Romance vs. Raunch

[bashfull]

They were fun weren't they.

I challenge you...make a list of 5 romantic gestures and then a list of 5 things you think are raunchy...

Romantic
~poetry by candlelight
~moonlit walks on the beach
~bubble baths
~getting flowers unexpectedly
~holding hands with that someone special

Raunchy
~a short skirt in public (sans panties)
~going out to dinner and "playing" under the table (the above item is useful for this)
~sex in a dressing room (during the busy time of the day)
~afternoon phone sex (while one part of the equation is at work)
~sending naughty text messages (not sure where he is at and who he is with when he opens it)

Hmmm...ok, so you managed to differentiate somewhat. afternoon phone sex? what's wrong with morning, evening, nighttime phone sex, huh?

Oooo...that last is down right mean!

 

[AphroditeReborn]

Great thread! I will be back

 

[Vampladydi]

Is it possible for a man to be both a gentleman and the "bad boy" that women want him to be? Can there coexist romance and ruanch?

Yes, absolutely.

 

[kiten69]

Hmmm...ok, so you managed to differentiate somewhat. afternoon phone sex? what's wrong with morning, evening, nighttime phone sex, huh?

Because the afternoon you are more likely to have to try to stop whatever it is you are in the middle of. It makes it more naughty if you have to try to "sneak" away from whatever it is you are doing at that particular moment in time.

Oooo...that last is down right mean!

Yeah, but I'd never do something that mean. . .*whistles innocently*

 

[bashfull]

Great thread! I will be back

Welcome, darlin'. Looking forward to your participatioin.

Yes, absolutely.

Not enough! share, woman!

Because the afternoon you are more likely to have to try to stop whatever it is you are in the middle of. It makes it more naughty if you have to try to "sneak" away from whatever it is you are doing at that particular moment in time.



Yeah, but I'd never do something that mean. . .*whistles innocently*

Some reason, I don't believe you, darlin'.

 

[AphroditeReborn]

Welcome, darlin'. Looking forward to your participatioin.

Don't know how much I have to participate... I am surely a romantic, but not all that raunchy

 

[bashfull]

Don't know how much I have to participate... I am surely a romantic, but not all that raunchy

no? ever thought about (or done), wearing no undies to a black tie event, whispering in your date's ear that you aren't wearing any, letting him know how you can feel yourself rubbing with every movement? Or letting someone know that you are so enchanted with him that you wish to totally give yourself to him? there are many examples of "raunch". so many as I recall on this thread. It's been awhile. I reckon I'll have to go back and re read it. So please, take a seat, have a glass of wine, relax, shed some clothing (ok, so i'm a pervert), and join in.

 

[AphroditeReborn]

no? ever thought about (or done), wearing no undies to a black tie event, whispering in your date's ear that you aren't wearing any, letting him know how you can feel yourself rubbing with every movement? Or letting someone know that you are so enchanted with him that you wish to totally give yourself to him? there are many examples of "raunch". so many as I recall on this thread. It's been awhile. I reckon I'll have to go back and re read it. So please, take a seat, have a glass of wine, relax, shed some clothing (ok, so i'm a pervert), and join in.

I will enjoy your glass of wine... thank you.... and that rolling eyes icon was supposed to indicate sarcasm

 

[bashfull]

I will enjoy your glass of wine... thank you.... and that rolling eyes icon was supposed to indicate sarcasm

ahhhh....so you do have thoughts, stories, desires, fantasies to share! I have a cabernet (94 Knights Valley) or a chardonnay (Buena Vista 2005) open. Which would you prefer, darlin?

 

[AphroditeReborn]

ahhhh....so you do have thoughts, stories, desires, fantasies to share! I have a cabernet (94 Knights Valley) or a chardonnay (Buena Vista 2005) open. Which would you prefer, darlin?

I have never tried either one... White Zin is usually my staple, so I will submit to your better wine palate and let you choose

And yes, since I was in the polyamorous lifestyle for the last two plus years... I have a few thoughts, stories, desires and a few fantasies too

 

[bashfull]

I have never tried either one... White Zin is usually my staple, so I will submit to your better wine palate and let you choose

And yes, since I was in the polyamorous lifestyle for the last two plus years... I have a few thoughts, stories, desires and a few fantasies too

White Zin...then I recommend you go with the Chardonnay, darlin'. Very buttery, not as harsh as the cabernet. So, sounds as if you have much to share!

