so what happens when you get to old to sex?

[oneblueye]

hey...

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

If ya call me I'll take half of what ya are offering for the yard work if ya sit outside naked and watch me do the work.

 

[Gator66]

I enjoy getting massages that end happy. One gal that I sometimes visit told me that she has a client who is in his 90s that visits her to get a hand job. On one of his visits their session was interrupted by the man's 70-year-old son calling him to ask where he was.

 

[torchthebitch]

They put you in a box and take you to be buried, burned, thrown in the sea or put on a scaffold to be eaten by birds, obviously! SMH in despair at the youth of today.

 

[TallMan69]

Toys, viagra, porn, lube, pain relievers and incense.

 

[Crownvic]

It will just take a little longer..

 

[scrymettet]

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

I will move in close and we can have sweet tea on the porch

 

[Crownvic]

I will move in close and we can have sweet tea on the porch

It’s like an old car...still runs good..but burns a little oil...

 

[hulmule]

What's the saying- What i used to do all night, now takes me all night to do....Trust me if your partner is sexual i think you'll have no problems at keep going.. But in a lot of us guys are in sexless marriages . So it seems to far off cause of spouse.

 

[FL30]

I'll probably keel over and die of a heart attack in the middle of bumming. My wife calls me the walking hard on. I'm 43 and I haven't slowed down. I had to get off Vyvanse because it made my sex drive even worse.

43 ISN'T OLD

 

[zipper01us]

I'll probably keel over and die of a heart attack in the middle of bumming. My wife calls me the walking hard on. I'm 43 and I haven't slowed down. I had to get off Vyvanse because it made my sex drive even worse.

When I can’t get it up anymore there’s still eating pussy which gets me off even more anyway !

 

[sterculius]

I'm told the best cocksuckers are guys who are able to take out their dentures.

 

[butters]

between backs, hips, arthritis, hot-flushes and such:

a lot of women lose the desire for sex due to hormonal changes affecting parts of their bodies... dryness, irritability, a much-increased thinning of the labial/vaginal tissues all contribute to pain during sex (even oral) and so the much quoted 'women lose their sex-drive' is something of a misnomer. They're often just better at not being bothered by no sex than men. Lube is one of the most vital ingredients for post-menopausal ladies; if they're on high blood pressure meds they can't take hormonal medication/injections to rectify the lack of oestrogen their bodies are producing. Even with lube, it can take a few days between penetrative sex-sessions for a vagina to feel up to it again. Having said that, that doesn't mean they can't engage in pleasuring their partner's bodies if they want to... same goes for men who no longer can or want to have intercourse.

we're 63 and 71 respectively and still do well enough when we get too old, we'll still snuggle and hold hands. love endures even if sex does not. if the quality of your love depends on how much sex you're getting, i hope that'll change as you age, for your own sake.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

And when is that?

My father was still randy at 96...

My grandfather passed at 90. I noticed 3-4 women in the back of the church. After the service I asked my aunt. Who were those ladies in the back. She told me. Those are his girlfriends.
You go grandpa. 90 and still keeping up with 3-4 ladies.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

My grandparents used to embarrass me, siblings and cousins as teenagers, by walking in when we were watching movies, waiting for the sex scenes, and critiquing them. They would have been in their early 80s and wanted us to know that it was perfectly possible to have a good sex life at that age.

We cringed at the time and were probably put off sex for a while, but now (almost 50) I find the idea reassuring.

Grandpa was very popular in the old folks home he went to later - they'd only had one man for 50 women before that, and found that guy boring...

 

[islandman]

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

Lube.

Lots and lots of lube.

 

[sterculius]

You're never too old for oral sex. And oral sex never gets old.

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

I came. To your misspelling of "too".

 

[kathyisgr65]

Hopefully death

 

[Lady2020]

I frequently grapple with the idea why I'm still on Lit. I've considered just shutting down sexual desire completely. Then I think wtf, I have had it with being defined by anyone or anything. Especially religion and the age-old idea women are supposed to know their place. That being said, finding a man on Lit to connect with is like the Field of Dreams.

 

[Dalelaw2164]

I frequently grapple with the idea why I'm still on Lit. I've considered just shutting down sexual desire completely. Then I think wtf, I have had it with being defined by anyone or anything. Especially religion and the age-old idea women are supposed to know their place. That being said, finding a man on Lit to connect with is like the Field of Dreams.

If you build it, they will come… Right?
Yeah, probably not that easy, or everyone would be doing it.
Easier than shutting down your sexual desire perhaps, although sometimes I think women have an inside track on that that men know nothing about. I do know what you mean, desire gets kinda old, particularly when it remains unfulfilled.
I may be in the minority here, but personally, being with a woman who “knows her place” sounds really boring, I prefer a female with strength, intelligence and independence.
One who appreciates a cave troll who can change the oil in the car…
So, how about trying about a regular dating site? There will still be plenty of unsolicited dick pics thrown at you, but at least there will be some fish pics mixed in as well

 

[rjr_1954]

I frequently grapple with the idea why I'm still on Lit. I've considered just shutting down sexual desire completely. Then I think wtf, I have had it with being defined by anyone or anything. Especially religion and the age-old idea women are supposed to know their place. That being said, finding a man on Lit to connect with is like the Field of Dreams.

Men can never shut down their sex drive. It is with us until we stop breathing. Even sex doesn't slow mine (I'm 68 years young) unfortunately, I have ED so the equipment does not work, but my wife loves for me to eat her as much & as long as possible.

 

[nicechat]

Men can never shut down their sex drive. It is with us until we stop breathing. Even sex doesn't slow mine (I'm 68 years young) unfortunately, I have ED so the equipment does not work, but my wife loves for me to eat her as much & as long as possible.

Keep enjoying your meal.

 

[rjr_1954]

Keep enjoying your meal.

My doctor gave me a prescription for Cialis for my ED problem. I can't wait for a 28 hour erection. From one extreme to another.

 

[nicechat]

My doctor gave me a prescription for Cialis for my ED problem. I can't wait for a 28 hour erection. From one extreme to another.

Sounds like that might be fun for the first hour then just damn painful. This is where I think bisexuals could be said to have an advantage when ED strikes, they still can offer their asses for sex.

 

[patient1]

I'm pretty sure that when I get too old for sex I will be here reading about it.