Riding your guy
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Girls - don't be afraid to enjoy yourself up there. I love it when my wife is obviously getting all the right feelings - she closes her eyes, tilts her head back and runs her hands all over her body as she slowly rides me. Her hand go everywhere from her breasts, up her neck, through her hair (I love that). All the time her eyes are closed and she's gently moaning.
Also don't be afraid to play with yourself if you're sitting upright. I love it when she puts her hand between her legs and starts rubbing her clit while she rides me. She prefers lots of slow riding, then going nuts when she's really close to orgasm.
The other thing you can do is reach around and play with the guy's balls. Be gentle obviously, but some guys really like this. Another trick is to put your thumb and index finger in a circle around the base of his cock. It adds some amazing feelings to the process and also allows you to point his cock wherever you want to hit your special spots inside.
One other similar technique is where the guy bends his legs to about 45degrees so that his feet are on the bed with legs bent at the knee. The woman rides him kind of sideways, facing one of his knees. For some women, it allows their clit to rub against his lower/inner thigh, and they can also kind of hang onto his knee. Does that make sense?
A nice position - especially for surprising a guy in the morning ("rise and shine" action!).
Also don't be afraid to play with yourself if you're sitting upright. I love it when she puts her hand between her legs and starts rubbing her clit while she rides me. She prefers lots of slow riding, then going nuts when she's really close to orgasm.
The other thing you can do is reach around and play with the guy's balls. Be gentle obviously, but some guys really like this. Another trick is to put your thumb and index finger in a circle around the base of his cock. It adds some amazing feelings to the process and also allows you to point his cock wherever you want to hit your special spots inside.
One other similar technique is where the guy bends his legs to about 45degrees so that his feet are on the bed with legs bent at the knee. The woman rides him kind of sideways, facing one of his knees. For some women, it allows their clit to rub against his lower/inner thigh, and they can also kind of hang onto his knee. Does that make sense?
A nice position - especially for surprising a guy in the morning ("rise and shine" action!).
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Some Guys? Show me one who doesn't! Just one!bmwrider said:
I didn't think so! Ladies, unless your man has lost his nuts in a tragic escalator accident, you're pretty safe going for this move!
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blondi84 said:I have that same problem, and for me I think that I am just self concious about how I move. Also he is tall, like 6' something, and I am 5'4", so there is an awkwardness if I try and lean over to kiss him, ect. Any advice would be great here too.
bite his nipples i would think tour about the right size for that, when hes on top and plays with yours feels good right? same for him....at least thats whats ive always heard...
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I used to never ride a guy because i am not a little girl i weigh about 250 lbs and i was ALWAYS afraid to ride, because like i thought i would squish him and i thought he may not find me sexy, but if he didnt like they way i looked he wouldnt like me and would want to be with me. and no i wont squish him and if i start to feel to heavy he can always be like i want to be on top....so i mean just be comfy with yyourself and be confident and dont be self concious
just my opinon....have fun!
just my opinon....have fun!
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Eilan said:
eh... i tried that the other day... it didn't work so well... i guess it hurt his dick for a day or two, i think i may be too short for this position. he wants to try it again because i said it felt good, but it was kind of hard because i'm so short and he's like a foot taller than me.
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Being on top shouldn't matter if he's taller than you. Unless of course his dick is a foot taller than you, but then you have other problems.rosebud5446 said:eh... i tried that the other day... it didn't work so well... i guess it hurt his dick for a day or two, i think i may be too short for this position. he wants to try it again because i said it felt good, but it was kind of hard because i'm so short and he's like a foot taller than me.
Seriously though, if his dick hurt you probably just leanign back too far and kinda bending his cock at the base. I've had this happen before and yeah, it hurts, but it also puts lots of pressure ont he g-spot. That's why YOU liked it, I imagine. Tell him I said to suck it up, we all have to make sacrifices!
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Unccwhitegurl said:
That sounds pretty good to me. I like a woman you can... phwoarrr... feel. 250lbs banging up and down on me with big tits in my face and the bed creaking and groaning under us... Now that sounds hot.
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Isn't it time for pictures in this thread? Or shouldn't we bother coz they'd just get removed?
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yeah, well she said to put her feet above his shoulders (i'm assuming he's laying down) which was a bit of a strech for me, not too bad, but i had to put my hands on the bed behind me, and to really get much movement, i had to lean back. so i don't think this is for me, even though he wanted to try it again for my sake.
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*shrug* Your mileage obviously varied.rosebud5446 said:eh... i tried that the other day... it didn't work so well... i guess it hurt his dick for a day or two, i think i may be too short for this position. he wants to try it again because i said it felt good, but it was kind of hard because i'm so short and he's like a foot taller than me.
