so what happens when you get to old to sex?

[Lilianna23]

I frequently grapple with the idea why I'm still on Lit. I've considered just shutting down sexual desire completely. Then I think wtf, I have had it with being defined by anyone or anything. Especially religion and the age-old idea women are supposed to know their place. That being said, finding a man on Lit to connect with is like the Field of Dreams.

I've connected with quite a few men on Lit. Most younger than me. I'm very clear with my boundaries and what I want. I won't let any man tell me what my place is or what I can do.

If you're still interested in sex or even just connection, I think you can find it here. Hugs, girl!

 

[Erodicus]

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

I'll use an answer I heard given by a guy who had just turned one hundred. He was asked by the interviewer, "At what age do men lose interest in sex?"
He replied, "Er, you'd have to ask someone older than me!" Boom, boom!

 

[Dom70]

I always figured that I might be too old to cut the mustard...BUT...I can still lick the jar! Just sayin!

 

[donsboy]

I'll use an answer I heard given by a guy who had just turned one hundred. He was asked by the interviewer, "At what age do men lose interest in sex?"
He replied, "Er, you'd have to ask someone older than me!" Boom, boom!

my grandfather was 105 when he passed. my grandmother was heard saying old man that's just a notion...his reply come in here and let me show you my notion.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

It’s a valid point and question for discussion for sure. As a well seasoned married swinger couple there comes a point that you become a classic rock station in the midst of the youthful newbies finding their way online to that party !!

At that point it becomes more of a challenge to be willing to except that you’re not a newbie nor a member of the youth brigade either.More so In your own head then anywhere else.

Then you just need to make adjustments and make changes until that becomes to much like work rather then playtime.

But we have the advantage of being each others ride or die partners. So it hasn’t actually happened yet.

 

[dreamysub]

I don’t think I ever will. *chuckles*

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

If you’re too old for sex… it means you died yesterday…

 

[Swuck]

64, in better shape than when I was 50. I take no medication. I have an average sized cock that still gets as hard as when I was in my 20s. Wife still comments on amount of cum shoot.

I guess my answer is when I can no longer have sex I will have passed on to better things.

 

[joclfc]

64, in better shape than when I was 50. I take no medication. I have an average sized cock that still gets as hard as when I was in my 20s. Wife still comments on amount of cum shoot.

I guess my answer is when I can no longer have sex I will have passed on to better things.

Well done you and her for still being interested in each other, my applause

 

[Swuck]

Well done you and her for still being interested in each other, my applause

TY but one caveat…we have been lenient in the other’s desire to explore outside the marriage. We are very close but we exercise a don’t ask policy on what happens outside our bedroom.

 

[joclfc]

TY but one caveat…we have been lenient in the other’s desire to explore outside the marriage. We are very close but we exercise a don’t ask policy on what happens outside our bedroom.

I'm 56M and although I crave sex with my wife, she's unresponsive wich makes me frustrated

 

[Swuck]

I'm 56M and although I crave sex with my wife, she's unresponsive wich makes me frustrated

My wife is responsive but she has the desire to be pleasured by others and I also seek pleasure from others. It’s an open relationship that is unspoken.

 

[angelwingsub]

Too old or too sick I thought there would always be affection even if there wasn't sex. I wanted to be one of those cute old couples that can't keep their hands off each other and still call each other pet names. It wasn't to be. I'll love him and take care of him even without sex or affection

 

[joclfc]

Too old or too sick I thought there would always be affection even if there wasn't sex. I wanted to be one of those cute old couples that can't keep their hands off each other and still call each other pet names. It wasn't to be. I'll love him and take care of him even without sex or affection

But you crave the affection, you miss it

 

[angelwingsub]

Omg yes I let the puppy lick my face I'm so desperate to be touched

 

[joclfc]

Omg yes I let the puppy lick my face I'm so desperate to be touched

Maybe we need to go somewhere else for this?

 

[angelwingsub]

It still makes me horny to have my hands on him but being refused has come to hurt so much it's easier to not ask.

 

[angelwingsub]

Maybe we need to go somewhere else for this?

not that way!

 

[joclfc]

not that way!

I've PM you

 

[AmuseOeil]

My doctor gave me a prescription for Cialis for my ED problem. I can't wait for a 28 hour erection. From one extreme to another.

From what I've read about Viagria, Cialis, etc, that would possibly be the last erection you'd ever have. It can get dangerous...

 

[welatshaw]

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

You learn to take pleasure in what your body will still allow you to do. Least that's what I'm doing.

 

[NOBGE]

i have been pondering this a lot

so what happens when the spirit is willing but the flesh is not?

do you just give it up? or start chasing people around the retirement home?

for me - since there are no homes for old subs to retire to that's run by Doms and its not something that i can turn off and not just about sex for me, i am guessing i will just be one of those old ladies that lives all alone but pays for sexy men to come do yard work and shit until someone notices that horrible smell and finds my body

it will be awhile until i can retire but one needs to plan ahead

What’s “too old”?

 

[rainbowbite]

Too old or too sick I thought there would always be affection even if there wasn't sex. I wanted to be one of those cute old couples that can't keep their hands off each other and still call each other pet names. It wasn't to be. I'll love him and take care of him even without sex or affection

I had this hope as well. I'm still fairly "young" but my partner is older, and a variety of things has killed his drive.

Omg yes I let the puppy lick my face I'm so desperate to be touched

Ugh, I feel this. I get it.

It still makes me horny to have my hands on him but being refused has come to hurt so much it's easier to not ask.

I can relate.