Queerness--Nature vrs Nurture

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

New poll totals

Nature (We are born this way) 22 33.85%
Nurture (We learn to be queer) 6 9.23%
Nature and Nurture (It's a combination of both) 37 56.92%

 

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Shouldn't there have been a 4th choice? Perhaps something like "other" would have sufficed. That would be to cover things such as:

1) Someone put a spell on you and made you have an attraction.

2) The person was so hot in your head that you forgot you were supposed to be only straight.

4) You were forced into experiencing gay sex, and at some point in the encounter you forgot the fear, the anger, the humiliation, and all you could think is: "Wow, this is awesome."...


Seriously, it is probably a combination of a lot of things. Of all the gays (mainly men) I have discussed gay tendencies with the stories are never the same. Even my partner's story is extremely different than mine. He started gay sex at less than 5 years of age and love it all along. I didn't start gay sex until I was 21.5 years old and didn't really like it for two or three years. (It wasn't until I got to fuck a guy's ass that I realized how great sex between men could be.)

.As I have said before, I never really cared for the male penis. I do remember peeing with a group of boys down a staircase -- around the age of 6. I had no desire to touch their penises. I think I mainly remembered that because we were afraid of getting caught as it was on school property -- a basement stairwell. I do remember sparks flying when I saw hairy adult men at the age of 4.5. Likewise, for years I had the desire to kiss a man (not boy) and to touch a man's ass. But I would have dearly preferred if they had come attached with a vagina and not a penis. Since I love men, I figure I have to accept all the baggage that comes with it even if it does nothing for me.

 

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