small penis humiliation

I just couldn't do it. I suppose it's just so ingrained in me that the size thing is something that absolutely crushes men, the one way to make them feel (no pun intended) three inches high. And I just couldn't do that. But then, I'm a sub, so...
 
SephStarr said:
I just couldn't do it. I suppose it's just so ingrained in me that the size thing is something that absolutely crushes men, the one way to make them feel (no pun intended) three inches high. And I just couldn't do that. But then, I'm a sub, so...


Yeah it would probably be hard for a sub to humiliate someone else. Need someone with a dominant personality. I used to be so worried about my size, but I've come to accept it. I've really never had a woman complain about the size I think I was more hung up on it then they were. But I know it's small when it's flaccid.. some times it even crawls up and is barely there.
 
I've been off Lit for awhile so I'm coming late to a lot of interesting threads, this one among them.

I find elements of small dick humiliation to be a very powerful turn-on, I guess because cuckolding is such a powerful fetish for me. Ironically, I have a very large penis, and have been told by every lover I've ever had that I use it quite well.

Why then do I get so humiliated and aroused when my Goddess/wife tells me it's too small, too soft, too pathetic to fuck, cages me in my chastity device and fucks someone else? Who knows? As Netzach said:

There are still things that ruin a good time if they screw with the headspace I want to be in.

Well . . . yeah! Exactly. Sometimes it's too much to worry and analyze what turns our cranks. I love to surrender sexual control to her, I love to watch her pleased by other men, and I get such a rush when she manages to humiliate me in the process. That's all that matters to both of us.
 
sister76 said:
I could humiliate it if you want, but I don't see anything wrong with small dicks! I love them, in fact.


Well, it's not about not liking small dicks, it's about making your man feel inferior. My guy likes that too...He really likes the cuckholding fantasy as well...He really likes when I compare his dick to black guys...considering their stereotype is to have really big dicks.

It probably shows my dominance, considering I love making him feel like he has a baby dick.
 
read2me, I've only done this, face to face, for two men. With your attitude about this kink, you're the kind of guy I'd make #3. Erotic humiliation can be a very powerful turn on for some.
 
I would have to be in the right sub space, but She's done this from time to time when she domme's...it fits in the context and definitely added a new sexy dimension...I think it's erotic since I know it isn't the case or how she really feels
 
Sph

New here, my first posting. Currently in the middle of a weekend of being dominated and humiliated for my small penis. Truly is small, 1.5 to fully retracted when flaccid about 4.5 when erect.
"You truly are the smallest I have ever had!", from my wife after coxing her to reveal her past experiences with bigger cocks. Love her to Dom/humiliate me but can't get her to do so for much more than a few days at a time with months in between. I do enjoy being humiliated because of my lack of size.
 
There's not enough porn where the wife says " your so much bigger then my husband. " Or a GF saying the same thing. I love it when my wife says " how is my little boy pee, pee doing. "
 
I think that there are many aspects of "traditional" relationships that require a woman to tread lightly or avoid discussing certain aspects of our sexual desires. Not being able to be truly open for fear of tweaking male sensitivities is often a constraint on our sexual fulfillment and self-awareness.

All the things we say about cock size like "size isn't everything" or "what matters is the man behind it" and so on are generally true but they are also in fact subtle deflections from the real matter of "does size matter?" That is because it does matter. It isn't the only thing or the most important thing, but it isn't irrelevant either.

As a hot wife it is very important IMO to be able to fully and openly explore every aspect of my sexual desire. My husband is adequate but he knows that I frequently prefer a bigger cock. I make sure he knows it not because I seek to humiliate him but because it is healthy for both of us to be honest about it. If a man finds the truth humiliating that is his problem and not an excuse to compel women to participate in his delusion. In that circumstance his humiliation is the only path to honest openness.

All those little minor deflections, obfuscations and indirect responses that make reference to cock size but don't address the yes/no question head on - that is a woman's code for "yes I would prefer a bigger cock but I don't want you to get your panties all in a bunch about it and I don't want to outright lie so I am dodging the question." For most guys just a little dose of truth is humiliating without the woman even having to intend it to be so. Some come to enjoy it and come to enjoy larger doses of humiliation.
 
