Prostate play is my new obsession!

I have had many partners in the past who enjoyed and engaged in prostate play with me, but my current partner and I are just beginning this journey together. We had many conversations and I had to do a lot of explaining about my desires and why it is so damn pleasurable. Once all the cards were on the table and she had some time to think about it, I think she realized that she might be missing out on something by not giving it a try. Have you told your partner or partners in the past about your interest. Many men are willing to go to great lengths to fulfill their wives or girlfriend's fantasies. I would try being honest about your interests and perhaps offer to reward your partner with fulfillment of a fantasy of their own if they agree to be a willing participant in a "try something new" sexperiment.


Sounds like you're on to it with the new partner if she's slowly opening up to the idea.
Does she let you return the favour to her? Sure hope so!
 
Is it just as pleasurable as using a finger or stimulator?

I haven't replied in this thread since I discovered anal play very early and didn't need any convincing. As for pegging, it all depends. My philosophy is "bigger is better" when it comes to anal toys, so I love it. If your partner has any hangups about anal play making him gay or if penetration with two fingers is painful then I would say to hold off on the pegging.

Forgive me if these are things you already know but some others may be new to this so here's some general advice.

1. Some people have natural oils and salts on their hands that can sting the delicate tissues. Consider using a latex glove (unless there are allergy issues).
2. Always use plenty of lube.
3. Trim and file any rough spots on your fingers with an emery board.
 
No success

I am still trying to get the wife to do this. While she was riding on top, she asked what I wanted. I said for her to fuck me. She then stated " You want to be my bitch" (never in a million years have I thought I would hear her say that). That made me so excited that I almost emptied into her.

Since then, I have put the vibe right next to her to grab, with my ass right there, but nothing has happened.

It was a big step for me to do the things I have done. I am wanting her to take the next step.
 
Haven't been on this thread in awhile due to hectic life and little to no progress to report in terms of getting my current shy partner more interested in exploring prostate pleasures. Recently, we began talking about it a bit more than usual and I found myself answering more questions about hypothetical situations and explaining the intensity of the pleasure I feel from it in greater detail. Whereas before she would become shy and withdrawn during previous conversations, now something had changed and it was clear she had a new interest in the subject. She proposed that I use my prostate stimulator next time we have sex. This was a fantastic breakthrough with her and my cock was leaking precum in my pants just talking to her about prostate play so frankly with her. The next evening when things were heating up I asked her if she wanted me to get my toy. She became shy again and I reassured her telling her I didn't need it and we didn't have to do it tonight, but she told me to go get it and lets try it. I got my toy and she watched with curiosity as I lubed it up and slid it effortlessly in, it pressing firmly against my prostate. She was shocked how fast my cock began to drip and leak precum from the toys pressure. She asked me to show her how I contract the muscles and bring the toy to rub and massage my prostate and I showed her with much fascination. She seemed very turned on by the steady flow of precum and before I knew it she was asking if she could suck me. I naturally obliged and enjoyed the delightful pleasures of her tongue and mouth as I used my muscles to milk precum into her waiting mouth. It was so pleasurable to feel her mouth and the prostate stimulation. It felt as if my whole cock were enveloped in the sweetest of pleasures. Every part of my body humming and throbbing with intense arousal. I warned her that I could not take much more and she surprised me by telling me she wanted me to cum for her. She began to stroke the bottom of my cock with her hand as she licked the head and frenulum of my cock with her warm, wet, tongue. It felt so good and I knew I was a goner. She then surprised me by grabbing hold of the handle of the Aneros and moving it about a bit inside me, tentative at first, but my moans made her bolder. I lost myself in the pleasures of the moment and watched as my cum erupted over her waiting tongue and face. Afterwards she was shocked by the volume of ejaculate and actually said that "that was awesome." I am very excited about what the future may hold.

I got very excited reading this! You made me recall some of my earlier experiences with prostate stimulation while reading this and had me very aroused and very wet. You keep posting and I will keep reading and enjoying, haha. Sounds like you are in for a real treat as she gets more comfortable with this. Just make sure she's getting well pleasured in return.
 
Absolutely. She knows that I am above all else a "giver" in eh bedroom and that I am more than happy to cater to any and all of her desires. Although her own tens to be a bit more on the timid side than my own.

Well that just woke me up 'happy to cater to any and all of her desires'
Ahhhh that's one lucky lady
 
Plans for this evening...

My husband is upstairs right now and I am about to head up and try to coax him into some sex with his Aneros inserted. We haven't used it in a while and I am so horny today. I can't wait to tease him with some deep passionate kissing and a nice slow sensual blowjob before lubing him and his toy up and watching his ass swallow it deep and that first splurge of precum as the toy first pushes against his prostate. Then climbing aboard and riding him until he cums hard emptying his balls deep inside me.
 
