masterslave00
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First, I have to state that my BDSM lifestyle is limited only to when I am with my FWB Mistress, so it is not exactly lifestyle. My wife is totally not interested in anything sexual anymore...
1. Does your BDSM lifestyle ever leave the bedroom into your day-to-day, or do you keep them separate? i.e., being told what to wear, what to eat, etc.
Yes it does, whenever there is a limited opportunity. We sometimes travel together and that's when it happens most. Examples would be wearing her panties under my business clothes, wearing butt plug when outside... I have also worn secretly signs of my devotion to her when with my wife (wrist band, little stick on tattoo, her panties etc) few times.
2. What are some things that your Dom does or tells you to do that arouses you? This can be sexual/nonsexual. Even just the small things.
When she asks me to show her my devotion to her, to worship her etc. When she pegs me. When she orders me to do chores for her - usually naked. Whenever she messages me when not together. Whenever she demands naughty picture from me, no matter how risky it could be. And many other little things.
3. Did you always know you were a submissive, or was there a lifestyle change that affected you?
No, I did not know it. I discovered it about 10-15 years ago, thanks to much younger woman. I still consider myself switch as I tend to be dominant towards women of my age. However, right now, I am only with my FWB Mistress who is half of my age. I am 64, she is 32.
4. What part of being a sub excites you the most?
The act of giving her full control of myself.
5. Does your dom punish you for transgressions? And if so, do you ever try to get 'punished' or is it something you actively avoid?
Yes, she does. And since I actually like being physically as well as mentally punished, I sometimes misbehave on purpose.
1. Does your BDSM lifestyle ever leave the bedroom into your day-to-day, or do you keep them separate? i.e., being told what to wear, what to eat, etc.
Yes it does, whenever there is a limited opportunity. We sometimes travel together and that's when it happens most. Examples would be wearing her panties under my business clothes, wearing butt plug when outside... I have also worn secretly signs of my devotion to her when with my wife (wrist band, little stick on tattoo, her panties etc) few times.
2. What are some things that your Dom does or tells you to do that arouses you? This can be sexual/nonsexual. Even just the small things.
When she asks me to show her my devotion to her, to worship her etc. When she pegs me. When she orders me to do chores for her - usually naked. Whenever she messages me when not together. Whenever she demands naughty picture from me, no matter how risky it could be. And many other little things.
3. Did you always know you were a submissive, or was there a lifestyle change that affected you?
No, I did not know it. I discovered it about 10-15 years ago, thanks to much younger woman. I still consider myself switch as I tend to be dominant towards women of my age. However, right now, I am only with my FWB Mistress who is half of my age. I am 64, she is 32.
4. What part of being a sub excites you the most?
The act of giving her full control of myself.
5. Does your dom punish you for transgressions? And if so, do you ever try to get 'punished' or is it something you actively avoid?
Yes, she does. And since I actually like being physically as well as mentally punished, I sometimes misbehave on purpose.
