tonethebone
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More input please. Need the courage to do it with someone new. My usual friend is not avaliable enough for me 
Seems like a lot of bi-curious men around
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another "bi-curious" guy in TX
It's weird for me to be admitting this to anyone anywhere because I never have before. I'm another "bi-curious" guy here in TX. I was married for a long time and have kids, and I love women ... but have fantasized about a cock for years, probably since I was a teenager. Now when I think about sex, I mostly would like to find a willing woman and get it on, but often - sometimes too often, and it sometimes bothers me, because I "know" I'm straight - I wonder what it would be like to hold a cock in my hand or put it in my mouth. The thought of anal kinda scares me and I don't know if I want to try it. Like a lot of other guys here, I just sortof want to find out what it would be like to satisfy and be satisfied orally by another man. I know I'd need to go slow but I have no idea how it would be or what would happen I was comfortable and trusting.
I do have a few gay friends but have never even touched the topic with them. I went to a party at one of their homes once and as honestly turned off by all the guys kissing one another. I have an old friend who recently admitted that he is bi, and I've fantasized about sucking his cock, but he lives far away and I rarely see him.
Thanks for the opportunity to express myself here - its quite liberating.
It's weird for me to be admitting this to anyone anywhere because I never have before. I'm another "bi-curious" guy here in TX. I was married for a long time and have kids, and I love women ... but have fantasized about a cock for years, probably since I was a teenager. Now when I think about sex, I mostly would like to find a willing woman and get it on, but often - sometimes too often, and it sometimes bothers me, because I "know" I'm straight - I wonder what it would be like to hold a cock in my hand or put it in my mouth. The thought of anal kinda scares me and I don't know if I want to try it. Like a lot of other guys here, I just sortof want to find out what it would be like to satisfy and be satisfied orally by another man. I know I'd need to go slow but I have no idea how it would be or what would happen I was comfortable and trusting.
I do have a few gay friends but have never even touched the topic with them. I went to a party at one of their homes once and as honestly turned off by all the guys kissing one another. I have an old friend who recently admitted that he is bi, and I've fantasized about sucking his cock, but he lives far away and I rarely see him.
Thanks for the opportunity to express myself here - its quite liberating.
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hey bi pedal,
thanks for the wonderfully honest post.
having had a few bi experiences i'd recommend that you give it a try. there really is nothing like touching and holding another guy's cock. it feels completely different than holding your own. also sucking a guy and being sucked off by a guy is really, really a turn on. i did go so far as to have a guy (with a smaller cock) fuck me (with a condom, of course) and while it wasn't mind blowing it was nice to be on the receiving end of a cock and so it was a real turn on.
by the way, if you're not sure whom to approach or are concerned about messing up a friendship i'd recommend you look in the classified ads in the 'art magazines' and find a male masseuse who caters to bi or bi curious men. i did and it was awesome getting a really good massage with him occassionally touching my balls and ass and then, eventually, playing with my cock. getting a hand job from a guy is very different and then he put a condom on me and gave me the most incredible head i've ever had (and i've been with some women who are really, really good). but, i guess that it's true that a guy really know what another guy likes.
happy hunting. i hope you get a chance to play with a guy. i think that you'll find it really a turn on.
deluxe3000 
thanks for the wonderfully honest post.
having had a few bi experiences i'd recommend that you give it a try. there really is nothing like touching and holding another guy's cock. it feels completely different than holding your own. also sucking a guy and being sucked off by a guy is really, really a turn on. i did go so far as to have a guy (with a smaller cock) fuck me (with a condom, of course) and while it wasn't mind blowing it was nice to be on the receiving end of a cock and so it was a real turn on.
by the way, if you're not sure whom to approach or are concerned about messing up a friendship i'd recommend you look in the classified ads in the 'art magazines' and find a male masseuse who caters to bi or bi curious men. i did and it was awesome getting a really good massage with him occassionally touching my balls and ass and then, eventually, playing with my cock. getting a hand job from a guy is very different and then he put a condom on me and gave me the most incredible head i've ever had (and i've been with some women who are really, really good). but, i guess that it's true that a guy really know what another guy likes.
happy hunting. i hope you get a chance to play with a guy. i think that you'll find it really a turn on.
deluxe3000
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I'm really needing to do it. After reading all the recent posts yesterday, I was almost shaking with every thought.