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Love to have a woman on top...a former GF and I had been playing around, teasing each other, when she pushed me onto my back, sat astride my hips, impaled herself, reached behind her back taking my balls in her fingertips, caressing them, leaned forward, her large, soft, full breasts dangling in my face, rocking her hips back and forth along my throbbing shaft, and in her soft, low voice told me to fill her up....I still get hard thinking about it...YES to a woman on top!
Love to have a woman on top...a former GF and I had been playing around, teasing each other, when she pushed me onto my back, sat astride my hips, impaled herself, reached behind her back taking my balls in her fingertips, caressing them, leaned forward, her large, soft, full breasts dangling in my face, rocking her hips back and forth along my throbbing shaft, and in her soft, low voice told me to fill her up....I still get hard thinking about it...YES to a woman on top!
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I love my SO on top. We were having trouble with this position for a while and one day I told her to close her eyes and move for her own pleasure. The experience ended up being pretty incredible for both of us. I think being nervous affects all things sexual...so learning to relax is the real key to having a better experience. Once you get comfortable with the basic on top position then you can start trying all the fun variations that are possible. Good luck to both of you.
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My Mistress is ALWAYS on TOP she would not have it any other way. She is in total control of me, She fucks me hard, slaps me, pulls my hair,tells me to "shut up pantyboy" when I moan, and is little concerned about my "feelings."
Oh, and I LOVE it.....heheheeee...
Oh, and I LOVE it.....heheheeee...
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Riding my guy is my most favourite position. It's the one we use most often and I honestly don't remember when or why we started. It constantly amazes me that since I've been browsing the forums how many people seem scared to move away from missionary. I've just always gone with what felt good at the time position wise. It wasn't rocket science to figure out that if I moved my legs or wriggled around a little that depth/angle changes. It's funny, I didn't realise how many positions we use until I checked out the kama sutra (hehe). Apparently I'm some kind of freak! LOL
Usually when I climb up there it's because I'm not getting the stim that I want in the previous position. So I'm aroused enough to not give a crap what he's thinking anyway (not strictly true, but you get the idea!) I used to feel a little self concious about sitting up there, but he always looks so happy and I get what I need so I got over it. It is the only position that I can climax without having to touch my clit, and I get super kick ass g-spot stim which is why I like it. I just adjust my leg positoning and my angle of lean depending on my level of arousal. Penetration is too deep to start straight up with sitting on his cock, so I usually start with my knees about the level of his hips, leaning forward (best for grinding clit and getting titty play) but as my arousal level increases, I mix it up a bit. By the time I'm ready to O I'm often seated, knees tucked under his armpits, holding under his thighs, leaning back, chest thrust forward, head thrown back. He's usually back arched, eyes rolling in head....LOL
We do reverse cowgirl every now and then. I find it practically useless for hitting my g-spot. I mostly do it for the visual aspect for him. I've since found out that it's great visually for him, but also not the best for stimulation.
As for the ball thing.....um well, I thought it was logical to grab em and press em up against me. I mean, it feels great when they slap against you mid-thrust, seems obvious to incorporate into lovemaking.
Technique question......the best thing to do is just get all hot and horny and climb up there to experiment. It's the grinding which makes it so good. Seat yourself on recipiants cock, wriggle around and adjust your leg positioning and angle of lean until you get good contact with your clit and rock your hips. If you need harder grinding move legs upward and outward. If you need deeper penetration sit more upright, eventually leaning back. Don't be afraid to mix it up. I do the squatting thing sometimes. I rarely put my ankles over his shoulders because it is too deep and hurts.
Great reminiscing from last night............
Usually when I climb up there it's because I'm not getting the stim that I want in the previous position. So I'm aroused enough to not give a crap what he's thinking anyway (not strictly true, but you get the idea!) I used to feel a little self concious about sitting up there, but he always looks so happy and I get what I need so I got over it. It is the only position that I can climax without having to touch my clit, and I get super kick ass g-spot stim which is why I like it. I just adjust my leg positoning and my angle of lean depending on my level of arousal. Penetration is too deep to start straight up with sitting on his cock, so I usually start with my knees about the level of his hips, leaning forward (best for grinding clit and getting titty play) but as my arousal level increases, I mix it up a bit. By the time I'm ready to O I'm often seated, knees tucked under his armpits, holding under his thighs, leaning back, chest thrust forward, head thrown back. He's usually back arched, eyes rolling in head....LOL
We do reverse cowgirl every now and then. I find it practically useless for hitting my g-spot. I mostly do it for the visual aspect for him. I've since found out that it's great visually for him, but also not the best for stimulation.
As for the ball thing.....um well, I thought it was logical to grab em and press em up against me. I mean, it feels great when they slap against you mid-thrust, seems obvious to incorporate into lovemaking.