 

[AphroditeReborn]

White Zin...then I recommend you go with the Chardonnay, darlin'. Very buttery, not as harsh as the cabernet. So, sounds as if you have much to share!

Thank you kindly for the Chardonnay

Perhaps I do.... not sure how much to kiss and tell - lol I had always thought that I would write some stories about my adventures but haven't gotten around to it yet

 

[bashfull]

Thank you kindly for the Chardonnay

Perhaps I do.... not sure how much to kiss and tell - lol I had always thought that I would write some stories about my adventures but haven't gotten around to it yet

well, we promise to keep it merely in this house, darlin'. so what is the most romantic thing that has happened to you?

 

[kiten69]

My best friend once told me a story of her and her hubby going out to dinner (she was wearing a skirt) and she not so discreetly passed him her undies. . .accross the table!

 

[AphroditeReborn]

well, we promise to keep it merely in this house, darlin'. so what is the most romantic thing that has happened to you?

That has happened TO me... hmmm.... let me think.... this may take a while {hmmm, wondering why I am still single....} umm....

I suppose it would be the time that my ex-husband {then current} left several red heart balloons in my car on Valentine's Day when I originally thought he had forgotten....

 

[bashfull]

My best friend once told me a story of her and her hubby going out to dinner (she was wearing a skirt) and she not so discreetly passed him her undies. . .accross the table!

Kitty! Welcome, darlin'. Care for some tequila? *weg* Now see, i consider that to be an example of both romance and raunch. Passion between lovers. *sigh*. that is how things should be.

 

[bashfull]

That has happened TO me... hmmm.... let me think.... this may take a while {hmmm, wondering why I am still single....} umm....

I suppose it would be the time that my ex-husband {then current} left several red heart balloons in my car on Valentine's Day when I originally thought he had forgotten....

"...ex-husband (then current)..."...so at the time, he was your current ex-husband?

Sorry, couldn't resist the laugh, there. Must be the wine.

And the raunchiest?

 

[kiten69]

Kitty! Welcome, darlin'. Care for some tequila? *weg* Now see, i consider that to be an example of both romance and raunch. Passion between lovers. *sigh*. that is how things should be.

Give me enough tequila and I'll pass you my undies accross the table.

 

[bashfull]

Give me enough tequila and I'll pass you my undies accross the table.

Imagine that....I just happen to have a fresh bottle of Patron sitting right over here! *weg*

 

[AphroditeReborn]

"...ex-husband (then current)..."...so at the time, he was your current ex-husband?

Sorry, couldn't resist the laugh, there. Must be the wine.

And the raunchiest?

The raunchiest.... having sex in the observation tower on the fields of Gettysburg in the middle of the afternoon in June {height of tourist season}

And your most romantic and raunchiest?

 

[kiten69]

Imagine that....I just happen to have a fresh bottle of Patron sitting right over here! *weg*

I see your evil intentions. Put that in a Margarita, I'm not that easy!

 

[bashfull]

The raunchiest.... having sex in the observation tower on the fields of Gettysburg in the middle of the afternoon in June {height of tourist season}

And your most romantic and raunchiest?

that's exciting. my most romantic? raunchiest? hmmm...difficult to say darlin'. I have lived a very imaginative life. I believe deeply in romance and always being romantic, so there have been many occassions. From a simple good morning to someone endearing to tell her how beautiful she is to flowers for no reason. I have posted some early in this thread. Raunchiest? not enough, i'm afraid. sex on a public beach during the day. up against the sink in a ladies room in a nightclub (many many years ago), taking a woman while her friend (female) watched in the next bed with a toy...there have been a few.

 

[bashfull]

I see your evil intentions. Put that in a Margarita, I'm not that easy!

of course! *spalshes mix into tequila* here ya go, darlin'.

 

[AphroditeReborn]

that's exciting. my most romantic? raunchiest? hmmm...difficult to say darlin'. I have lived a very imaginative life. I believe deeply in romance and always being romantic, so there have been many occassions. From a simple good morning to someone endearing to tell her how beautiful she is to flowers for no reason. I have posted some early in this thread. Raunchiest? not enough, i'm afraid. sex on a public beach during the day. up against the sink in a ladies room in a nightclub (many many years ago), taking a woman while her friend (female) watched in the next bed with a toy...there have been a few.

WOW and you're still single? hmmmmm - need to knock some sense into those local women

Do you like to be watched? {your "threesome" made me think you might}

 

[kiten69]

of course! *spalshes mix into tequila* here ya go, darlin'.