It's been way too long since my last "guy time" with my close friend. And he's willing anytime, but things just haven't worked out what with wives, family matters and work. I have a chance with someone else here locally I'm thinking about.
I'll keep working on that and see what happens. Until then, fantasies will fuel many masturbation sessions
It's been way too long since my last "guy time" with my close friend. And he's willing anytime, but things just haven't worked out what with wives, family matters and work. I have a chance with someone else here locally I'm thinking about.
I'll keep working on that and see what happens. Until then, fantasies will fuel many masturbation sessions
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I read somewhere that there are more bisexual men and bisexual women on this earth than there are gays and lesbians. Heck, our numbers might even approach those of the heterosexuals. You won't believe how many straight men I've met who " had a camp experience with another boy" or straight women who totally like men but mentioned " that one time with this girl in the tub".
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Saw your profile, you are very attractive. In other words, your HOT
You mentioned you live with a bisexual guy, correct?
If so, ever watch him do another guy?
My ultimate fantasie is to have my wife watch me and another guy suck eachother off. WOW!
You mentioned you live with a bisexual guy, correct?
If so, ever watch him do another guy?
My ultimate fantasie is to have my wife watch me and another guy suck eachother off. WOW!
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tonethebone said:Saw your profile, you are very attractive. In other words, your HOT
You mentioned you live with a bisexual guy, correct?
If so, ever watch him do another guy?
My ultimate fantasie is to have my wife watch me and another guy suck eachother off. WOW!
I not only watched him, I joined in !
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That did it
I'm not even gonna tell you what I'm about to do
I'm not even gonna tell you what I'm about to do
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*smiles at you* your post bring back to days of my youth....you are so right....there are more bi's out there than anyone else I know...and I am quite active in all of this...wife and I both 
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nice!!!
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namron711 said:
That is the place I want to be
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Me, too. That is definitely a place that I'd like to be. Have had many, many fantasies about MMF threesome. And a FFM three some. But, having a pussy and a cock to play with would be the ultimate. One of each flavor!
Gave it a try
I’m like you guys, attracted to women and get turned out by them, but I get really worked up thinking about holding a guy’s cock. Looking at guys doesn’t do anything for me but cocks certainly do.
The thought of holding a cock (someone else’s!), squeezing his balls, watching it grow in my hands is fucking hot! I love the taste of my own pre-cum and want someone to shoot their load in my mouth. Feeling the pulsing of his cock before he explodes. I do a lot of solo-ass play thinking about someone pounding me from behind, or with my ankles on his shoulders.
I’m painfully curious. I want to do it. I feel like I have to it and I sometimes feel like I’m aching for it. But… my wife would not be into it. I’ve met a couple of guys online for a discrete hook-up but chickened out both times.
One time, I was so hot for some guy’s cock and had been watching man-porn on the computer for a couple of hours, I decided it was time to go for it. I went to a xxx movie-theatre in town that’s known to be a cruising spot (they weren’t kidding about it being pitch dark in those places!).
So, I’m in this little room in July with the air-conditioning not working. Ok, it’s not comfortable but who cares, I’m there for something else and it wasn’t the raunchy hard-hard-hard-core on the screen. At first I couldn’t tell if there was anyone else in the room until eventually I heard someone rattle a belt-buckle in the back row. I looked back and saw that there were two guys there, sitting a couple of seats apart. Resigned to finally do something about this craving, I nervously walked up to the row in front of them. I thought, hey, if they’re playing with each other, maybe I can lend a hand.
It turned out they weren’t playing with each other and the one guy was rattling his belt-buckle to get my attention, like it was a mating call. The other guy kept leaning forward to look over my shoulder, presumably to see what I was doing in my lap (my fly was open and I was playing with myself). Finally, and really nervously, I reached back to the guy with the belt-buckle and put my hand in his lap looking for his cock to lend a hand and live out my craving. He quickly stood up, pulled his boxers down a bit and presented himself. I still couldn’t see, but I could feel his cock. I was surprised to find it soft.
So I’m sitting in a pitched-black screening room, fumbling in some guy’s jeans rubbing his flaccid cock. I’m in the row in front of him so, with him standing up, my face is right at his crotch. He thrusts forward and I decide the thing to do is to put his cock in my mouth. I was immediately surprised by how much his soft cock was filling my mouth and also by the smell. (He was a smoker and hadn’t showered before going to the movies.) I started to suck on his cock. I thought as soon as it gets hard, I’ll lick it and thrust on it like I’ve been fantasizing.