Technique question......the best thing to do is just get all hot and horny and climb up there to experiment. It's the grinding which makes it so good. Seat yourself on recipiants cock, wriggle around and adjust your leg positioning and angle of lean until you get good contact with your clit and rock your hips. If you need harder grinding move legs upward and outward. If you need deeper penetration sit more upright, eventually leaning back. Don't be afraid to mix it up. I do the squatting thing sometimes. I rarely put my ankles over his shoulders because it is too deep and hurts.
Great reminiscing from last night............
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kiwichyck said:Riding my guy is my most favourite position. It's the one we use most often and I honestly don't remember when or why we started. It constantly amazes me that since I've been browsing the forums how many people seem scared to move away from missionary. I've just always gone with what felt good at the time position wise. It wasn't rocket science to figure out that if I moved my legs or wriggled around a little that depth/angle changes. It's funny, I didn't realise how many positions we use until I checked out the kama sutra (hehe). Apparently I'm some kind of freak! LOL
Usually when I climb up there it's because I'm not getting the stim that I want in the previous position. So I'm aroused enough to not give a crap what he's thinking anyway (not strictly true, but you get the idea!) I used to feel a little self concious about sitting up there, but he always looks so happy and I get what I need so I got over it. It is the only position that I can climax without having to touch my clit, and I get super kick ass g-spot stim which is why I like it. I just adjust my leg positoning and my angle of lean depending on my level of arousal. Penetration is too deep to start straight up with sitting on his cock, so I usually start with my knees about the level of his hips, leaning forward (best for grinding clit and getting titty play) but as my arousal level increases, I mix it up a bit. By the time I'm ready to O I'm often seated, knees tucked under his armpits, holding under his thighs, leaning back, chest thrust forward, head thrown back. He's usually back arched, eyes rolling in head....LOL
We do reverse cowgirl every now and then. I find it practically useless for hitting my g-spot. I mostly do it for the visual aspect for him. I've since found out that it's great visually for him, but also not the best for stimulation.
As for the ball thing.....um well, I thought it was logical to grab em and press em up against me. I mean, it feels great when they slap against you mid-thrust, seems obvious to incorporate into lovemaking.
Technique question......the best thing to do is just get all hot and horny and climb up there to experiment. It's the grinding which makes it so good. Seat yourself on recipiants cock, wriggle around and adjust your leg positioning and angle of lean until you get good contact with your clit and rock your hips. If you need harder grinding move legs upward and outward. If you need deeper penetration sit more upright, eventually leaning back. Don't be afraid to mix it up. I do the squatting thing sometimes. I rarely put my ankles over his shoulders because it is too deep and hurts.
Great reminiscing from last night............
Ride on Girl, sounds like you know what you are on top of....
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TBKahuna123 said:See my wife likes to try and smother me with hers until I'm gasping for breath and tapping out like a wrestler in crossface chickenwing.
not that I'm complaining, mind you.
This is DH's preferred method of leaving this world for the next......
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rbijon said:Ride on Girl, sounds like you know what you are on top of....
If I could, I would spend my entire life in this position.
We've joked about the practicalities of doing all daily activities locked together and also taking his tackle to a taxidermist after his death so he can be with me always! LMAO
I'm 6'1 and my wife is 5'4 and she has no problem leaning in to kiss me. Perhaps it's how you've positioned yourself? If nothing works, just grab him and pull him up to youblondi84 said:I have that same problem, and for me I think that I am just self concious about how I move. Also he is tall, like 6' something, and I am 5'4", so there is an awkwardness if I try and lean over to kiss him, ect. Any advice would be great here too.
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I'm a fan of women on top... us guys just love to see the visual of our lady pleasuring herself above us... without a condom, there really is no bad way to do woman-on-top intercourse.
I know for some of us guys, with a condom on, the movement isn't always enough to really enjoy it fully. (some guys have trouble maintaining full erection this way, just because the 'grinding' isn't as stimulating through a condom when compared to pumping/thrusting in and out.
Just my two cents, no matter what, ladies, please have fun with this, and I'm sure your guys will encourage you to do the same!
I know for some of us guys, with a condom on, the movement isn't always enough to really enjoy it fully. (some guys have trouble maintaining full erection this way, just because the 'grinding' isn't as stimulating through a condom when compared to pumping/thrusting in and out.
Just my two cents, no matter what, ladies, please have fun with this, and I'm sure your guys will encourage you to do the same!
Another good position this one. I like either facing each other or often better yet cowboy, the woman facing away. The altter provides a fantastic view of her ass and my cock sliding in her.
What i find incredibly sexually stimulating on this latter is how her labia suck around my cock and as she raises up how they cling to my cock, stretching them out.
Never fails to have me cumming in her.
What i find incredibly sexually stimulating on this latter is how her labia suck around my cock and as she raises up how they cling to my cock, stretching them out.
Never fails to have me cumming in her.
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