo with balls, 8" long and kind of thick. Heavy duty suction cup. It strays where you stick it. One of my favorite ones is a 5 1/2" glass curved dildo. Bulbous end. I love it for stimulating the anal ring. Also, it is long enough to reach my prostate. Glass is smooth, easy to sterilize, you can easily play with temps, warm or cold and glass has a great tactile feel. You can really feel the anal ring resist being entered. When you find your prostate with it you can trace its shape and you know where you are. If at that point you want some vibration, just touch any vibrator to the end. VIbrations travel very well through glass. My opinion, others may have different experiences.

 

[Mustang61]

I don't think mine is a massager, or any of mine are, more like vibrators... It kisses the clit while pulsating the spot, but I have one on stand in case I over exert it and need the back up....

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

I don't think mine is a massager, or any of mine are, more like vibrators... It kisses the clit while pulsating the spot, but I have one on stand in case I over exert it and need the back up....

Ma'am!

In your case, the pleasure is irrespective of the toy type but rather that you are the one wielding it.

 

[Mustang61]

Ma'am!

In your case, the pleasure is irrespective of the toy type but rather that you are the one wielding it.

Isn't that true of massagers? You control the massager, no?

 

[Mustang61]

Isn't that true of massagers? You control the massager, no?

Ok, I don't have a prostate... My pardon... Sir! Lol...

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Isn't that true of massagers? You control the massager, no?

Fair enough but my point was that with you being the one controlling the activity that there is a lot more to consider than just the toy itself.

 

[Mustang61]

Fair enough but my point was that with you being the one controlling the activity that there is a lot more to consider than just the toy itself.

I misread, Sir... And, understand...

 

[write_or_wrong]

I bought a high-end combo unit, massager and vibrator - even stimulates my perineum - and although it feels good in general, I have yet to get an orgasm out of it. I have tried "manual" where I move it around, noticing the different feelings, and "vibrate" which has over a dozen patterns plus adjustable intensity. Neither gets me there. Advice I have gotten from Lit users is to keep trying because my ass needs to learn how to react to it.

 

[Lumpy2]

I see that there are models that thrust and twist. Thinking about buying one, can anyone give me a review?

 

[oneoffAkind]

Vibrating one is soooo good on my spot

 

[HughManitee]

Depends on the mood, sometimes I crave vibration, some times I crave deeper penetration

 

[write_or_wrong]

Vibrating one is soooo good on my spot

Have you noticed any of the desensitization that others have reported from the vibrations?

 

[CuriousJBD]

I have the PlusOne dual head arc vibrator. The smaller end I call little Jimmy and the big end I call big Jim. My preferred vibration pattern is the pulsing one rather than constant speed. I love the big Jim end. When it pops through my ass just sucks it out of my hand and deep. I get whole body spasms!!!! Wow

On sale at Walmart now for $17.99.

 

[Lumpy2]

I have the PlusOne dual head arc vibrator. The smaller end I call little Jimmy and the big end I call big Jim. My preferred vibration pattern is the pulsing one rather than constant speed. I love the big Jim end. When it pops through my ass just sucks it out of my hand and deep. I get whole body spasms!!!! Wow

On sale at Walmart now for $17.99.

Thanks I will pick one up.

 

[awired50]

I have the Aneros Vice and it vibrates. Produces wonderful orgasms. Internal and external.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I have the Aneros Vice and it vibrates. Produces wonderful orgasms. Internal and external.

Very glad to read that, thanks. I have the same toy but haven't yet had your good results. Did you do anything special with it? Or did you try various angles, depths, thrusts, speeds, etc., until you found one or more that worked? Advice I have gotten here is to just keep trying because my ass needs to "learn" how to react to the toy. Okay, will do. Eager student here.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I have a vibrating and thrusting prostate massager that I really enjoy-I'm not always in the mood for the thrusting or the vibrating, so sometimes it just gets manual usage. However, the vibrating does add a different dimension of play

 

[awired50]

Very glad to read that, thanks. I have the same toy but haven't yet had your good results. Did you do anything special with it? Or did you try various angles, depths, thrusts, speeds, etc., until you found one or more that worked? Advice I have gotten here is to just keep trying because my ass needs to "learn" how to react to the toy. Okay, will do. Eager student here.

Takes time. Usually 20-30 minutes to start feeling the orgasm coming on. Lotsa lube. I use coconut oil. Also Kegels help. squeeze the massager. Most of all patience and the time to allow yourself to let go and relax. Well worth it

 

[Lumpy2]

I have a vibrating and thrusting prostate massager that I really enjoy-I'm not always in the mood for the thrusting or the vibrating, so sometimes it just gets manual usage. However, the vibrating does add a different dimension of play

I would think that thrusting would feel great. What is the brand name of yours

 

[CuriousJBD]

Thanks I will pick one up.

I suspect you will enjoy it!

 

[oneoffAkind]

Have you noticed any of the desensitization that others have reported from the vibrations?

Hmmm, good question. Using both with and without vibration but I’ll take notes next time.