Seduce An Older Woman

lord?frodo

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I am 20Years old, I have a thing for my dads secetary and I told her we should get together, she is 40 years old.. But not iterested I was went over to her place gave her a back massage and moved around her back towards her tits..I started massaging her tits for about 6 or 7 seconds and then she pulls my hands away..very delayed if I might say cos she lets me do it for that long and then pulls my hands away.. She says she is waiting for the Man of her dreams but I just want to fuck her… She has been single for almost the last 15years.

When I ask her when are we gonna get together She keeps on telling me "what if Mommy and daddy find out", as my dad is her boss and my mom is her friend. I say to her that they wont and no-one ever will. I think she is keen but I just need to say the right words… She also says she is not into toy boys..

I really need your help as she has been the object of my afection for the last few years and I need her more than anything eles..But only sexually.
 
lord?frodo said:
I am 20Years old, I have a thing for my dads secetary and I told her we should get together, she is 40 years old.. But not iterested I was went over to her place gave her a back massage and moved around her back towards her tits..I started massaging her tits for about 6 or 7 seconds and then she pulls my hands away..very delayed if I might say cos she lets me do it for that long and then pulls my hands away.. She says she is waiting for the Man of her dreams but I just want to fuck her… She has been single for almost the last 15years.

When I ask her when are we gonna get together She keeps on telling me "what if Mommy and daddy find out", as my dad is her boss and my mom is her friend. I say to her that they wont and no-one ever will. I think she is keen but I just need to say the right words… She also says she is not into toy boys..

I really need your help as she has been the object of my afection for the last few years and I need her more than anything eles..But only sexually.

Hide under her desk and when she spreads her legs, go for it.
 
Why are all the first posts like this? :confused:

OK I'll bite...buddy...she's not interested. Leave her alone. What more does she have to do/say?...5-6 SECONDS is just slow reaction...waiting for the man of her dreams means she's not into fuck buddies or sex with someone that isn't going to marry her...not into boy toys means she likes men her own age or older....what would mommy and daddy say means she wants to keep her job and her friend. If you're going to get any where with women learn to read the signs!!!
 
Try doing something different. Like maybe respecting her wishes and leaving her alone. She knows you're interested and has told you no. I think this is one of those cases where "no" means "no". She is trying to protect herself and her livelihood and you've got to respect that.
 
While I do agree with Wicked somewhat, I have to say that's not possibly entirely true. I think she's loving the adulation and attention from a younger man that she may very well find attractive. I think that she's probably doing her best to think with her head instead of her pookie and if you found her in a situation where she had a few drinks, she would probably pounce on yer dingaling like a woman posessed!!!!!
 
TexasBadboy said:
While I do agree with Wicked somewhat, I have to say that's not possibly entirely true. I think she's loving the adulation and attention from a younger man that she may very well find attractive. I think that she's probably doing her best to think with her head instead of her pookie and if you found her in a situation where she had a few drinks, she would probably pounce on yer dingaling like a woman posessed!!!!!

Pookie? Dingaling?

The guy is likely 15, but I think he's heard "pussy" and "cock" before. :p
 
TexasBadboy said:
While I do agree with Wicked somewhat, I have to say that's not possibly entirely true. I think she's loving the adulation and attention from a younger man that she may very well find attractive. I think that she's probably doing her best to think with her head instead of her pookie and if you found her in a situation where she had a few drinks, she would probably pounce on yer dingaling like a woman posessed!!!!!

:eek:
 
Originally posted by James G 5
NOT true
Just to be sure, I paged back thru my last 10,000 or so posts to check my first one
here it is:
My first post (no, this isn't a joke link)


Yeah sweetie but you're James and he's not! :D You've got over 10,000 posts and I'll be surprised if he gets 2. But I'll give you your point...I over generalized....still doesn't mean there aren't too many first (or second posts) asking how to seduce an older woman (which pains me cause I like younger men hehe), or something about anal sex, or size of cock, or how to eat pussy or ..or ..or...some silly post that's juvenile and difficult to take seriously.
 
Accept that no means no, it doesn't mean ask another way and it doesn't mean get them so drunk they don't know what is happening (or don't care).

There are a lot of girls out there and it sounds like this particular one has good reasons not to want to get involved with you (whether there is physical attraction there or not).

She is also twice your age and some (not all) women have a problem dating someone they are old enough to have mothered.

She knows how you feel but continues to resist, it sounds like you need to move on and let it drop or you risk putting both of you into an even more uncomfortable situation.

Also a good massage will slow your reflexes because you are relaxed, or she might not have noticed what you were doing, or she might as you suggested have liked it but decided not to allow anything to happen, or any number of other things. In any case the honorable thing to do is to respect her wishes.
 
