Seems like a lot of bi-curious men around

[PredatorSmile]

Thats gonna be a lucky guy

lol ! i try !

 

[fucktastic]

Cock Curious

Cock Curious

I like this term, it describes me very well.

I’m curious (craving) about cocks but not about the men that own them. I’m curious about having someone else’s cock but I’m not attracted to men per se. When I look at porn of some girl taking some guy’s cock in her mouth, I find myself fantasizing being in her position not his. I dream of my lips surrounding a wet cock, not about my own cock being sucked.

What does it feel like filling my mouth with someone’s eager cock? Would it press against the back of my throat? How much would it twitch and dance if I licked it slowly? Quickly? I’d love to taste someone’s pre-cum. I want to feel the veins surrounding a cock pulse inside my mouth as I’m pleasing it, taking it in my mouth, releasing it slowly. I want to feel a man’s swollen, throbbing head just inside my lips with my tongue wrapped around it. What does it feel like when a man shoots hot, salty cum in my already full mouth? What does it taste like? What does it feel like going down my throat? What will my tongue feel like after swallowing?

I’m captivated by the idea of living in that flash-moment when my control is suddenly taken away: I’m in control of his cock, teasing it, pleasing it, building a man in his ecstasy until that point when he can’t take it any more. He grabs my head and shoves his cock further into my mouth. I stop pleasing him and he starts pleasing himself, fucking my mouth. Maybe he’s telling me how much he likes it, how he likes what I’m doing to him. Maybe he’s calling me names like “dirty slut” or “cock bitch”. Maybe he’s telling me how he wants to suck me until I quiver with unbearable ecstasy.

I have no interest in the kissing, warm part of being with a man, though. I look at men around town and am not attracted. Show me a clip of some guy’s cock dripping with cum and I’m immediately hard.

 

[rl_dylan]

nice - I'd like to lay naked with another guy so that we could explore each others body and do a little touching and kissing. I'm sure it would lead to mutual j/o or blowjobs - there's just no way I could have a guys erect cock in my hand and not at least kiss the head

I have never thought about it like this, only in a MMF situation. But, thinking about it I got hard, wondering where it would lead. I am also married and have these fantasies, but would like to make it happen some day.

 

[StoryLover01]

Wow thought I was Alone

It started for me when I was reading the letters in Penthouse. Some of the best and only erotic fiction I could find before the internet and Literotica. I found myself enjoying a woman describing oral sex on a man (I now know they were probably a male writers). Then they started publishing bi and gay letters and I found I was turned on by them. I was confused because I just could not get turned on by a man or the romantic letters just the hard core sex.

Since I had no idea how to find m2m sex I just decided to hire an escort. As I had no idea how to talk to man sexually or to flirt this worked great. I discovered a love for cock. This convinced me that maybe I was gay and I could not admit it to myself. So I tried the dating, kissing hugging etc just did not like it. Matter of fact I rarely get hard with a man but have never had a problem with a woman.

OK now I have almost convinced myself I am not gay (not that there is anything worng with that). Further when I read the gay stories I get nothing out of the romantic boyfriend stories, but the hardcore sex discovery or forced m2m sex is hot. So is sharing a woman with a man.

This has led me to to two fantasies the shemale who looks totally femine, with a nice package (there are a lot on the internet but none in real life) who is also a top (talk about the impossible dream). The second is a wish to be a beautiful bi lesbian because women seem capable of enjoying making love more than men, and the capability of getting a cock whenever I wanted it.

No matter what the one woman on this thread says I think most (not all) women are disgusted with bi men. And it is very hard to find one.

 

[gingermango]

I think I just shed the "curious" part this weekend - I discovered that I love cock! Men are okay - I've been emotionally involved with some close friends in the past and started to get physically attracted to them before becoming scared and backing away, and I've always been able to get turned on by a sexy guy, especially if he's either really domme or really sub (like me). Women are who I really fall in love with, however, though I've always had a weakness for forced-bi fiction, female domination, etc.

