Sex with half a dick

[dolf]

http://www.lpsg.org/

i like this site.

oh, it doesn't help at all...i just like it.

 

[pinkstarfish]

http://www.lpsg.org/

i like this site.

oh, it doesn't help at all...i just like it.

'cept I'm registered and still can't view pictures.

 

[dolf]

'cept I'm registered and still can't view pictures.

lol, you start a thread in the new members forum.

i called mine "i'm just here to see pics of huge cocks", then suddenly your email is full of HUGE wang!

it was the same size as the pringles tube!!!!!!!!!

 

[Nightbob]

No joke

Thanks to those of you who tried to help me. And no, this is not a joke, unless it is a bad one on me. I don't know why my dick is so much shorter and my doctor said that he doesn't understand it either, even though he has had some other patients tell him the same thing. He said that the way the surgery was performed it should not happen. I know that there was some nerve damage and that is why it is so difficult to get hard. I will be talking to my doctor about implants but I just don't see how they could make me any longer, just harder. And I have already tried Viagra and Levitra without any effect.

I don't think that most of you quite understand why I even brought this up. LIke all of you I love sex. I have never been able to get enough even though for a number of reasons my wife has not been able participate the way that I would like. She has been very sick with several mental and physical problems for almost 20 years (we have been married for almost 41 years and I have never had sex with anyone else). I doubt that I have had sex with her more than 20 times in the last ten years and that is very tough for me because I believe strongly that sex is the ultimate way to express my love to her. I can't help it but I equate love with sex. It is when I can truly give myself to her in a way that is only for her. I can have sex for pleasure only by myself and that has been main source of gratification. Before my surgery I would masturbate anywhere from five to ten times a week. Now that is gone too. That is why I was hoping that I could hear from someone who might have had some experience with my situation.

There are times when I feel like a complete asshole. I am feeling so bad about my loss even more than I did just the lack of sex before. Have had had to have therapy to try to cope with my wife's lack of sexual desire and responce and I have actually been told be three therapists that I probably should leave here and find somebody who could give me the sex that I want. I could not do that because it would hurt her too badly. But that is not the reason that I feel like an asshole. It is because within two weeks of when I was told that I had cancer, my wife was also told that she had cancer. Her's was much worse than mine. She has undergone chemo, which put her in a coma and almost killed her, she has had five weeks of radiation where she had to drive 210 miles a day for five days a week and then had to have an eleven hour surgery. All of this could be to no avail. They could not remove all of the cancer and they may not be able to do anything else for her and she has already gone to the best cancer center in the world for her type of cancer. They think that she may only have another two years to live. So, why should I be complaining about loosing my sex when she is fighting for her life? I don't know, I just can't help it. I just can't think of having a life without sex of some kind. I am not suicidal, but in the last five years I have had two major surgeries and it really didn't make any difference to me if I survived them or not.

My wife has mentioned a few single female friends who might be possible future partners for me, but what good would it do. I couldn't satisfy them. I love oral sex and that might help them, but would a woman be able to get any pleasure out of giving me a blowjob? I know that some people have told me that there are a lot of women who could love a man with or without sex, but it is mostly my hang up.

Thanks for the links and I will be taking a good look at them.

 

[stickywaddd]

I am so frustrated and depressed. Last year I had surgery for prostate cancer. After the surgery I was much shorter than I was before. The best that I can do now is get two inches and then it is not real hard. And of course I cannot ejaculate. There is nothing there. I can masturbate and get some of the feelings. I don't think that I can get it up enough to even get it into my wife. Has anyone had sex with someone in my situation? What did you do, or what would you do. My wife has been sick so I have not had sex in over three years and I am going nuts. I would love to get laid but what woman would want someone like me? Just curious.

Fuck dude that realy sucks....

 

[dolf]

i meant it when i said that this would be better posted on the how to board here...they really are very helpful & sympathetic over there.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

Thanks to those of you who tried to help me. And no, this is not a joke, unless it is a bad one on me. I don't know why my dick is so much shorter and my doctor said that he doesn't understand it either, even though he has had some other patients tell him the same thing. He said that the way the surgery was performed it should not happen. I know that there was some nerve damage and that is why it is so difficult to get hard. I will be talking to my doctor about implants but I just don't see how they could make me any longer, just harder. And I have already tried Viagra and Levitra without any effect.