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wicked woman said:
Yeah sweetie but you're James and he's not! :D You've got over 10,000 posts and I'll be surprised if he gets 2. But I'll give you your point...I over generalized....still doesn't mean there aren't too many first (or second posts) asking how to seduce an older woman (which pains me cause I like younger men hehe), or something about anal sex, or size of cock, or how to eat pussy or ..or ..or...some silly post that's juvenile and difficult to take seriously.


I won't comment on my many silly & trivial posst on those subjects, as you are correct. I concede the point :D

And I dig older chicks ;)
 
Italian Goddess said:
Pookie? Dingaling?

The guy is likely 15, but I think he's heard "pussy" and "cock" before. :p



Yeah but I also try to be polite even though this is an adult website and don't feel the need to necessarily pepper my posts with certain words.



Now quit jerkin' me off use this cock the RIGHT way LOL!!!!
 
There's one key element in here that shouldn't be overlooked.

How did you/he end up at her house to give her a massage? Where you invited over?

Something tells me there's more to this story. The only thing I can say is that you should try to be a friend to her rather then just trying to get in her panties. If you only want her for the sex then you should do the right thing and respect her wishes.
 
No means no, no doubt.
Accept that.
While your pa is her chief, all other would be an abuse of her.
Respect her. Take hands off, you pester her.
Anyway, I mention an age difference about 20 yrs is too much.
Buy a porn movie or look for a more appropiate girl
 
wicked woman said:
Yeah sweetie but you're James and he's not! :D You've got over 10,000 posts and I'll be surprised if he gets 2. But I'll give you your point...I over generalized....still doesn't mean there aren't too many first (or second posts) asking how to seduce an older woman (which pains me cause I like younger men hehe), or something about anal sex, or size of cock, or how to eat pussy or ..or ..or...some silly post that's juvenile and difficult to take seriously.

Oh! Oh! Can I make it my 12th post?

How do I seduce an older woman?! :p
 
N8Dreams said:
No means no, no doubt.
Accept that.
While your pa is her chief, all other would be an abuse of her.
Respect her. Take hands off, you pester her.
Anyway, I mention an age difference about 20 yrs is too much.
Buy a porn movie or look for a more appropiate girl

I don't think age is an issue here, and shouldn't be. What two people of legal age do, or don't do, is up to them regardless of age.

The only issue here is that the original poster is misreading the signals this woman is sending. He's taken her "no" to mean "not now, and not like this" and is therefore looking for us to supply him with different approaches. He fails to understand that in this case, as in most cases, no, clearly means no.
 
Why are all you smart people responding as though this post was, like, for real?
 
Originally posted by Acero
Oh! Oh! Can I make it my 12th post?

How do I seduce an older woman?! :p

lol yes you may make it your 12th post but that doesn't mean I have an answer for you. I never go 'looking' for younger men...just seem to find them...then enjoy them. OK OK one word of advice...don't try to use a pick up line with us. Didn't fall for them when I was younger sure not going to fall for one now. :devil:
 
wicked woman said:
lol yes you may make it your 12th post but that doesn't mean I have an answer for you. I never go 'looking' for younger men...just seem to find them...then enjoy them. OK OK one word of advice...don't try to use a pick up line with us. Didn't fall for them when I was younger sure not going to fall for one now. :devil:


Not to mention that if you try to pick an older woman up & you drop her she's MUCH more likely to break a hip...


*FLEEING AT TOP SPEED**
 
wicked woman said:
lol yes you may make it your 12th post but that doesn't mean I have an answer for you. I never go 'looking' for younger men...just seem to find them...then enjoy them. OK OK one word of advice...don't try to use a pick up line with us. Didn't fall for them when I was younger sure not going to fall for one now. :devil:


Are you sure? What's your sign?
 
Originally posted by James G 5
Not to mention that if you try to pick an older woman up & you drop her she's MUCH more likely to break a hip...


*FLEEING AT TOP SPEED**

You better run James!!! I may be old(er) but not so old I can't chase you....until you decide you want me to catch you ;)
 
wicked woman said:
You better run James!!! I may be old(er) but not so old I can't chase you....until you decide you want me to catch you ;)


Legs....getting....tired...;)
 
Originally posted by James G 5
Legs....getting....tired...;)

Yours or mine? I know they say the chase is 1/2 the fun but don't you think we could find something better to do? :devil:
 
wicked woman said:
Yours or mine? I know they say the chase is 1/2 the fun but don't you think we could find something better to do? :devil:


Probably more than one thing ;)
 
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