Ruined orgasms
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I need some feedback from the fellow caged members. My wife wants to do No Nut November since we already lock 24x7. Do ruined orgasms count as a nut or do I truly need to not have an orgasm of any kind to not violate the spirit of the challenge.
liqueur
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That's your wife's decision, not ours!
liqueur
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Well I don't think my opinion matters, but my opinion is that no orgasms means no orgasms.
She’s gotten so good at them that I get no pleasure from them at all. Not even a little bit. I usually twitch a couple of times a full 4 or 5 seconds after she removes the wand. I’m still just as horny afterward as I was before.
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Showmewhatchugot84
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Got ruined this morning and made to lick the mess off her fingers
Pervytkr
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R O's are such exquisite punishment. Had to give myself one this morning as, after 3 days of gooning, I didn't last to the end of the mistresses CBT video. I did continue to complete the tasks after my useless cock had finished spewing onto my tummy. Then of course I scooped up my mess and licked my hand clean
Felicity_Fellatio_CD
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I'm not a great fan of it but my dom uses it as a method of control and reward, so he'll ruin or deny my orgasm if I've not met my targets and allow me to orgasm if I've achieved my goals for a particular day.
So an example of a goal he might set, is I have to pump gas in my car while wearing a very revealing short skirt and showing off my lacy stocking tops and go to pay for it at the shop kiosk.
Another task might be to slip off my knickers while out and about in public and walk around for the rest of the day without any on, wearing a very short skirt or revealing pair of tight leggings.
I might have to complete up to 10 tasks through the day in order to be allowed an orgasm, otherwise it's denied....
Keeps me on my toes....
OralAllOver
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Isn't that like asking a woman if she likes emeralds -- after they've been stolen?
Are they all wand on cage?
Wonderer67
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My wife is expert at hand jobbing me. She can keep me on the edge like it’s no one’s business.
Ruining orgasms is tougher for her. I feel like there is a very narrow window for me to ruin. It’s all or nothing typically.
So lots of edging (yum!) or complete denial.
Friday morning she let me ruin my orgasm… unfortunately I had to do it… after five weeks of orgasm denial.
It just spilled helplessly out… didnt feel great.
But didn’t feel bad either.
I needed a release of some kind.
Ruining orgasms is tougher for her. I feel like there is a very narrow window for me to ruin. It’s all or nothing typically.
So lots of edging (yum!) or complete denial.
Friday morning she let me ruin my orgasm… unfortunately I had to do it… after five weeks of orgasm denial.
It just spilled helplessly out… didnt feel great.
But didn’t feel bad either.
I needed a release of some kind.
You were right. I asked her if it was intentional this weekend and she said it was.
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But you enjoyed it didn't you?