When my wife first started cuckolding me I asked if she preferred guys with bigger cocks and she flat out told me yes. It wasn't the only consideration but all other things being equal she likes them thicker and longer than me. It isn't malicious, but as PW said she makes sure I have no room to delude myself. When I am allowed to participate with her lovers it is often the case that she tells me the bigger boys are for fucking and I am for licking/clean-up - that is closer to intentional humiliation, but with people we trust so I find it titillating, especially if she insists that I remain caged.
 
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Ideally, in a BDSM relationship there ought to be more of this kind of "open relationship" dynamic, and perhaps more tolerance/acceptance of the same from her romantic partner. I can imagine a relationship where our love is exclusive, and our companionship and romantic passion run deep, but where my partner can also satisfy her deep cravings (in more ways than one) for sexual satisfaction with a more well-equipped partner on the side.
 
My cock is not big to begin with. And with my fat pad, it really gets buried to which I enjoy. Have to take a pic to see it, belly in the way
 
really into it. like when women see it and say stuff about small size. sis in law and mother in law both know and have said stuff. makes me so riled and ready to shoot, but first i want touched and teased.
 
As a man who is definitely on the smaller side, I have been acutely aware of my size deficit compared to other males since early high school. It was humiliating at that age to be in a locker room shower with my peers and see that EVERY other set of genitals were hanging between their legs while only my glans was visible.

The fact that I am smaller is arousing to me nevertheless. It is one of the things that led to my reverence of big cocks, and the sight of a big cock awakens my bi-curious urges. In my erotic fantasies a much larger cock than mine deserves to be licked and sucked in acknowledgement of my inferior size.

But I'm not really into verbal humiliation. I internalize it. I create the humiliation myself.

Years into our marriage my wife made a verbal slip while drunk. She commented that the only other man she dated before me - a much older man than us - was extremely well-endowed. He was not only very thick, but also she could have both of her hands on his shaft with a couple of inches to spare.

I thought about how good she was at giving blowjobs to me when we started dating. I imagined her honing her craft on his large cock. I envisioned her being impaled upon it and reaching deeper inside her that I ever could. I don't want her to cuckold me, but I would love to have been a fly on his wall some of the nights when they fucked.
 
I think that there are many aspects of "traditional" relationships that require a woman to tread lightly or avoid discussing certain aspects of our sexual desires. Not being able to be truly open for fear of tweaking male sensitivities is often a constraint on our sexual fulfillment and self-awareness.

All the things we say about cock size like "size isn't everything" or "what matters is the man behind it" and so on are generally true but they are also in fact subtle deflections from the real matter of "does size matter?" That is because it does matter. It isn't the only thing or the most important thing, but it isn't irrelevant either.

As a hot wife it is very important IMO to be able to fully and openly explore every aspect of my sexual desire. My husband is adequate but he knows that I frequently prefer a bigger cock. I make sure he knows it not because I seek to humiliate him but because it is healthy for both of us to be honest about it. If a man finds the truth humiliating that is his problem and not an excuse to compel women to participate in his delusion. In that circumstance his humiliation is the only path to honest openness.

All those little minor deflections, obfuscations and indirect responses that make reference to cock size but don't address the yes/no question head on - that is a woman's code for "yes I would prefer a bigger cock but I don't want you to get your panties all in a bunch about it and I don't want to outright lie so I am dodging the question." For most guys just a little dose of truth is humiliating without the woman even having to intend it to be so. Some come to enjoy it and come to enjoy larger doses of humiliation.


Well said. i only want to add that i love when my women has taken a bigger dildo or dong into her pussy and totally cums up a storm due to larger and different. ... i then get to slide in and it is totally different then her normal pussy thAT she gives me (which is amazing). win win win!
 
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I think for any confident guy needing to be put in his place, it’s this that has the most impact!

For any woman we are keen on to express her disappointment and even amusement at the size of our dicks, then we can’t help, but feel totally inferior and inadequate!

It is a turn on for me, especially if it comes as a surprise and results in me becoming more desperate to prove myself to overcome my apparent inadequacies!
 
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I think, when a man his too full of himself, particularly when the woman has been getting fucked in every humiliating way, hitting him with a little SPH levels the playing field, for sure.
It's great fun, when a guy gets older and has trouble with erections, gotta face facts!
 
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