This weekend, however, Goddess and I met a couple and I got my first taste of cock and loved it! Absolutely adored the feeling of it in my mouth, cuppping his warm balls in my hand while I licked the shaft, tasting his pre-cum, etc. He didn't cum in my mouth (though I did in his) but I'm sure that will happen someday and I'm not freaked out by it at all. I've fantasized about it for so long that nothing that occurred bothered me or made me feel weird in the slightest.

Of course, it probably helped that I had this experience in the context of a committed 24/7 Domme/sub marriage while my Goddess/wife was there (as was his girlfriend) and both of them were getting very hot directing the action and playing, too.

 

[littlesquirt]

Cock Curious - thats a good term. I have played a few times with another's cock, sucked them, but never kissed another guy. Like someone said earlier, I'm interested in the cock, not in the man attached to it.

Would love to try it again. Would love to have a MFM, with all parties touching fondling another. I was talking to this one couple who were interested but they were always busy when I was free. So the search starts again. bummer.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

More bisexual than bi-curious. I know that I like both sexes, and with most people who I know won't judge me, I make no attempt to hide it. Being a swinger helps, as I can explore both other men and other women, as can my girlfriend.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I am definitely on the same page as you. I'm a bi gal and my bf is bi too. The weird thing is that I openly check out members of both sexes but feel a bit worried when he points out a very hot girl whom he likes.
There's this famous female basketball player named Adrienne X. whom my bf is becoming friends with. They're both very tall and athletic and met at the gym. They have a lot in common. My bf introduced me to her, which was nice. Adrienne is a straight chick but I don't like the way she looks at
my guy. Also, I don't like the way he looks at her. I have yet to voice this to either of them but he's been spending a bit too much time with her.
I wouldn't feel threatened if my boyfriend started hanging out with a hunky gay guy, mainly because I know his potential male lovers aren't a threat to the emotional connection I make with him. THIS chick however
worries me sometimes. All the guys at school want a piece of her. I'm actually worried that she might steal my guy away from me.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I am definitely on the same page as you. I'm a bi gal and my bf is bi too. The weird thing is that I openly check out members of both sexes but feel a bit worried when he points out a very hot girl whom he likes.
There's this famous female basketball player named Adrienne X. whom my bf is becoming friends with. They're both very tall and athletic and met at the gym. They have a lot in common. My bf introduced me to her, which was nice. Adrienne is a straight chick but I don't like the way she looks at
my guy. Also, I don't like the way he looks at her. I have yet to voice this to either of them but he's been spending a bit too much time with her.
I wouldn't feel threatened if my boyfriend started hanging out with a hunky gay guy, mainly because I know his potential male lovers aren't a threat to the emotional connection I make with him. THIS chick however
worries me sometimes. All the guys at school want a piece of her. I'm actually worried that she might steal my guy away from me.

So, it's insecurity? You might want to mention this, but in a way that doesn't suggest a double standard. Maybe make it clear that you don't want to deny him the same pleasures that you have, but you want reassurances that he won't take off with another woman. Just a thought. A rule that my lover and I have is that no romantic stuff can happen, like French kissing, cuddling, snuggling, or spending the night in someone else's bed. No romantic behavior, which reduces the risk of a rival.

Of course, he might reveal some anxiety about you and another man. Then you could figure out what to do to reassure each other. It's often the opposite sex partners that bother people more than the same-sex, I've noted. For me, however , I'm generally most worried about exes, however silly that might seem. An ex, of whatever sex, is most threatening because of the existing emotional connection. I am more emotionally than physically jealous and insecure. So we've both agreed not to fuck exes and/or old flames. They just all happen to be of the opposite sex. But other opposite sex partners rarely concern either of us. Rarely, not never. Everyone has some anxiety and insecurity.

 

[bi golly]

I'm cock curious also. I would like to do some serious play with someone that I trust. I'm wary of emotional attachments, but sex is always best when there is emotional attachment and connection. I've had one night stands with women and I have never looked back on them as something I want to repeat. It's too much like cats mating; violent fucking and the fighting afterward. I've done it before but I don't want to do it again.

But if I could meet a guy that I liked and trusted enough to touch and play with to see what I like and don't like about cock, I would do that.