My husband is upstairs right now and I am about to head up and try to coax him into some sex with his Aneros inserted. We haven't used it in a while and I am so horny today. I can't wait to tease him with some deep passionate kissing and a nice slow sensual blowjob before lubing him and his toy up and watching his ass swallow it deep and that first splurge of precum as the toy first pushes against his prostate. Then climbing aboard and riding him until he cums hard emptying his balls deep inside me.

It sounds like a delightful evening for you guys. :)
 
My husband is upstairs right now and I am about to head up and try to coax him into some sex with his Aneros inserted. We haven't used it in a while and I am so horny today. I can't wait to tease him with some deep passionate kissing and a nice slow sensual blowjob before lubing him and his toy up and watching his ass swallow it deep and that first splurge of precum as the toy first pushes against his prostate. Then climbing aboard and riding him until he cums hard emptying his balls deep inside me.

Sounds like fun !
 
Pegging

As hubby and I explore prostate play further, I have become a bit curious about pegging. The thought turns me on, but I wonder if the realization would. Is it just as pleasurable as using a finger or stimulator?

I think it is more pleasurable but it can depend on the position, the visuals, everything.

My anal virginity was taken with a strapon that was about the thickness of 3 pencils put together and about 7 inches long. That is not very big but she knew how to use it and I had the best orgasm I have ever had through anal play. For me a big part of it was visual, she had me in a "Love Swing" face up so I could watch her fuck me. She took a lot of time to make sure it felt okay etc before fucking me faster and harder. She had a very nice orgasm first from fucking me and that turned me on immensely. I would have cum with her but she had a cock ring on me. When she was ready for me to cum, she took off the cock ring and it was amazing how powerful the orgasm was.

It was not about the size, it was about her hitting my spot, and all the sights and sounds of the act that did it for me. She was enjoying herself just as much as I was.

In another scene, my gf had on a strapon and had me get on top, Cowgirl style facing her. In that position, she could watch me and had her hands free to play with my nipples, chest, dick, etc. And unlike prostate play with a finger or two, it was up to me to fuck myself. I was unsure how to even thrust in that position since I had not ever done it before. But I learned quickly with her help and soon I was thrusting like crazy with her cheering me on. The result was another amazing orgasm and a great show for her.

More pegging Questions? Feel free to PM me or ask on here!

ES
 
My husband is upstairs right now and I am about to head up and try to coax him into some sex with his Aneros inserted. We haven't used it in a while and I am so horny today. I can't wait to tease him with some deep passionate kissing and a nice slow sensual blowjob before lubing him and his toy up and watching his ass swallow it deep and that first splurge of precum as the toy first pushes against his prostate. Then climbing aboard and riding him until he cums hard emptying his balls deep inside me.

hope your evening was great!!
 
Fun last evening...

Last night went pretty much as planned. It didn't take much to convince my husband to give me some attention when I told him how I had been wanting him all day and how wet I was for him. I proceeded with my plan beginning with some slow and sensual kissing as I rubbed him through his pajama pants. He grew hard in a few moments and I relished the feeling of his throbbing cock in my hands. I asked him if he would let me take control and follow my lead and he said sure with a grin on his face. I then pulled off his pants and made my pussy drip with wetness as I sucked and licked his cock giving hi a spectacular blow job. Then I grabbed the lube and prepped his Aneros before sliding it slowly inside him and watching his ass swallow the toy to the hilt. Putting in the toy for him always makes me feel so fucking naughty and it makes me so hot. I used he handle to tease the toy inside him for a bit and then watched the precum start to flow, happily licking off each drop as it cascaded over the tip of his thick cock head. I then climbed aboard and began to ride him. I was slow at first but soon
my own need took hold and I was bucking and writhing on him seeking my own organs lost in pleasure. I needed to cum and told my husband to his surprise that I was already going to. He smiled and grabbed my ass pulling me against him harder and rocking his hips to grind himself into me deeper. I closed my eyes tight and felt my body tighten an clench until my orgasm exploded through me taking my breath away and making me moan like a wanton whore. After I calmed down I spun around reverse cowgirl and let hubby enjoy the view of me working his cock inside my wet slippery cunt and told him to let me know when he was close. It didn't take long for him to warn me. I pulled off him and kneeled between his legs taking him into my mouth as my right hand stroked the base of his cock. He moaned and arched his body in pleasure and I grabbed the toy handle still inside him and pulled it down towards the bed hard against his prostate. I bobbed and jerks it there as I continued to suck and stroke him. He groaned and erupted into my
mouth hard and with too much volume for me to handle. I tried my best to swallow it all but had to let a bit spill out and onto his stomach. He came so much and it was so damn sexy.
 
