Sissies! What Type of Sissy are You?

[irishblade]

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Insecure
Virginal
Rational
Normal
Healthy
Sissy

Results summary for irishblade:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
52.5 Insecure, 47.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
95.0 Virginal, 5.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
35.0 Objectifying, 65.0 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
47.5 Masturbation Obsessed, 52.5 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
40.0 Porn Addicted, 60.0 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
72.5 Sissy, 27.5 Appropriate

 

[irishblade]

I’m a strong mix of 2+3

I’d say that in recent years I’ve been changing from the Bisexual Sissy to the Transgender, Gender Fluid Sissy and am still somewhere in between. Honestly I never liked the term ‘sissy’ for myself until after meeting so many of us here on lit. I’ve always felt more like a tomboy than like a sissy or a guy - I’m liking the term ‘tomgurl’ a lot lately.

I have a dear sweet and supportive wife but I fantasize about having a fluid sissy gurlfriend with benefits.

I hope you understand how lucky you are to have a supportive wife haha. You have many of us jealous here, Alex ;-)

 

[AlexBailey]

Me

Based on your answers, your personality type is CEOMPS.

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Confident
Experienced
Objectifying
Masturbation-Obsessed
Healthy
Sissy



In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
20.0 Insecure, 80.0 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
45.0 Virginal, 55.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
55.0 Objectifying, 45.0 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
72.5 Masturbation Obsessed, 27.5 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
37.5 Porn Addicted, 62.5 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
85.0 Sissy, 15.0 Appropriate

Not very nuanced but generally accurate.

 

[LanaBehave]

There's always generalisations when it comes to labeling people and their behaviour. I prefer to see we are all actors in whatever roles we play, effectively social constructions.
Labelling just creates stereotypes that often show prejudices outside the norm.
Better we accept our differing behaviours and not get hung up on labels.

We use labels because they are .... useful. The intention isn't to identify some incorrect association, or offensive something or other. The intention is to find common ground. Something to discuss. Interests in common.

 

[Crios]

Too damn close to the truth

Insecure
Virginal
Objectifying
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy
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Results summary for skip:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
62.5 Insecure, 37.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
87.5 Virginal, 12.5 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
52.5 Objectifying, 47.5 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
75.0 Masturbation Obsessed, 25.0 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
87.5 Porn Addicted, 12.5 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
80.0 Sissy, 20.0 Appropriate

The only real part that bothers me are the masturbation and porn addicted issues. Have to work on those.

 

[jackstud]

Fun survey....yep, I am a sissy

and a very HOT one I must say

 

[SuperSissy]

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Confident
Experienced
Rational
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy
Press enter to continue

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Results summary for skip:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
31.3 Insecure, 68.8 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
25.0 Virginal, 75.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
43.8 Objectifying, 56.3 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
62.5 Masturbation Obsessed, 37.5 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
68.8 Porn Addicted, 31.3 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
84.4 Sissy, 15.6 Appropriate
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[betabrad]

Here's a playful (and when completed, quite informative) quiz that has surfaced, to answer the question at hand...

https://betablocker.trinket.io/sites/cryers-simps-assessment

I took the medium length test. My results are below. They feel pretty accurate to me.

Based on your answers, your personality type is IVRMPS.

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Insecure
Virginal
Rational
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy

 

[starfish71]

I'd put myself in the #2 type...

My sissy score on that little assessment was 68.8, many of my fantasies are sissy in nature, and I enjoy sissy porn as much as straight porn (most gay porn doesn't do a lot for me), but I don't look or act like a sissy. My outward presentation is quite masculine, and most of the time my actual personality is as well... it is only when I am in the mood to dress up (which is limited to lingerie) that any actual sissy behavior comes out, and even that is not what I would consider "full blown" sissy... I may be a little submissive, and a little (maybe more than a little) slutty, but I have no interest in being caged, leashed, humiliated, or forced, I don't have a sissy name, don't refer to myself in the 3rd person, etc (admittedly that definition may be somewhat - or even a lot - flawed)...