 

[gingermango]

A rule that my lover and I have is that no romantic stuff can happen, like French kissing, cuddling, snuggling, or spending the night in someone else's bed. No romantic behavior, which reduces the risk of a rival.

My Goddess/wife and I have run into similar rules among others in our swinging/swapping experiences. However, we don't have such rules ourselves. While recognizing the reality that each of us gets turned on by others and enjoys pleasuring and being pleasured by others, the only rule we have for acting on those urges is we don't do it alone - in other words, any hanky-panky is done with one another present and participating as well, in the same room. Neither of us has license to run off and get our jollies with a crush-of-the-week and neither of us is allowed to play in secret. Other than that, anything goes more or less. Certainly we don't rule out kissing (though we know others do) - it's just such a turn-on! Also, it seems a bit arbitrary to say you can't cuddle up behind a new playmate and nibble his or her neck, then turn his/her head to make out, but it's perfectly okay to lick their genitals . . .

At least, that's how we see it.

Anyway, PredatorSmile - I fully understand your insecurities and they're normal. It is often hard to figure out where the line is or should be drawn between physical attraction and emotional attraction. Ideally, we try to maintain close friendships with the people we play with, but not one so close that it interferes with the emotions we have for one another. In other words, close enough so that we know what our partners enjoy and can share with them, but no so close that they're own significant other/spouse is displaced.

That may not help in your case, since it's your b/f you're concerned about not yourself, and it's hard to know exactly what's in someone else's head. I think that level of comfort with him and with what you think is in his head and heart only comes with a certain length of time together. I would never advise a brand new couple to jump into sharing partners, but several years together is probably enough to know what each of you likes and is comfortable with in terms of expressing attractions to others. In between is where it gets hazy.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

My Goddess/wife and I have run into similar rules among others in our swinging/swapping experiences. However, we don't have such rules ourselves. While recognizing the reality that each of us gets turned on by others and enjoys pleasuring and being pleasured by others, the only rule we have for acting on those urges is we don't do it alone - in other words, any hanky-panky is done with one another present and participating as well, in the same room. Neither of us has license to run off and get our jollies with a crush-of-the-week and neither of us is allowed to play in secret. Other than that, anything goes more or less. Certainly we don't rule out kissing (though we know others do) - it's just such a turn-on! Also, it seems a bit arbitrary to say you can't cuddle up behind a new playmate and nibble his or her neck, then turn his/her head to make out, but it's perfectly okay to lick their genitals . . .

At least, that's how we see it.

Anyway, PredatorSmile - I fully understand your insecurities and they're normal. It is often hard to figure out where the line is or should be drawn between physical attraction and emotional attraction. Ideally, we try to maintain close friendships with the people we play with, but not one so close that it interferes with the emotions we have for one another. In other words, close enough so that we know what our partners enjoy and can share with them, but no so close that they're own significant other/spouse is displaced.

That may not help in your case, since it's your b/f you're concerned about not yourself, and it's hard to know exactly what's in someone else's head. I think that level of comfort with him and with what you think is in his head and heart only comes with a certain length of time together. I would never advise a brand new couple to jump into sharing partners, but several years together is probably enough to know what each of you likes and is comfortable with in terms of expressing attractions to others. In between is where it gets hazy.

2 things.

On the affection issue, that's a personal choice, as you observed. Some are more comfortable with shows of affection, such as kissing and cuddling. Some are not. Some insist on being there. Some do not. It's all personal, and I gather that you agree.

On the length of time, I also think that this applies differently to different couples. My slave and I knew from the outset that this was an open relationship and would always be. We were cool with the idea from day one. Both of us. She knew that I was bi and I knew that she was bi-curious. We also knew that both of us were into BDSM, which is another issue.

For some couples, therefore, starting out with swinging is fine. No problems and such. For many others, however, your advice is sound. Wait a year or two. Get comfortable and secure in the relationship. Overall, a good policy for those with that kind of issue.

I really think that Predator Smile and her beau should have a nice, long talk about jealousy, insecurity, and other issues, which can then resolve what sorts of ground rules they would be fine with to ensure that no one feels "disposable".

