question about clubbing

[wellhunginktown]

well i'm 24 and i don't do much clubbing anymore i hate going by myself and i don't have any friends, i know that if i do go clubbin i can't show interest, but how exactly do i know if i am able to bring a girl home, i'm the kinda guy that if i talk to a girl for 5 mins i can usually win her over with charm but i suck at just going up to them and them not walking away any suggestions for getting girls home with me from the club thanks

 

[Ravin the Poet]

If your going out to bring a girl home, your going to fail. I'm into the club scene, and guys like that get no where because it's odvious. If you want to meet some people, dance, play pool drift around and just start up convo's with people you bump into. I would suggest in your case finding a group first. Because if you go out one night, get a girl come back to your place fine. But you still go the club next time by yourself. I'm the same, I hate going myself, so you need to find a group of people to chill with.

When I go, normally me and my friend are holding the pool table all night. The ladies we are with like to dance. They dance, we go every now and then, but keep the table. Playing pool is a good thing. WHo ever you play with you can start a convo up. Ask them if they go to school, where they work you know the normal shit. I do this, have no interest in the people I just want to have fun. So find a group first before you even start thinking of picking up at a club. No one will go home with the loner.

Ravin

 

[Eritz]

I've been a good hardcore clubber for five years now and a club is absoloutely the worst place to pickup women from my point of view. Mind you I'm going to techno clubs which have a copletely different attitude from normal clubs, most people are there for the music and the majority of us are going to have a few drinks, pop some drugs and dance about like a loon for a few hours. Not to mention with the system kicking out bassline you can't hear what anyone is saying anyway so chatting up becomes near impossible.

The good thing about this style of clubbing is that there are always after parties which rage on well into the next day which become melting pots of people, which is where you really get a chance to sit down and talk to people, meet new faces and drink large quantites of alchol whilst exploring some of the less well charted aspects of the human concious. And playing banging music.

I started going out clubbing on my own as well since I couldn't persuade any of my friends to go, then I got into the music, dropped the ego associated with main stream clubs and just started having a good time and making a shed load of new friends in the process.

 

[Luv2PleasureF]

well i'm 24 and i don't do much clubbing anymore i hate going by myself and i don't have any friends, i know that if i do go clubbin i can't show interest, but how exactly do i know if i am able to bring a girl home, i'm the kinda guy that if i talk to a girl for 5 mins i can usually win her over with charm but i suck at just going up to them and them not walking away any suggestions for getting girls home with me from the club thanks

I'm not quite sure of the area you live but try the city. Do searches online in your area: make sure to type in your city or town, and the words sex, and clubs. Also, try going to adultfriendfinder.com and putting up a profile about what you're looking for. And yes, you most definitely can pick a woman up at a bar or club for sex. It almost sounds as if you're looking for a friend with benefits, am I right?