Prostate play is my new obsession!

[jakereeder22]

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[twister947]

Buy a book on prostate play and leave it on the nightstand.

 

[Mike4fun]

Okay so you definitely don't think it would be a good idea for me to buy a toy and that it would be better to get him used to me using my fingers first before mentioning something like the Aneros stimulators?

There's no harm in mentioning it, just don't try it first go. They're generally wider than ladies fingers and may put him off. On the flip side though, if he is apprehensive or self conscious about you touching him there, it may be a good option.

I love being fingered/toyed in my ass. I simply asked for it, first my hinting to gauge a reaction and then straight out saying "You know, i tried a prostate massage on myself and it was awesome". My partner then asked what it was etc., and she simply offered.

You can also gauge how into it he may be if he gets into you touching him or tonguing him there. If he enjoys it, try simply rubbing the outside of his opening and you'll know if he wants more.

Enjoy!

Mike

 

[tammyw]

Buy a book on prostate play and leave it on the nightstand.

Do you have any recommendations? I think I would love to read a book about prostate stimulation to increase my knowledge as well as for my own enjoyment. It would be an added bonus if I could use it to prompt discussion with my husband.

 

[denicegirl]

I posted a comment about that on a thread about fleshlights and can testify to how great it feels.

As to the original poster. I am sure that I, like many of the other men on the site, only wish they discovered the pleasures of prostate stimulation sooner. Ease your husband into it, present him with information from on here or other forums such as the Aneros forum and let him decide when he is interested. My bet is that he has probably heard something about it at some point and is probably already a bit curious if you have begun to work way closer and closer to that region during sex. Confessing our desires to our partners is not always easy and is not always received well, however, I truly believe that being open with your husband about your desires is far more likely to get you what you want then keeping them from him or him finding out about your secret another way. I was in a relationship where my significant other once found my prostate stimulator and there was a lot of explaning to do. In the end, after presenting the information and my experiences with pleasure from prostate stimulation, my partner understood my having the toy and eventually even became curious enough to use it with me during oral and regular sex and prior to our relationship ending, she was comfortable with using her finger to stimulate my prostate while jerking me off or during oral sex.

I would also be curious like the original poster, about women and or men's experiences with introducing prostate stimulation to their partners. How did you ask for or ask to? Or did you just act on it?

I introduced my husband to prostate stimulation after reading bits a pieces alluding to how pleasurable it could be in Cosmo. I basically followed your advice and let my husband know I was interested in trying it. At first, he like many other men I am sure, was reluctant to try it. I was persistant and presented him with some information about it and one night while I was performing fellatio on him I let my hand slip over his balls and further south. I began rubbing his ass hole gently with the pads of my index and middle finger and when he tensed up a bit I asked him if he wanted me to stop. When he said no and relaxed again I asked if he would like me to get some lube. I told him that we didnt have to go any further and that we can stop at any time. Trust is really important here and I think it was his trust in me and my strong desire to please him that helped him through our first experience with prostate play. After I lubed him up I massaged him more and worked the tip of my finger in his opening, allowing him to adjust to the sensation. I continued to kiss, lick and tease his cock with my mouth as I pushed my well lubed middle finger into him. I pressed upward and gently massaged his prostate asking him to make sure it felt okay. Initially he said it felt wierd, but when I asked him if he wanted to stop he said it was okay and that I could continue. Soon he was dribbling precum, more than i had ever seen before and he told me it was starting to feel different in a teasingly good way. I asked him if he wanted to try to cum like this and when he told me yes, I took him into my mouth to suck him to orgasm as I massaged his prostate. When he came in my mouth, I could not believe how hard he cummed. I usually swallow but it was too much for me. Now my husband and I play this way regularly and have even used a few toys.

Keep trying tammyw and good luck!

 

[tammyw]

I introduced my husband to prostate stimulation after reading bits a pieces alluding to how pleasurable it could be in Cosmo. I basically followed your advice and let my husband know I was interested in trying it. At first, he like many other men I am sure, was reluctant to try it. I was persistant and presented him with some information about it and one night while I was performing fellatio on him I let my hand slip over his balls and further south. I began rubbing his ass hole gently with the pads of my index and middle finger and when he tensed up a bit I asked him if he wanted me to stop. When he said no and relaxed again I asked if he would like me to get some lube. I told him that we didnt have to go any further and that we can stop at any time. Trust is really important here and I think it was his trust in me and my strong desire to please him that helped him through our first experience with prostate play. After I lubed him up I massaged him more and worked the tip of my finger in his opening, allowing him to adjust to the sensation. I continued to kiss, lick and tease his cock with my mouth as I pushed my well lubed middle finger into him. I pressed upward and gently massaged his prostate asking him to make sure it felt okay. Initially he said it felt wierd, but when I asked him if he wanted to stop he said it was okay and that I could continue. Soon he was dribbling precum, more than i had ever seen before and he told me it was starting to feel different in a teasingly good way. I asked him if he wanted to try to cum like this and when he told me yes, I took him into my mouth to suck him to orgasm as I massaged his prostate. When he came in my mouth, I could not believe how hard he cummed. I usually swallow but it was too much for me. Now my husband and I play this way regularly and have even used a few toys.