 

[PallidaMors9]

60 question score

Based on your answers, your personality type is IEOMPS.

This is a shorthand notation that means that you are a:
Insecure
Experienced
Objectifying
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy
Press enter to continue

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Results summary for Amy:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
62.5 Insecure, 37.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
47.5 Virginal, 52.5 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
60.0 Objectifying, 40.0 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
77.5 Masturbation Obsessed, 22.5 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
70.0 Porn Addicted, 30.0 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
77.5 Sissy, 22.5 Appropriate

 

[ozdui]

Definitely no 2

 

[kayleighsiss]

In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
62.5 Insecure, 37.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
43.8 Virginal, 56.3 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
53.1 Objectifying, 46.9 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
46.9 Masturbation Obsessed, 53.1 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
43.8 Porn Addicted, 56.3 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
93.8 Sissy, 6.3 Appropriate

Fairly average for most things and super girly, kinda what I expected!

 

[SmokeInMyEyes]

Based upon the criteria of the original post, I'm No. 4 - a straight sissy.

I was devastated the first time my wife called me a sissy.

I had never considered myself in such terms, but she told me that she recognized a certain level of femininity within me from almost the beginning of our relationship. It only made me feel worse when she said that and my submissive nature were why she was attracted to me in the first place.

Over the years she's tried to steer me into accepting who I am, but even 25 years of her unflinching generosity has still left me conflicted and so damn insecure. It seems like I can never stay happy too long. I loved those rare times when she crossdressed me, but when she finished I couldn't bear the sight of me. But I'm also thrilled each morning when I submit to her chastity device and see the panties she's chosen for me to wear beneath my work clothes that day, but I no sooner put them on before I begin imagining her ripping them down to peg me.

I'm under 5-foot-6 and slightly built, and I've had a negative view of my physicality ever since my mother found it her duty to mock me endlessly. The older I get, the more addicted I become to my wife's love and approval - love and approval I no longer feel I deserve (if I ever did in the first place). I like to think of myself as submissive, but it seems like I only take & take from our relationship, and I hate myself for it. It's become a vicious circle.

I'm uncertain how aware she's become of my increasing obsession with porn or how often I masturbate (I'm too ashamed to mention either), but I don't seem to have fooled this test:

Insecure
Virginal
Rational
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy

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Results summary for SmokeInMyEyes:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
57.5 Insecure, 42.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
55.0 Virginal, 45.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
45.0 Objectifying, 55.0 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
85.0 Masturbation Obsessed, 15.0 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
55.0 Porn Addicted, 45.0 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
80.0 Sissy, 20.0 Appropriate

 

[stargame]

My sissy mode, the body looks ok but the makeup needs work. I feel so feminine when I dress. A total sissy and I love it. My entire demeanor and attitude changes. This just morphed on its own. I was just fooling around one day years ago trying clothes on and I found I didn't want to stop!

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2123299&d=1629752052

You are so feminine gorgeous

 

[AlexBailey]

Based upon the criteria of the original post, I'm No. 4 - a straight sissy.

I was devastated the first time my wife called me a sissy.

I had never considered myself in such terms, but she told me that she recognized a certain level of femininity within me from almost the beginning of our relationship. It only made me feel worse when she said that and my submissive nature were why she was attracted to me in the first place.
...

Don't beat yourself up. Don't let those voices from your past haunt you into insecurity about who you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, your wife sees it and appreciates you. The word "appreciate" literally means to "add value". Be nice to your inner girl. What would you think if you heard a guy picking on a girl like you do to yourself with your own insecurities?

What would you say to your own son if you had one who had feminine features? Would you want him to feel ashamed to be himself? Would you tell him that "other people's opinions are more important than your own, you need to live for the rest of the world, not yourself"?

Be kind to yourself. It's okay to embrace your uniqueness, whether you share it in public or only in private is your choice - look for a balance you can be happy with.

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

so

Don't beat yourself up. Don't let those voices from your past haunt you into insecurity about who you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you wife sees it and appreciates you. The word "appreciate" literally means to "add value". Be nice to your inner girl. What you think if you heard a guy picking on a girl like you do to yourself with your own insecurities?

