sex with a disabled partner

[Guest]

Dear Literotica Forum, i am a young man who has a disability called spina bifida basically im paralyzed from the waist down and i can not walk and i have some questions for my fellow forum members. Have any of you had sex with a disabled partner?, and how was the sex compared to a partner that is not disabled? sincerely and respectfully mg357

 

[bailadora]

Why do you want to know? Are you contemplating entering into a relationship with someone who has physical limitations? Is your concern about being a caring/giving lover to this person? Or is your interest merely prurient?

ETA: A quick check of your post history shows you submitted this as a story idea. If you are now thinking of writing it yourself, you need to say so, lest you be dismissed as a HNG fishing for wanking material.

 

[bailadora]

You amended your OP, which is good. It might also be helpful to list any specific concerns you might have. The more information you can give (within your comfort zone, of course), the better people will understand where you are coming from and they can tailor their replies accordingly.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you been through this thread yet? If not, I'd start there, as it's the most comprehensive thread on the topic I can recall. There are some others, too, but I can't find them ATM. The consensus is people are attracted to the person with the disability, and if the attraction is there, they'll figure out ways to make intimacy work.

I've seen some pretty cool devices for sex with the disabled linked to here. Have you checked out any of those?

 

[bailadora]

Have you been through this thread yet?

Wow! That was a great thread, Sweet E. Thanks for linking it.

The consensus is people are attracted to the person with the disability, and if the attraction is there, they'll figure out ways to make intimacy work.

*nods* Have you ever read Tim, by Colleen MCCullough? Someone gave me a copy about 10 or 15 years ago. It's an amazingly tender, poignant and heartwarming read. I highly recommend it.