I don't think that most of you quite understand why I even brought this up. LIke all of you I love sex. I have never been able to get enough even though for a number of reasons my wife has not been able participate the way that I would like. She has been very sick with several mental and physical problems for almost 20 years (we have been married for almost 41 years and I have never had sex with anyone else). I doubt that I have had sex with her more than 20 times in the last ten years and that is very tough for me because I believe strongly that sex is the ultimate way to express my love to her. I can't help it but I equate love with sex. It is when I can truly give myself to her in a way that is only for her. I can have sex for pleasure only by myself and that has been main source of gratification. Before my surgery I would masturbate anywhere from five to ten times a week. Now that is gone too. That is why I was hoping that I could hear from someone who might have had some experience with my situation.

There are times when I feel like a complete asshole. I am feeling so bad about my loss even more than I did just the lack of sex before. Have had had to have therapy to try to cope with my wife's lack of sexual desire and responce and I have actually been told be three therapists that I probably should leave here and find somebody who could give me the sex that I want. I could not do that because it would hurt her too badly. But that is not the reason that I feel like an asshole. It is because within two weeks of when I was told that I had cancer, my wife was also told that she had cancer. Her's was much worse than mine. She has undergone chemo, which put her in a coma and almost killed her, she has had five weeks of radiation where she had to drive 210 miles a day for five days a week and then had to have an eleven hour surgery. All of this could be to no avail. They could not remove all of the cancer and they may not be able to do anything else for her and she has already gone to the best cancer center in the world for her type of cancer. They think that she may only have another two years to live. So, why should I be complaining about loosing my sex when she is fighting for her life? I don't know, I just can't help it. I just can't think of having a life without sex of some kind. I am not suicidal, but in the last five years I have had two major surgeries and it really didn't make any difference to me if I survived them or not.

My wife has mentioned a few single female friends who might be possible future partners for me, but what good would it do. I couldn't satisfy them. I love oral sex and that might help them, but would a woman be able to get any pleasure out of giving me a blowjob? I know that some people have told me that there are a lot of women who could love a man with or without sex, but it is mostly my hang up.

Thanks for the links and I will be taking a good look at them.

You sound like a really nice guy. I would feel lucky to have a husband who stayed so loyal if I refused to sex him up.

I don't have any answers, but I hope it gets better for you.

 

[bayoudog57]

BUMP
After having to have a prostatectomy I can relate.
It seems that they could figure out something that could be used to fill in the gap of have the prostrate removed.
I was very blessed to begin with but I loss half my size after surgery.
It’s down right embarrassing to have a dick the size of a 9-10 year old boy.
Not to mention that now I’ve got ED as well.
Doc gave me a RX for Trimix which you draw up into a shot needle and give your dick an injection. Yeah, that’s something I look forward to .
Anyone else out there experienced this PLEASE chime in. Have you had any luck finding meaningful sexual relationships after surgery

 

[bayoudog57]

BUMP
After having to have a prostatectomy I can relate.
It seems that they could figure out something that could be used to fill in the gap of have the prostrate removed.
I was very blessed to begin with but I loss half my size after surgery.
It’s down right embarrassing to have a dick the size of a 9-10 year old boy.
Not to mention that now I’ve got ED as well.
Doc gave me a RX for Trimix which you draw up into a shot needle and give your dick an injection. Yeah, that’s something I look forward to .
Anyone else out there experienced this PLEASE chime in. Have you had any luck finding meaningful sexual relationships after surgery

Anyone else out there?

 

[bayoudog57]

I brought this up with the doctor and he blamed it on atrophy. “The penis is another muscle that has to be exercised.”

So now after a year of trying a pump with not much luck I purchase the ProExtender.

It along with the “exercises” (jelking, stretching) they recommend is supposed to be yet another answer to our post Prostatectomy issue of much shortened penis.

Anyone else out there had any luck dealing with this issue?

 

[bayoudog57]

@Nightbob
Ignore all the jerk’s remarks.
When cancer strikes them it will be our turn to poke fun at them.
No seriously, this is NO joking matter. And if anyone near you has battled cancer you would know that!

So if you don’t have anything else to do take your SICK mindless comments elsewhere.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I am so frustrated and depressed. Last year I had surgery for prostate cancer. After the surgery I was much shorter than I was before. The best that I can do now is get two inches and then it is not real hard. And of course I cannot ejaculate. There is nothing there. I can masturbate and get some of the feelings. I don't think that I can get it up enough to even get it into my wife. Has anyone had sex with someone in my situation? What did you do, or what would you do. My wife has been sick so I have not had sex in over three years and I am going nuts. I would love to get laid but what woman would want someone like me? Just curious.

Doctors ruin lives.