But for many, as I said, I would agree with you.

 

[gingermango]

On the length of time, I also think that this applies differently to different couples. My slave and I knew from the outset that this was an open relationship and would always be. We were cool with the idea from day one. Both of us. She knew that I was bi and I knew that she was bi-curious. We also knew that both of us were into BDSM, which is another issue.

That's a very good point that I shouldn't have glossed over. For my Goddess/wife and I, our relationship started out with strong aspects of D/s but nothing like it is now; both of us came out of very vanilla marriages and when we met we were both carrying around some baggage - self-acceptance of our sexuality being the biggest issues. She only assumed the title Goddess about two years ago, shortly before we began playing with others as part of our marriage, and as we both became more and more comfortable with our own roles and boundaries. Although our relationship started out kinky, given the stuff that had come before for each of us, playing with others initially would have been out of the question, let alone jumping on another sex partner of the same gender.

I really think that Predator Smile and her beau should have a nice, long talk about jealousy, insecurity, and other issues, which can then resolve what sorts of ground rules they would be fine with to ensure that no one feels "disposable".

Yes, definitely! That's incredibly important for both of them and I do hope it ends up happily for all.

 

[ready2try]

s....l....o....w

Not tonight I guess!

 

[ars_amatoria]

hey, me too!

I'm new to the board but this describes me well-- a man who generally prefers women but sometimes likes a liaison with a man. Being a middle-aged man in the middle of the midwest, it's not easy to pull off-- there's a lot of social stigma attached, so I must be very discreet.

Furthermore, because I am married and have a general history with women, I found that a lot of gay men figured I had to be a top-- which was the furthest thing possible from the truth. What I wanted was what no woman could give me-- a cock, other than mine, that arouses when I pay attention to it. Being a thoughtful, nay, perhaps introspective kind of guy, I've given this a lot of thought, and aside from some general psychological stuff, I find I really like KNOWING when my partner's aroused-- you can't fake an aroused dick. While most of my lovers say they were pleased with what we did and how I "performed," I just find it reassuring to know that a lover wants me, because I can see it between his legs.

And, I like bottoming to men-- some men-- because submitting to their lust twangs some really basic strings in me. It just isn't the same with an ostensibly dominant woman. I know-- I was in the BDSM scene as both top and bottom, and a woman top really did nothing for me, strapon or no. But it has to be a really horny man, preferably bigger and stronger than me (which in turn ain't easy, since I'm of medium size but have worked out with free weights for 20+ years). In turn, I occasionally like to top another man, preferbly someone who'll give me some resistance before I use him.

Because of these special desires I have, I don't need young or beautiful men--- in fact, they're pretty much irrelevant to me. And size is of little importance to me, unless I'm interested in being scared of whether I can "take" something that big.

But sometimes, especially with someone I like and feel some rapport with, nothing in the world is better than 69. Again, this is an experience no woman can duplicate, not even with a strapon-- the strapon will never be alive and responsive to my needs-- and 69 offers the incomparable experience of experiencing both sides of fellatio at once.

 

[CJontherocks]

Yes, there are a lot of bi-curious guys around. They're curious and this is a place where they can ask questions and get answers. And nobody really cares if they're closet-gay or really bi but won't admit it or just a fella who fantasizes nightly about someday having a throbbing cock pumping hot juicy cum into his throat.

Personally, I'm into the whole package. I used to be just a cock-loving but other-than-that-totally-hetero fella. Then I made out with a guy and wow! That was very hot. I could be with a guy easily. I'll never dislike being with a woman, but I've found that men really do attract me in a number of ways. One of those things you learn about yourself through trial and error, I guess.

PredatorSmile... you guys rock! I think it's great that you have such a wonderful, fulfilling relationship, and I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love and laughter. Don't let those little insecurities get in the way of what you have. But do tell him how you feel. Talk openly, because it will eat at you until you've convinced yourself that he's looking for a way to tell you the worst thing you can imagine. Enjoy each other. Have fun. Love each other. And don't forget, I have a buttload of frequent flyer miles if you and your man want someone to roll around with.