What would on say to your own son if you had one who had feminine features? Would you want him to feel ashamed to be himself? Would you you tell him that "other people's opinions are more important than your own, you need to live for the rest of the world, not yourself"?

Be kind to yourself. It's okay to embrace your uniqueness, whether you share it in public or only in private is your choice - look for a balance you can be happy with.

So right and eloquently put.

 

[SmokeInMyEyes]

Don't beat yourself up. Don't let those voices from your past haunt you into insecurity about who you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, your wife sees it and appreciates you. The word "appreciate" literally means to "add value". Be nice to your inner girl. What would you think if you heard a guy picking on a girl like you do to yourself with your own insecurities?

What would you say to your own son if you had one who had feminine features? Would you want him to feel ashamed to be himself? Would you tell him that "other people's opinions are more important than your own, you need to live for the rest of the world, not yourself"?

Be kind to yourself. It's okay to embrace your uniqueness, whether you share it in public or only in private is your choice - look for a balance you can be happy with.

I appreciate your kind words, AB. They've certainly "added value" to my day. Maybe for once my wife won't have to talk me off my ledge. I can be such a pain in the ass when I get into a funk, and for that alone my wife thanks you!

I keep trying to remind myself that I'm still a work in progress. A glance at the calendar, however, suggests some things are never meant to be finished . . .

 

[comegently]

I am transgender though without surgery and present as female openly.
I have never felt a desire to be humiliated, treated rough etc.
I have wondered about romantic, receptive sex and that is my fantasy when I use toys or write stories.

 

[JacknJohn]

Hybrid sissy

I’d have to say I’m a cross between a straight sissy and a bisexual sissy
This line sums me up
“They may start and end their sissy journey obsessing over a man's cock but not the man attached to it, or they may be truly bisexual to include attraction and romance.”

I don’t want romance, I have that with my wife of 35 years
What I want is a cock I can suck off while I’m wearing panties and a man who will tell me what to do and how to do it and what will get him off to feed me his precious gift

 

[LanaBehave]

Here's Ch. 01 of a new story. I wonder what kind of labels this one would deserve? Is Jamey a sissy? I guess we'll find out!

https://literotica.com/s/jamey-visits-uncle-ron-ch-01

(also, I sorta wanted to test this new Forum platform...)

 

[drobert44]

Based upon the criteria of the original post, I'm No. 4 - a straight sissy.

I was devastated the first time my wife called me a sissy.

I had never considered myself in such terms, but she told me that she recognized a certain level of femininity within me from almost the beginning of our relationship. It only made me feel worse when she said that and my submissive nature were why she was attracted to me in the first place.

Over the years she's tried to steer me into accepting who I am, but even 25 years of her unflinching generosity has still left me conflicted and so damn insecure. It seems like I can never stay happy too long. I loved those rare times when she crossdressed me, but when she finished I couldn't bear the sight of me. But I'm also thrilled each morning when I submit to her chastity device and see the panties she's chosen for me to wear beneath my work clothes that day, but I no sooner put them on before I begin imagining her ripping them down to peg me.

I'm under 5-foot-6 and slightly built, and I've had a negative view of my physicality ever since my mother found it her duty to mock me endlessly. The older I get, the more addicted I become to my wife's love and approval - love and approval I no longer feel I deserve (if I ever did in the first place). I like to think of myself as submissive, but it seems like I only take & take from our relationship, and I hate myself for it. It's become a vicious circle.

