Small Penis Humiliation

I'm sort of in the average range. Occasionally, I have been with a woman who tries to humiliate me by saying something like "That's rather smaller than I'm used to". My reply is "It gets a lot bigger when there is someone attractive around.".
 
I agree with everything you're saying, here. But the reason some men get off on this, I think, is not that—

—but rather—

In other words, humiliation is the core kink. A small penis, or a mind game that makes him feel small, is just a vehicle for that humiliation. It's a particularly potent vehicle precisely because:

I couldn't agree with this more, and as a general rule, I rail against these superficial and mendacious methods of putting others down. And that's what they all are, at their heart, isn't it? Ways to demonstrate social power, real or imagined, over someone else.

Except that, some of us who have experienced humiliation during our formative years, have cathected that humiliation, to use the psychological term, and transformed that pain to pleasure. It's the same as masochism, but the pain/pleasure response happens in the mind rather than the body.


No, no, it's simply a fantasy, a “suspension of disbelief,” to evoke that same humiliation.
my wife says my penis is big as she’s seen and thick girth etc but ex girlfriend said oh oh that is not big.. so it obviously depends.. lol
 
On the weekend I told one of my girlfriends about speaking to some guys on here with tiny cocks (she laughed her ass off by the way and said to say 'hi' and 'Oopsie, sorry to hear that.')

She told me that when she was at uni they had a penis size contest for all the guys on their floor of the halls of residence. One guy was about the size of her little finger and almost as thin.
She said that the girls all pitched in to buy him a HUGE sports trophy to keep in his room, so that if ever he ever took a girl back, they would ask him what it was for.
Apparently he was really into the shame and loved the attention. He went by the nickname on campus of 'Tiny Tom'.

I thought you all might appreciate that.

Xx
 
On the weekend I told one of my girlfriends about speaking to some guys on here with tiny cocks (she laughed her ass off by the way and said to say 'hi' and 'Oopsie, sorry to hear that.')

She told me that when she was at uni they had a penis size contest for all the guys on their floor of the halls of residence. One guy was about the size of her little finger and almost as thin.
She said that the girls all pitched in to buy him a HUGE sports trophy to keep in his room, so that if ever he ever took a girl back, they would ask him what it was for.
Apparently he was really into the shame and loved the attention. He went by the nickname on campus of 'Tiny Tom'.

I thought you all might appreciate that.

Xx
I wonder would they laugh if he committed suicide over the humiliation. People can put on a brave front but be mortally wounded beneath that exterior.
 
Ok, to be clear - he was and is totally fine. Social media update showed this.
I’m not a monster, I wouldn’t share something harmful.

Xx
personally i love my wife saying i’m inadequate. i’m pretty average in reality but we play at it being useless and not part of the equation anymore. if she slaps it and says what the fuck is this, there is no internal trauma at all. In a way it has informed and enhanced our marriage as it gives permission for her to sleep with better cocks.
 
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I wonder would they laugh if he committed suicide over the humiliation. People can put on a brave front but be mortally wounded beneath that exterior.
That is a really good point. You have to know, really know, the person is into it but then still wonder if he's just saying that. Loving shame is not the norm.
 
If he does give in to the shame, the trophy could become his urn. Eternal humiliation. A bronze statue all the guys into this kink can sit around and talk about in their circle jerk sessions. Pouring out a finger of their cocktails to Tiny Tim.

I'm 23% monster. ;P
 
That is a really good point. You have to know, really know, the person is into it but then still wonder if he's just saying that. Loving shame is not the norm.
doesn’t have to be the norm. i love being humiliated, i’m a regular guy but we like it.
If he does give in to the shame, the trophy could become his urn. Eternal humiliation. A bronze statue all the guys into this kink can sit around and talk about in their circle jerk sessions. Pouring out a finger of their cocktails to Tiny Tim.

I'm 23% monster. ;P
sounds like you’re about 43%
 
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