No such happy ending: I never noticed, but the other guy (were they friends?) had come around to sit beside me and started fumbling in my shorts. I did not want that at all. One thing, I wanted to focus on the cock that was still soft in my mouth. Another thing, I didn’t want this other guy to notice that I had completely creamed my shorts from nervous excitement. I kept pushing his hands away, but he kept fumbling for it. So, I was living through what teenage girls must when their boyfriends fumble around their naughty-bits. Eventually, the guy beside me gave up and stood in the isle. He pulled out his cock and started pulling it really fast, like he was angry with it. I was still turned around with my face in the guy’s crotch and his soft cock filling my mouth.
It was not pleasant. The guy whose cock was in my mouth was unpleasant smelling (and still soft!) and this other guy was too much for me. I didn’t like how the guy with the belt-buckle was pulling me towards his cock, either. It finally dawned on me that they were together and this is a threesome they had engineered. I panicked. I stood up, put myself away and did up my pants, and walked past the second guy who watched me while really going at his penis.
So, I’m a cock tease. But, that was really not how I wanted to do it. It wasn’t hot, not hot at all, it was creepy. The whole experience really turned me off the idea… for a while. I still really crave someone’s cock in my mouth, but I want to see that cock know what’s going on.
Back to the drawing board… working up the courage to follow-through on an online hook-up. I’m hoping to meet someone to have a regular thing with so I can explore my fantasy with more comfort.
So that’s my story of the bi-craving married guy nervous about hooking up.
I’m like you guys, attracted to women and get turned out by them, but I get really worked up thinking about holding a guy’s cock. Looking at guys doesn’t do anything for me but cocks certainly do.
The thought of holding a cock (someone else’s!), squeezing his balls, watching it grow in my hands is fucking hot! I love the taste of my own pre-cum and want someone to shoot their load in my mouth. Feeling the pulsing of his cock before he explodes. I do a lot of solo-ass play thinking about someone pounding me from behind, or with my ankles on his shoulders.
I’m painfully curious. I want to do it. I feel like I have to it and I sometimes feel like I’m aching for it. But… my wife would not be into it. I’ve met a couple of guys online for a discrete hook-up but chickened out both times.
One time, I was so hot for some guy’s cock and had been watching man-porn on the computer for a couple of hours, I decided it was time to go for it. I went to a xxx movie-theatre in town that’s known to be a cruising spot (they weren’t kidding about it being pitch dark in those places!).
So, I’m in this little room in July with the air-conditioning not working. Ok, it’s not comfortable but who cares, I’m there for something else and it wasn’t the raunchy hard-hard-hard-core on the screen. At first I couldn’t tell if there was anyone else in the room until eventually I heard someone rattle a belt-buckle in the back row. I looked back and saw that there were two guys there, sitting a couple of seats apart. Resigned to finally do something about this craving, I nervously walked up to the row in front of them. I thought, hey, if they’re playing with each other, maybe I can lend a hand.
It turned out they weren’t playing with each other and the one guy was rattling his belt-buckle to get my attention, like it was a mating call. The other guy kept leaning forward to look over my shoulder, presumably to see what I was doing in my lap (my fly was open and I was playing with myself). Finally, and really nervously, I reached back to the guy with the belt-buckle and put my hand in his lap looking for his cock to lend a hand and live out my craving. He quickly stood up, pulled his boxers down a bit and presented himself. I still couldn’t see, but I could feel his cock. I was surprised to find it soft.
So I’m sitting in a pitched-black screening room, fumbling in some guy’s jeans rubbing his flaccid cock. I’m in the row in front of him so, with him standing up, my face is right at his crotch. He thrusts forward and I decide the thing to do is to put his cock in my mouth. I was immediately surprised by how much his soft cock was filling my mouth and also by the smell. (He was a smoker and hadn’t showered before going to the movies.) I started to suck on his cock. I thought as soon as it gets hard, I’ll lick it and thrust on it like I’ve been fantasizing.
