should I . . . ?

[trixxi]

My guy invited me to his office holiday party. I have a great fantasy I'd like to make a reality but need some feedback.

I have a very proper business suit I will wear to the party but it has a slit & is an inch or two shorter than is perfectly proper. I want to wear garters & stockings then cross my legs for his eyes only to let him know my thighs are bare. Hopefully he'll get the message & let his fingers do the walking. Of course I'll be freshly shaved and without panties.

I've never been touched like that in public but I really want to be. He had no problems occassionally brushing against the crotch of my jeans of his own accord when we were out in a bar last week.

My concern is the venue -- his work party. I certainly wouldn't have the guts to do it the following week at my office event but that will also be black tie & my dress is to the floor with no slit. The logistics just don't lend themselves to not getting caught.

Should I leave this a fantasy & test it in another safer venue?

 

[cloudy]

My guy invited me to his office holiday party. I have a great fantasy I'd like to make a reality but need some feedback.

I have a very proper business suit I will wear to the party but it has a slit & is an inch or two shorter than is perfectly proper. I want to wear garters & stockings then cross my legs for his eyes only to let him know my thighs are bare. Hopefully he'll get the message & let his fingers do the walking. Of course I'll be freshly shaved and without panties.

I've never been touched like that in public but I really want to be. He had no problems occassionally brushing against the crotch of my jeans of his own accord when we were out in a bar last week.

My concern is the venue -- his work party. I certainly wouldn't have the guts to do it the following week at my office event but that will also be black tie & my dress is to the floor with no slit. The logistics just don't lend themselves to not getting caught.

Should I leave this a fantasy & test it in another safer venue?

Not at work...or any work-related activity.

You'd be playing around with his livlihood, and that's so not cool. Find somewhere else to act the fantasy out.

 

[wicked woman]

Not at work...or any work-related activity.

You'd be playing around with his livlihood, and that's so not cool. Find somewhere else to act the fantasy out.

Ditto...your fantasy is completely inappropriate for a work situation.

 

[SweetErika]

Ditto...your fantasy is completely inappropriate for a work situation.

Tritto.

I just read something to the effect of, 'It's not our right to impose our kinks on the unsuspecting public,' on a couple of other sites. That was mostly referencing BDSM, but when you think about it, it's applicable to all relationships and is just a function of being a considerate person.

It sounds like it might be just as great when done very discreetly in another venue; maybe meet for an Extra Happy Hour, dinner after work, at a club, or similar?