So Sad :((((((

[Devilish1]

Tonight, ive had my heart rip from me. The man ive been waiting for the last 8 months to decide if he wants a realtionship with me or not has recently told me he loves me..... BUT he is moving to Fl. Basically he told me.....we cant be together..... but he wants to still remain friends...... Wants me to move on without him.. but still talk from time to time... When HE wants to talk to me.

I poured my heart and soul out to him..... doing something i never dream i would do and begged him to not move untill he gave us a chance.

He turned everything around and said everything was my fault..... MY FAULT! Im not the one that runs everytime a problem comes up!!!

Im hurt..... but im mad as HELL too!!!!

In the last 8 months we have talked by phone..... told each other we love each other....... and now this.
We have met..... we have been together... but now he cant handle things.

I asked him if he loved me... why would he want to move out of the damn state and leave me????
He said realtionships are just complicated!

He is the one thats making it complicated! NOT ME!

UGHHHHH! IM so mad........ so hurt.... i dont know if i should cry or punch something!!!

Sorry if im rambling but i need to get this out before i lose it.

Why are men so damn COMPLICATED!
Why do men tell us they love us one minute and turn around and think its ok to just be FRIENDS????????

And men think they dont understand WOMEN????? Sheesh!

 

[GuyJD]

I'm very sorry to hear that, Devilish.
I hope everything works out for you.

 

[Laurel]

((hugs))

 

[Rubyfruit]

Sometimes we never have the answers. It fucking sucks.

Hugs to you sweetie.

 

[Guest]

*sigh*

I know how you feel sweetie. I've been in similar situations.

http://pages.prodigy.net/bestsmileys1/emoticons1/HELPME.GIF

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I wish I could say something to make it all better. But time does heal honey... sending big hugs.

 

[Orwell84]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. It may be hard to believe at this point, but not all men are not a--holes. Many men fear commitment, but there are many who do not. Time heals. Hang in there. Good luck.

 

[plasticman33]

Life takes strange and unexpected turns, Devilish1, I've experienced pain too, only time heals. Hang in there!

 

[riff]

((hugs))

((strokes head))

 

[april-wine]

Keep your chin up Devilish1..........Sending warm hugs......

 

[binkley]

In the last 8 months we have talked by phone..... told each other we love each other....... and now this.
We have met..... we have been together... but now he cant handle things.

Me suck. We really do.

Sometimes I wish I were less of a jerk, then I see the real asses getting the girl and wonder "what the hell?"

This isn't an anti-guy rant, but it is disappointing to see how much of our purpose is wrapped up in the tips of our penises.

 

[CarolineOh]

I'm sorry to read of your pain, Devilish. {{{hugs}}}

 

[InnocentAngel81]

aww i'm sorry can i beat him up for you?

 

[weed]

So sorry to hear.

What a heartache

Go ahead and cry, punch, if you must, but punch something that gives.

You need a screaming tree....somewhere in the woods where you can go give it all you got....AAAAAAAAAAAHHHH!

Then fuck it....don't keep talking to him if it's only on his terms, if it causes you more pain than pleasure.

And if you do stay in touch, demand to know what to expect so that you don't expect more than you can from this man.

Take care.

 

[sufisaint]

Give yourself sometime to heal...don't give up, you just found the wrong person and be thankful that there are not more consequences to breaking up..ie you moved with him or have kids ect.... I know that does not help much but you have a chance to start a new and findsome one who will love you back..

 

[TheDR4KE]

I'm sorry for you

I think one of the problems is that men aren't generally taught to heal, so those old hurts that they try to just power through build up until they can't face them anymore.

There's really nothing that can give you instant happiness at times like this. There shouldn't be either. You connected with someone and you need to mourn your loss.

Just know that there are many who care enough to post, and probably a lot more who would if they just knew what to say.

Hugs,

Drake

 

[sexy-girl]

i dont have any advice i can give ... but i just wanted to say im sorry

 

[Wiggles]

((Hugs for Devilish))

I hope your healing process is short and complete sweetie. I think the best thing for you is to try and just remember the good things about your relationship and let him go.

Hopefully next time around you'll find a guy who isn't scared of commitment and a good womans love.

 

[Devilish1]

aww i'm sorry can i beat him up for you?

Aww would you? I know i would feel better.....LOL just kidding.

 

[Devilish1]

((hugs))

((strokes head))

LMFAO!!! Riff.. just looking at your AV cracks me up!

Thanks for stroking my head... with the headache i have alone with this heartache...... it makes me feel better