Keep trying tammyw and good luck!

I just got on here and want to thank you for the lovely post denicegirl. It was beautifully written and provided me with both great information and damp panties. I love that you shared your story and hope that I can have the same degree of success with introducing prostate stimulation into our sex lives. How often do you stimulate your husband's prostate and what kinds of toys are you using? Any other recommendations for me?

 

[Kal1991]

I can't wait to have some fun once my parents go away, desperate to feel something, anything inside me.

 

[tammyw]

I can't wait to have some fun once my parents go away, desperate to feel something, anything inside me.

What do you usually use?

 

[Kal1991]

What do you usually use?

I bought my own vibrator, it's not big or anything but it's so feels so nice and it curves to reach all the places it should. I do tend to be really loud when I use it though so that's why I'm glad the parents are going away.

 

[Acetabulum]

Aneros

So i bought one of these after doing my research. It was pretty spendy at the time, but not all that bad at about 79$. The bad thing..the teaser tab in the front. My Aneros helix is really nice, but the front tab will shred you if not careful.

An orgasm with it in is fairly intense. I've been good enough to just do some pelvic floor exercises and I get a lot of pre-ejaculate to form. But then i get bored and end up jerking off. The resultant spasm can be felt as your anus contracts which forces the head of the aneros back against your prostate, which increases the sensation...and it's kind of a wicked feed back loop. So the longer you tease yourself, and the harder you cum....The harder you KEEP comming due to the increased prostate stim.

I've tried other toys to no avail. Just can't get the right angle.

I'm open to answering any questions on it though. I enjoy prostate play.

 

[shark968]

I've seen guys using Aneros prostate products and it is kind of amazing to watch. There are videos of guys using them where the amount of precum is absolutely insane. I mean, oozing all over the place. They get an amazing orgasm from it.

A thread in here about Fleshlights had a comment about using Aneros and Fleshlight together. Since both of those products make for a pretty fucking hot orgasm on their own, I seriously want to see a guy use both.

I've done this once before. It was very intense... very intense..

 

[FragileUnbroken]

I've done this once before. It was very intense... very intense..

I actually found a couple of videos where guys did it. It looked intense, but from a video stand point, just a guy with a Fleshlight is equally entertaining.

 

[twister947]

Do you have any recommendations? I think I would love to read a book about prostate stimulation to increase my knowledge as well as for my own enjoyment. It would be an added bonus if I could use it to prompt discussion with my husband.

http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=6-3-AA-1202&lref=Cat_catalog70002_cat33893__6

 

[bareman]

I havent been on here in awhile due to time constraints, but I pop on every now and then and lurk around the discussion boards. Anyway, I have been reading a few isolated threads here and there about prostate stimulation that got my juices flowing. For some reason the more I read about it and the more videos I watch of couples exploring this form of pleasure, the more persistant my fantasies to explore this with my man become. My husband is a bit shy about that area, but I have a feeling he would enjoy it based on a few tentative explorations and rubbing of the area during oral sex. I am curious about how some of the ladies on here introduced this subject or stimulation into their sex lifes and for any tips on how to get my man interested. I have also been seeing a couple of threads about toys on the board and was curious about whether or not using a prostate stimulator would be better for our first time or if it is something you work up to. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

Tammy

My introduction to prostate play was a number of years ago when my then wife was giving me a blowjob. She slid down to pay attention to my balls while jacking me off, then went lower yet and started some tongue action on my anus. I was surprised, both by the fact she was doing it and by how good it felt, so it was a natural progression when she slid a finger in as she went back to sucking my cock. We kept at it for awhile and soon I was asking for another finger, then another, and before you know it she had all 4 fingers up my ass and I was thrashing around going crazy! We continued with ass play for quite some time after that day of discovery, and even though we're no longer together, I still enjoy it to this day.

