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I like walking away from sex with my pussy feeling bruised up...but that's just me 
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Kpooh said:Dont we all?
I don't know...I can't speak for everyone lol
My favorite is when he's hittin it from behind, pulling me towards him but pushing me away with his hips...ahhh sweet torture
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There is, I tink, the animal in all of us that revels in a good bout of jungle fucking. For me it is the emotional release of tensions, the pure passion and lust of it, the primalness. I feel like I connect with my lover on a different level, a more raw and meastial level, one where the complexities of human emotionals do not inhibit the expression of purely physical desires. For me it is a completely different connection from what one might term making love.
That said, the times afterward invariably seem to be just as intimate and in someways more intense. When you have unleashed this animalistic side of you , completely stripping away the facades we put up on a daily basis, there is an acute vulnerability as you lay there sweating inthe aftermath/glow of your lust. This is only true when both parties are able to unleash their passions fully and completely, trusting enough to show that instictively vulnerable side of our subconsious.
It was my darling wife that first showed me how intensely emotional this can be. Sadly, with her PCOS rough sex is a fairly uncommon thing anymore because it tends to cause her pain, so there is always that last bit of restraint even when we do go a little crazy. Every once in a while though, she gets over stress and needs a release. When she lets loose...
That said, the times afterward invariably seem to be just as intimate and in someways more intense. When you have unleashed this animalistic side of you , completely stripping away the facades we put up on a daily basis, there is an acute vulnerability as you lay there sweating inthe aftermath/glow of your lust. This is only true when both parties are able to unleash their passions fully and completely, trusting enough to show that instictively vulnerable side of our subconsious.
It was my darling wife that first showed me how intensely emotional this can be. Sadly, with her PCOS rough sex is a fairly uncommon thing anymore because it tends to cause her pain, so there is always that last bit of restraint even when we do go a little crazy. Every once in a while though, she gets over stress and needs a release. When she lets loose...
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You're all very very naughty, bad, naughty girls!
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To everything there is a season
My parents did a pretty good job raising me to respect women, and not develop a "Me Tarzan, You Jane" mentality. When I got older and started having sex, that translated to me being very tentative about sex. I thought I was being very loving and very respectful, and sometimes I was. But I was also being very lame about the whole thing. I started seriously making out with girls at 16, and lost my virginity in college at 18. It wasn't until I was 23 and had been with a few women already that I had my first real experience with very physical sex. I had just left my first out-of-college job after a year, and I met some people from that job one summer night for drinks. When it was time to go, I offered one of the women I'd been friends with a ride to her car. Or maybe she asked for a ride, I don't really remember. Anyway, I'd dated a friend of hers at work, and never really given her a second thought. No vibe coming from her that way (or maybe I missed it). At any rate, we sat in my car talking for a while and suddenly she just jumped me! Imagine my surprise. Long story short, she went home with me and we had just wild, wild sex, and it was my first experience with no holds barred, really aggresive sex, the difference between "making love" and "fucking," and I remember it was like my eyes popped wide open. I have a very distinct memory of her being on top of me, riding me like a rodeo horse (sorry to use such a bad cliche but it's what comes to mind) with my back arched way high, and me looking up and thinking, "Wow! So THIS is what everyone is making a big deal about!" I drove her home later, she left on a two week vacation with her parents the next day, came home and called me to announce she'd gotten engaged! Imagine my surprise. I don't think I knew there was a boyfriend in the picture, and to this day I don't know if she had the same eye opening experience I did and grabbed the first likely suspect and ran for cover, or if I was just something she had to get out of her system first. But either way, it was a great experience for me because it opened up another side of me that I am grateful for. I still struggle with it, knowing when it's OK to take on the "masculine" role like that, but I know it's OK at the right time. Years later I had a very serious girlfriend and we only had that kind of sex (among other things she introduced spanking into my repertoire) and one night she said, "You know, this is great but I'd like to try very slow and tender." I laughed, knowing something she didn't at that point - that I could do that without having to think about it. Hot, sweaty and rough can be just as exhilerhating as soft, sweet and tender. Everything has a time and place and as with all things it's just about communication and knowing either instinctively or because you talked about it what your partner wants.
