Reasons for breakup

[sirensiren]

I don't know if this question belongs here, but I'm doing some private research on why couples have broken up, the reasons etc.
So if you could name someone you were dating for a while and then broke up/or they broke up with you, what were the reasons etc.

My last breakup with my fiancee was due to my cold feet (before getting married) but also his underlying selfishness.

If you would share I would be very interested to read

 

[Mazuri]

I came home to find my first husband screwing another girl. That pretty much ended things right then.

 

[sirensiren]

Ok, infidelity.
Did you ever discuss why he cheated on you?

 

[Recidiva]

Neglect and disrespect. I don't hang around if casual rudeness takes hold.

Jealousy. If the sight of me talking to another man makes my partner petty and crude.

Selfishness. Someone trapped in the "It's all about me and it's all BAD" space constantly. If over time they never look up and notice it's bad for other people too. If they never notice they never do anything to make it better, only make it worse.

Inability to keep promises. Someone who makes promises casually and forgets them, can't see them through.

Cheating. Sucks.

 

[Mazuri]

Ok, infidelity.
Did you ever discuss why he cheated on you?

Nope. I packed and left.

 

[Ast87]

The last guy I broke up with was because I realised I didn't really like him, and he wasn't that great of a guy. I was only with him because I was lonely, and he was there. Plus, I had met someone else who I knew right away was Mr Right. So that was that.

 

[emap]

I am such a slut. Every single one of them we broke up because I was sleeping around on him, well no not quite, there was one who moved. We tried for a little while, but I couldn't stand not having a boyfriend there to fuck me and he found a girl there.

So once it was an agreeable, we both found a new lover after he moved.

 

[webber1998]

Infidelity, plain and simple. Since it wasn't the first time, as much as I wanted to forgive her, I just couldn't. The kids and I left and that was that.

We are great friends now.

 

[Lust Engine]

When they stopped being a friend. If a lover can't be a friend, it's over.

But for me personally the most painful was when the other person cheated. I'm loyal to a fault and if someone betrays my trust, it's done and finished.

 

[tanyachrs]

I wish I understood why my last break-up happened.

 

[sunandshadow]

One was when I realized that the guy just plain didn't care if I was happy - he wasn't compassionate or caring when I was sick, would poke me to get an annoyed reaction out of me, never wanted to get me a present for christmas or my birthday, and only tried to improve my mood once in a while because my bad mood was annoying him.

With another one, the guy flatly refused to ever even consider having children because he strongly disliked them, and I knew there was no point pursuing a long term relationship with him because I love children and strongly want to have some. I'm still friends with that guy because he wasn't in love with me so it didn't break his heart, he just found a different girlfriend.

In two cases it was a matter of one of us moving away and us not being interested in attempting a long distance relationship.

 

[Undomiel]

My ex had a lot of issues. We only went out for a month. We remained friends for a while till I found out he got back with his ex a few days after dumping me. Apparently they're engaged now but he's cheating on her.

And my ex before that...... well we were simply too young. It was more of a friendship than anything else.