 

[gk6h]

My introduction to prostate play was a number of years ago when my then wife was giving me a blowjob. She slid down to pay attention to my balls while jacking me off, then went lower yet and started some tongue action on my anus. I was surprised, both by the fact she was doing it and by how good it felt, so it was a natural progression when she slid a finger in as she went back to sucking my cock. We kept at it for awhile and soon I was asking for another finger, then another, and before you know it she had all 4 fingers up my ass and I was thrashing around going crazy! We continued with ass play for quite some time after that day of discovery, and even though we're no longer together, I still enjoy it to this day.

it is intense and makes you feel so good...

 

[jakereeder22]

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[tammyw]

So i bought one of these after doing my research. It was pretty spendy at the time, but not all that bad at about 79$. The bad thing..the teaser tab in the front. My Aneros helix is really nice, but the front tab will shred you if not careful.

An orgasm with it in is fairly intense. I've been good enough to just do some pelvic floor exercises and I get a lot of pre-ejaculate to form. But then i get bored and end up jerking off. The resultant spasm can be felt as your anus contracts which forces the head of the aneros back against your prostate, which increases the sensation...and it's kind of a wicked feed back loop. So the longer you tease yourself, and the harder you cum....The harder you KEEP comming due to the increased prostate stim.

I've tried other toys to no avail. Just can't get the right angle.

I'm open to answering any questions on it though. I enjoy prostate play.

Thank you for the lovely detailed post. I really want to get my husband one of those Aneros toys, but I think we have a ways to go before anything like that. I casually mentioned reading an article about prostate stimulation online and touted some of the health benefits to him last evening, but he just kind of reponded with "interesting" half paying attention to me because he was reading. I think I am just going to leave some information out on my nightstand and see if he picks up on it.

 

[ben_holder]

Let him know if he hates it he never has to try again. But when he explodes fountains he will be hooked.

 

[tammyw]

My introduction to prostate play was a number of years ago when my then wife was giving me a blowjob. She slid down to pay attention to my balls while jacking me off, then went lower yet and started some tongue action on my anus. I was surprised, both by the fact she was doing it and by how good it felt, so it was a natural progression when she slid a finger in as she went back to sucking my cock. We kept at it for awhile and soon I was asking for another finger, then another, and before you know it she had all 4 fingers up my ass and I was thrashing around going crazy! We continued with ass play for quite some time after that day of discovery, and even though we're no longer together, I still enjoy it to this day.

Awesome post! Thank you for sharing your experience. Did you and your wife ever talk about prostate stimulation prior to your first time or did it just sort of happen in the heat of the moment?

 

[Kal1991]

My introduction to prostate play was a number of years ago when my then wife was giving me a blowjob. She slid down to pay attention to my balls while jacking me off, then went lower yet and started some tongue action on my anus.

Same with me pretty much, me and my girlfriend were on holiday together and she was giving me a blowjob while I was standing up then she just stuck her finger in straight away and started playing with me. She'd tried to do it before this but I didn't want her to, I've never looked back since I let her though. It's beyond anything I imagined.

 

[tammyw]

Same with me pretty much, me and my girlfriend were on holiday together and she was giving me a blowjob while I was standing up then she just stuck her finger in straight away and started playing with me. She'd tried to do it before this but I didn't want her to, I've never looked back since I let her though. It's beyond anything I imagined.

So she just surprised you? No lube or anything. Ouch! Did she or you mention this at all before she tried it the first time?

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I havent been on here in awhile due to time constraints, but I pop on every now and then and lurk around the discussion boards. Anyway, I have been reading a few isolated threads here and there about prostate stimulation that got my juices flowing. For some reason the more I read about it and the more videos I watch of couples exploring this form of pleasure, the more persistant my fantasies to explore this with my man become. My husband is a bit shy about that area, but I have a feeling he would enjoy it based on a few tentative explorations and rubbing of the area during oral sex. I am curious about how some of the ladies on here introduced this subject or stimulation into their sex lifes and for any tips on how to get my man interested. I have also been seeing a couple of threads about toys on the board and was curious about whether or not using a prostate stimulator would be better for our first time or if it is something you work up to. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

Tammy

Thanks for starting a great thread!

 

[Kal1991]

No nothing, it hurt but it soon felt right. No we didn't talk about it or anything like that beforehand, we had only been going out for a few weeks so we just had regular sex and then she done it.

 

[eric60red]

Having the prostrate rubbed and enhance the orgasm, make it so intense

 

[Mr. Briggs]

When done right it feels so amazing and intense.