Last night went pretty much as planned. It didn't take much to convince my husband to give me some attention when I told him how I had been wanting him all day and how wet I was for him. I proceeded with my plan beginning with some slow and sensual kissing as I rubbed him through his pajama pants. He grew hard in a few moments and I relished the feeling of his throbbing cock in my hands. I asked him if he would let me take control and follow my lead and he said sure with a grin on his face. I then pulled off his pants and made my pussy drip with wetness as I sucked and licked his cock giving hi a spectacular blow job. Then I grabbed the lube and prepped his Aneros before sliding it slowly inside him and watching his ass swallow the toy to the hilt. Putting in the toy for him always makes me feel so fucking naughty and it makes me so hot. I used he handle to tease the toy inside him for a bit and then watched the precum start to flow, happily licking off each drop as it cascaded over the tip of his thick cock head. I then climbed aboard and began to ride him. I was slow at first but soon
my own need took hold and I was bucking and writhing on him seeking my own organs lost in pleasure. I needed to cum and told my husband to his surprise that I was already going to. He smiled and grabbed my ass pulling me against him harder and rocking his hips to grind himself into me deeper. I closed my eyes tight and felt my body tighten an clench until my orgasm exploded through me taking my breath away and making me moan like a wanton whore. After I calmed down I spun around reverse cowgirl and let hubby enjoy the view of me working his cock inside my wet slippery cunt and told him to let me know when he was close. It didn't take long for him to warn me. I pulled off him and kneeled between his legs taking him into my mouth as my right hand stroked the base of his cock. He moaned and arched his body in pleasure and I grabbed the toy handle still inside him and pulled it down towards the bed hard against his prostate. I bobbed and jerks it there as I continued to suck and stroke him. He groaned and erupted into my
mouth hard and with too much volume for me to handle. I tried my best to swallow it all but had to let a bit spill out and onto his stomach. He came so much and it was so damn sexy.

Nice ! Which model Aneros does he have Tammy?
 
Wow that was a hot story Tammy! Thanks for sharing !

I really like the Cowgirl position when there is a toy in my ass. I am VERY hard for her and it seems like her thrusting on top of me pushes the toy deeper inside and is very pleasurable.

ES
 
He has the Aneros Helix, but now that prostate pleasuring has become a regular part of our sex life, we have begun thinking about adding additional toys to his collection.
 
He has the Aneros Helix, but now that prostate pleasuring has become a regular part of our sex life, we have begun thinking about adding additional toys to his collection.

Consider the Vice for some vibrating fun...just sayin'
 
Last night went pretty much as planned. It didn't take much to convince my husband to give me some attention when I told him how I had been wanting him all day and how wet I was for him. I proceeded with my plan beginning with some slow and sensual kissing as I rubbed him through his pajama pants. He grew hard in a few moments and I relished the feeling of his throbbing cock in my hands. I asked him if he would let me take control and follow my lead and he said sure with a grin on his face. I then pulled off his pants and made my pussy drip with wetness as I sucked and licked his cock giving hi a spectacular blow job. Then I grabbed the lube and prepped his Aneros before sliding it slowly inside him and watching his ass swallow the toy to the hilt. Putting in the toy for him always makes me feel so fucking naughty and it makes me so hot. I used he handle to tease the toy inside him for a bit and then watched the precum start to flow, happily licking off each drop as it cascaded over the tip of his thick cock head. I then climbed aboard and began to ride him. I was slow at first but soon
my own need took hold and I was bucking and writhing on him seeking my own organs lost in pleasure. I needed to cum and told my husband to his surprise that I was already going to. He smiled and grabbed my ass pulling me against him harder and rocking his hips to grind himself into me deeper. I closed my eyes tight and felt my body tighten an clench until my orgasm exploded through me taking my breath away and making me moan like a wanton whore. After I calmed down I spun around reverse cowgirl and let hubby enjoy the view of me working his cock inside my wet slippery cunt and told him to let me know when he was close. It didn't take long for him to warn me. I pulled off him and kneeled between his legs taking him into my mouth as my right hand stroked the base of his cock. He moaned and arched his body in pleasure and I grabbed the toy handle still inside him and pulled it down towards the bed hard against his prostate. I bobbed and jerks it there as I continued to suck and stroke him. He groaned and erupted into my
mouth hard and with too much volume for me to handle. I tried my best to swallow it all but had to let a bit spill out and onto his stomach. He came so much and it was so damn sexy.

That's really hot; please call my wife!
 
That's really hot; please call my wife!

Have you told her about your interest? You rarely get what you never ask for and communication about sex is a vital part of a healthy relationship. I approached my husband about this and it has been an amazing addition to our sex lives. I only wish we had talked about it and I had shared my interest with him sooner.
 
Have you told her about your interest? You rarely get what you never ask for and communication about sex is a vital part of a healthy relationship. I approached my husband about this and it has been an amazing addition to our sex lives. I only wish we had talked about it and I had shared my interest with him sooner.

I absolutely agree. Communication is everything. Not talking about is missing a chance for something special for both. :cool:
 
I gotta get that!!! I am obsessed w/inducing a hands free orgasm where i be soft or throbbing. I need outside help, but am totoally addicted to prostate milking. Mmmmmmm damn!!!!

It is extremely reasonable if you look around for it. :cool:
 
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