I'm uncertain how aware she's become of my increasing obsession with porn or how often I masturbate (I'm too ashamed to mention either), but I don't seem to have fooled this test:

Insecure
Virginal
Rational
Masturbation-Obsessed
Porn-Addicted
Sissy

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Results summary for SmokeInMyEyes:
In the Insecure vs Confident dimension, your score is:
57.5 Insecure, 42.5 Confident

In the Virginal vs Experienced dimension, your score is:
55.0 Virginal, 45.0 Experienced

In the Objectifying vs Rational dimension, your score is:
45.0 Objectifying, 55.0 Rational

In the Masturbation Obsessed vs Healthy dimension, your score is:
85.0 Masturbation Obsessed, 15.0 Healthy

In the Porn Addicted vs Normal dimension, your score is:
55.0 Porn Addicted, 45.0 Normal

In the Sissy vs Appropriate dimension, your score is:
80.0 Sissy, 20.0 Appropriate

So exciting! I am not dressing for cock now, but love to be an online sissy cocksucker!

 

[drobert44]

You are so feminine gorgeous

Hi Star! Got the new site figgered? XO, Dave

 

[JHouston]

First and foremost, being a 'sissy' is about humiliation and submission. This is in stark contrast to a transgender female who wants respect. Often, a male sissy is a boy 'forced' to assume thegirl role because he is small, weak, has a tiny penis, or is otherwise inadequate as a man. Maybe he has a nasty habit of trying on lady underwear, he gets caught, and then, he is blackmailed and 'violated'. I use the pronoun 'he' because, the humiliation element is in that he is 'forced' to be a she. On the other hand, a trans woman is a 'she' and she wants to be respected, not humiliated. A sissy might be okay being called a 'faggot', 'sissy', 'femboy', etc., but, you should never say these things to a trans woman. A sissy can overlap with a cuckold. Both eroticize humiliation due to their inadequacy as a man. A dominant hotwife can 'force' her submissive tiny-penis husband to be a cuckold and a sissy, e.g., by sucking her lover's cock. Does a sissy actually like enjoy sucking cock, or, does he like the humiliation of being 'forced' to suck cock? Maybe both, but, more of the latter.

 

[drobert44]

First and foremost, being a 'sissy' is about humiliation and submission. This is in stark contrast to a transgender female who wants respect. Often, a male sissy is a boy 'forced' to assume thegirl role because he is small, weak, has a tiny penis, or is otherwise inadequate as a man. Maybe he has a nasty habit of trying on lady underwear, he gets caught, and then, he is blackmailed and 'violated'. I use the pronoun 'he' because, the humiliation element is in that he is 'forced' to be a she. On the other hand, a trans woman is a 'she' and she wants to be respected, not humiliated. A sissy might be okay being called a 'faggot', 'sissy', 'femboy', etc., but, you should never say these things to a trans woman. A sissy can overlap with a cuckold. Both eroticize humiliation due to their inadequacy as a man. A dominant hotwife can 'force' her submissive tiny-penis husband to be a cuckold and a sissy, e.g., by sucking her lover's cock. Does a sissy actually like enjoy sucking cock, or, does he like the humiliation of being 'forced' to suck cock? Maybe both, but, more of the latter.

I think you nailed it! Sissies not at all in same league as transwomen, or CD's.

 

[Escierto]

First and foremost, being a 'sissy' is about humiliation and submission. This is in stark contrast to a transgender female who wants respect. Often, a male sissy is a boy 'forced' to assume thegirl role because he is small, weak, has a tiny penis, or is otherwise inadequate as a man. Maybe he has a nasty habit of trying on lady underwear, he gets caught, and then, he is blackmailed and 'violated'. I use the pronoun 'he' because, the humiliation element is in that he is 'forced' to be a she. On the other hand, a trans woman is a 'she' and she wants to be respected, not humiliated. A sissy might be okay being called a 'faggot', 'sissy', 'femboy', etc., but, you should never say these things to a trans woman. A sissy can overlap with a cuckold. Both eroticize humiliation due to their inadequacy as a man. A dominant hotwife can 'force' her submissive tiny-penis husband to be a cuckold and a sissy, e.g., by sucking her lover's cock. Does a sissy actually like enjoy sucking cock, or, does he like the humiliation of being 'forced' to suck cock? Maybe both, but, more of the latter.

You are definitely right. My girlfriend definitely wants respect as a woman and she does not ever feel that she is playing a role. She lives as a woman at all times in a way that’s not any different than any other woman. Most of the time I forget she is trans.