No such happy ending: I never noticed, but the other guy (were they friends?) had come around to sit beside me and started fumbling in my shorts. I did not want that at all. One thing, I wanted to focus on the cock that was still soft in my mouth. Another thing, I didn’t want this other guy to notice that I had completely creamed my shorts from nervous excitement. I kept pushing his hands away, but he kept fumbling for it. So, I was living through what teenage girls must when their boyfriends fumble around their naughty-bits. Eventually, the guy beside me gave up and stood in the isle. He pulled out his cock and started pulling it really fast, like he was angry with it. I was still turned around with my face in the guy’s crotch and his soft cock filling my mouth.
It was not pleasant. The guy whose cock was in my mouth was unpleasant smelling (and still soft!) and this other guy was too much for me. I didn’t like how the guy with the belt-buckle was pulling me towards his cock, either. It finally dawned on me that they were together and this is a threesome they had engineered. I panicked. I stood up, put myself away and did up my pants, and walked past the second guy who watched me while really going at his penis.
So, I’m a cock tease. But, that was really not how I wanted to do it. It wasn’t hot, not hot at all, it was creepy. The whole experience really turned me off the idea… for a while. I still really crave someone’s cock in my mouth, but I want to see that cock know what’s going on.
Back to the drawing board… working up the courage to follow-through on an online hook-up. I’m hoping to meet someone to have a regular thing with so I can explore my fantasy with more comfort.
So that’s my story of the bi-craving married guy nervous about hooking up.
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I'm straight but my very first sexual relationship was with another guy in high school, as was my first kiss. Since then I've had an opportunity to be with another guy, but I didn't find him attractive. Had I found him attractive I would've been into the idea.
As far as fantasies go, I don't think about men much, but would love the idea of a threesome with a woman involved, and a little bit of sexual contact between myself and the other guy.
I also love the idea of being with a shemale, but I've yet to find one I really find attractive. Most just look too manly, or the feminine looking ones have tiny pathetic looking dicks. However,I'd love to be with a shemale that looked like a normal woman but had a huge hard cock.
As far as fantasies go, I don't think about men much, but would love the idea of a threesome with a woman involved, and a little bit of sexual contact between myself and the other guy.
I also love the idea of being with a shemale, but I've yet to find one I really find attractive. Most just look too manly, or the feminine looking ones have tiny pathetic looking dicks. However,I'd love to be with a shemale that looked like a normal woman but had a huge hard cock.
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glad to know that there are few women who enjoy bimen
This one girlfriend really got me turned on to the whole idea of bisexuality. I never really thought about it before her. Once she started pulling out the strap-on and the gay porn, I had an idea that she was slightly turned on by that sorta kink. I warmed up to it pretty fast actually. Proabably too fast for her taste. I think she now questions my sexuality.
This one girlfriend really got me turned on to the whole idea of bisexuality. I never really thought about it before her. Once she started pulling out the strap-on and the gay porn, I had an idea that she was slightly turned on by that sorta kink. I warmed up to it pretty fast actually. Proabably too fast for her taste. I think she now questions my sexuality.
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Bi sex
I can only say that the best sex my wife and I have ever had is when she actually caught me and a close friend giving each other a bj. I suspect it is the same erotic feeling that I get when I see her with another woman. Since then she is always turned on when I mention that time she caught me.
I can only say that the best sex my wife and I have ever had is when she actually caught me and a close friend giving each other a bj. I suspect it is the same erotic feeling that I get when I see her with another woman. Since then she is always turned on when I mention that time she caught me.
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BoneyMoreOny said:
My first time being with another man was with my wife. I took pics of them having sex, I only wish my wife took pics of me taking his cock into my body in both holes...*efg*... My only wish would be that we didn't have all the disease that goes along with sex so that I could have eaten the cum from her jewel.........*fans my face*
add me to the list
I don't know hat I am. I hate labels in general. I usually list myself as bi-curious. I love everything to do with pussy. I also fantacize about cock. So that leas me to an attraction to she-males. Not drawn to gay men at all. Don't like trannies as they want the operation. A chick with a dick might just be what I have been searching for.
Haven't tried it yet. Pretty clumsy about making moves. But I guess talking about it and requesting that on adult sites is a start.
I don't know hat I am. I hate labels in general. I usually list myself as bi-curious. I love everything to do with pussy. I also fantacize about cock. So that leas me to an attraction to she-males. Not drawn to gay men at all. Don't like trannies as they want the operation. A chick with a dick might just be what I have been searching for.
Haven't tried it yet. Pretty clumsy about making moves. But I guess talking about it and requesting that on adult sites is a start.