That's it... two cents. Love you all.

-- CJ

 

[TinaAndy76]

Me too...

I'm cock curious also. I would like to do some serious play with someone that I trust. I'm wary of emotional attachments, but sex is always best when there is emotional attachment and connection. I've had one night stands with women and I have never looked back on them as something I want to repeat. It's too much like cats mating; violent fucking and the fighting afterward. I've done it before but I don't want to do it again.

But if I could meet a guy that I liked and trusted enough to touch and play with to see what I like and don't like about cock, I would do that.

Too bad you aren't near by - the words you spoke seem familiar for a reason - it reads like my mind. I too need to find out just how much I want and don't want about bi-sex. Is it just j/o, simple oral to full on letting a guy come down my throat, or would I even allow or be allowed to fuck a man? Unknown.

One thing is certain - the opportunity to discover this would not be something I could turn away from - here's to hope, fulfillmant, experience and understanding.

 

[bi golly]

Too bad you aren't near by - the words you spoke seem familiar for a reason - it reads like my mind. I too need to find out just how much I want and don't want about bi-sex. Is it just j/o, simple oral to full on letting a guy come down my throat, or would I even allow or be allowed to fuck a man? Unknown.

One thing is certain - the opportunity to discover this would not be something I could turn away from - here's to hope, fulfillmant, experience and understanding.

I just read the thread on GB about BJs from the POV of the giver.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=428353

That really turned me on.

That is what I want to try out. I would love the experience of feeling a cock grow hard in my mouth.

 

[bi golly]

In this post, a woman talks about how her head feels while she is giving a blow job.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=17308915&postcount=19

I'm the same way. I have nerve endings on my scalp, face, neck, and everywhere inside my mouth that I'm thoroughly convinced run in a direct path downward.

I just got my hair cut short yesterday, and I was feeling my scalp today. It really to me. I wanted to feel another man's hands on my scalp as I suck his cock. It is really electrifying.

 

[Chuck Darwin]

Wow. I read through the thread and it's interesting for guys like myself.

I didn't expect so much response but I'm glad to see so many curious guys like me!

PM me if you want to discuss more.

 

[hogjack]

In this post, a woman talks about how her head feels while she is giving a blow job.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=17308915&postcount=19



I just got my hair cut short yesterday, and I was feeling my scalp today. It really to me. I wanted to feel another man's hands on my scalp as I suck his cock. It is really electrifying.

However, a ponytail is easier to grasp.

 

[torirysby]

curious too

I've had few experiances getting head from other guys and I get off thinking about being with another guy but I don't think I want much more then to satisfy my curiousity. I think I'd like to jerk off with somebody off and maybe try sucking him off. My wife and I have a great relationship and she knows all about my experiances before I met her. We don't talk about it anymore but we do talk about the threesome she had before we got together. I tell her how I want to see another cock in her mouth or pussy and she gets horny and sucks me off while she uses her toys. I don't know that we'd ever go thru with a threesome now but the idea sure gets us hot. I'm not sure how to bring up my desires, and if she'd like it.

 

[gingermango]

I don't know that we'd ever go thru with a threesome now but the idea sure gets us hot. I'm not sure how to bring up my desires, and if she'd like it.

Well, it's hard to say when it's the best time to bring up stuff like that, but I will say that if you never take the chance you'll never know. We had often fantasized about other people in our sex life too and one day while we were drinking some nice red wine and soaking in our garden tub I just kind of blurted out, "We should join a swingers site." Lo and behold she agreed and a year and a half later we are having a ball - we're choosy and don't have a lot of time free to meet and play with others, but we've met some wonderful people and had some incredible sex along the way.

So get her relaxed and see what she says!

 

[heatman833]

Curious

If there is anyone else out there who feels as I do, I'd love to chat directly. I'm a 59 yr old married male. I love hetro sex and have no desire to kiss another guy, but I would love to do a mutual JO. Not into anal either ---- just a hard cock in my hand. Anyone else similar?????

 

[Service4two]

"Seems like a lot of bi-curious men around..."

Isn't it GREAT!!!

svc4two