Sex during pregnancy

[Lady Adoria]

So here goes, I'm 6.5 months pregnant and for someone who loves sex Im adverse to the thought of sex. Strike that, not the THOUGHT of sex, just the actual act. Before the pregnancy, we had sex fairly regularly. When I got pregnant, FINALLY, after 9 years of trying I was scared at the beginning that sex could cause a miscarriage, despite what my dr had reassured me about. I mean logically I knew the chances were slim, but I was still wary. Then we started to try, and it always seemed..awkward and very uncomfortable up inside, even painful. We have tried different positions, more lube, less lube, nothing seems to work. I was wondering if anyone may have some suggestions for us? Thanks!

 

[pplwatching]

This might be a good time to explore each others bodies without vaginal sex. Let your husband know that vaginal sex is not comfortable for you, but offer him a titty fuck instead, try mixing it up with blowjobs, or you can still both get off with masturbation if it works for you. After the baby comes you'll have enough sexual stress that it's worth learning a few sexual tricks now to get you by. Just make sure that he knows that you're still available for sex, but that he needs to be a little accomodating for you.

Good Luck!

 

[australwind]

You are probably still subconciously reacting to your fear of losing the baby....and that will be making it difficult if you are tensing up.

If you didn't have these issues before you became pregnant...then I would be thinking that it is a stress type reaction. I remember that feeling as I also had trouble falling pregnant and had a scare within the first trimester. Some time during the second..I was so horny, it finally didn't seem to matter; I would have had it any way I could!

I found that I was more comfortable if I lay on my side with my back to him allowing him to enter me from behind...added benefit of having the ass cheeks for friction didn't mean he had to penetrate fully...no pain for me that way and he still got everything he wanted!