My parents did a pretty good job raising me to respect women, and not develop a "Me Tarzan, You Jane" mentality. When I got older and started having sex, that translated to me being very tentative about sex. I thought I was being very loving and very respectful, and sometimes I was. But I was also being very lame about the whole thing. I started seriously making out with girls at 16, and lost my virginity in college at 18. It wasn't until I was 23 and had been with a few women already that I had my first real experience with very physical sex. I had just left my first out-of-college job after a year, and I met some people from that job one summer night for drinks. When it was time to go, I offered one of the women I'd been friends with a ride to her car. Or maybe she asked for a ride, I don't really remember. Anyway, I'd dated a friend of hers at work, and never really given her a second thought. No vibe coming from her that way (or maybe I missed it). At any rate, we sat in my car talking for a while and suddenly she just jumped me! Imagine my surprise. Long story short, she went home with me and we had just wild, wild sex, and it was my first experience with no holds barred, really aggresive sex, the difference between "making love" and "fucking," and I remember it was like my eyes popped wide open. I have a very distinct memory of her being on top of me, riding me like a rodeo horse (sorry to use such a bad cliche but it's what comes to mind) with my back arched way high, and me looking up and thinking, "Wow! So THIS is what everyone is making a big deal about!" I drove her home later, she left on a two week vacation with her parents the next day, came home and called me to announce she'd gotten engaged! Imagine my surprise. I don't think I knew there was a boyfriend in the picture, and to this day I don't know if she had the same eye opening experience I did and grabbed the first likely suspect and ran for cover, or if I was just something she had to get out of her system first. But either way, it was a great experience for me because it opened up another side of me that I am grateful for. I still struggle with it, knowing when it's OK to take on the "masculine" role like that, but I know it's OK at the right time. Years later I had a very serious girlfriend and we only had that kind of sex (among other things she introduced spanking into my repertoire) and one night she said, "You know, this is great but I'd like to try very slow and tender." I laughed, knowing something she didn't at that point - that I could do that without having to think about it. Hot, sweaty and rough can be just as exhilerhating as soft, sweet and tender. Everything has a time and place and as with all things it's just about communication and knowing either instinctively or because you talked about it what your partner wants.
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Well said.
I was hoping this thread had some hints about rough sex.
Here's the scoop.
A month ago my wife was giving me a fantastic blowjob.
She was laying on her side, and I was kneeling.
She started to deep throat me and really get into things.
The both of us got carried away and I was holding her head and
really forcing it down her throat. After a few minutes I thought I
might be hurting her so I slowed down. She did not. She was doing
as much of the forcing as I was. The sight of my dick sliding
all the way in and out was fantastic. I held the back of her head again
and really started fucking her mouth hard. In fact, as hard as I've ever
fucked her pussy. When I came I held her mouth tight around the base
of my dick. The feeling was awesome, I don't think I've ever had an
orgasm that long without lots of sex play a head of time. When I
released my wifes head, she was breathing hard and shaking all over.
I started to apologize to her but she stopped me and told me that she
nearly came herself. I went to return the oral favor and found her so
wet and hot inside you'd think she'd just been fucked by a football team.
I think she came five times that night.
It's just new to me, we've been talking about it and seem to have found
a new direction of play. Anybody that has some advise it would be great.
Maybe some does and don't for the newbies.
Here's the scoop.
A month ago my wife was giving me a fantastic blowjob.
She was laying on her side, and I was kneeling.
She started to deep throat me and really get into things.
The both of us got carried away and I was holding her head and
really forcing it down her throat. After a few minutes I thought I
might be hurting her so I slowed down. She did not. She was doing
as much of the forcing as I was. The sight of my dick sliding
all the way in and out was fantastic. I held the back of her head again
and really started fucking her mouth hard. In fact, as hard as I've ever
fucked her pussy. When I came I held her mouth tight around the base
of my dick. The feeling was awesome, I don't think I've ever had an
orgasm that long without lots of sex play a head of time. When I
released my wifes head, she was breathing hard and shaking all over.
I started to apologize to her but she stopped me and told me that she
nearly came herself. I went to return the oral favor and found her so
wet and hot inside you'd think she'd just been fucked by a football team.
I think she came five times that night.
It's just new to me, we've been talking about it and seem to have found
a new direction of play. Anybody that has some advise it would be great.
Maybe some does and don't for the newbies.
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this is a great thread. A really great thread. I like rough sex as long both partners are into it. I like it from both directions. Took a woman one time on a dirt road on top of a running car. There was no finesse, just good hard rough fucking. We took the ripped panties and tied them to the nearest stop sign as a memorial to a fantastic bout of sex.
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Do I enjoy it? Hell yes and so does the wife. When she is in the mood for rough sex it is the nuts for me and her. The most favorite position is taking her from behind while outside the house (backyard) or in the garage when she comes home from work. I just love pounding her from the rear and calling her names. We still have not taken this to the next stage which is simulated rape, (she wants this by the way), not sure why but I will endulge her, after all I love her and want to make her happy. I am going to get a hood and hide from her and take her when she is unaware. She gets wet thinking about it.
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I must admit that a sore pussy, or ass or breasts for that matter, gives me a certain amount of satisfaction for a day or two after a wild night of rough sex. The soreness is more then offset by the memories of the activities that produced it. I get into a kind of zone during these sessions, similar to how I have heard subs describe subspace. I'm by no means a pain slut, but when the mood is right I am ready for almost anything my lover can throw my way.
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Lipper said:
Well you got the first step down, talking about it. Find out what about it gets you both hot. Some women love the feeling of being dominated, some like my wife, just like the release of that animalistic side.
In my opinion it's all attitude. You've got to get in touch wth your primal side, letting your ingrained mating instincts take over. There's no subtlety there, just a burning desire to fuck something. You have to find that trigger. For my wife's it's music: old 80's heavy metal hair bands, I guess it's thoughts of high school. For me it's easy, it's seeing that look in my wife's eyes. Once you've found that trigger it's off to the races.
Now a specific rough sex technique that I like: try to out fuck the other person. You're trying to fuck her as hard as you can, she's trying to fuck you as hard as she can. Don't jump right into this though, make sure she's well warmed up first. The lust combined with the competitiveness to make your partner give up is pretty hot.
The big thing is, as always, communication. Both partners have to feel totally comfortable that if it goes too far that they can back down wihtout fear of repercussion. That safety is the BIG key to unleashing that primal side.
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Well, it really depends on what the two of you consider to be "rough sex." I think the SSC (safe, sane, consensual) credo used by the BDSM community is definitely something to keep in mind, even for people who are mostly into 'nilla sex.Lipper said:
For me, rough sex generally involves (aside from the requisite hard fucking) name-calling, biting, hair-pulling, face-slapping, spanking (ass, breasts, clit), and what I consider to be breath play lite.
Other people's mileage, of course, may vary.
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Eilan said:Well, it really depends on what the two of you consider to be "rough sex." I think the SSC (safe, sane, consensual) credo used by the BDSM community is definitely something to keep in mind, even for people who are mostly into 'nilla sex.
For me, rough sex generally involves (aside from the requisite hard fucking) name-calling, biting, hair-pulling, face-slapping, spanking (ass, breasts, clit), and what I consider to be breath play lite.
Other people's mileage, of course, may vary.
Interesting how we each have different limits. I for one could never bring my self to slap my wife's face and definitely couldn't handle any breath play, even if she begged me for it. Not that there's anything wrong with two consenting adults who agree to limits doing such things, I just don't have that in me. I think that just shows how important communication is BEFORE and DURING any sexual encounter.
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Kpooh said:Do I know you???
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