Some Q&A For the Ladies - Fingering

[Guest]

Oh my...I love it.

It is such an erotic feeling , to slowly have fingers in my hot place.
Almost like bong somehwere else. I love it when one finger is just put inside of me. And just a slight movement. Moving up to my clit and rubbing and then back to my hot lil box, Teasing me to want more. Have them thrust into me 2 or 3 at a time and then have them just touching my entance to my heat. Makes be push to find them again.Begging for more. Then to have the small one put inside my ass as the tongue is beating me to climax. Wow, this is driving me crazy. It has been awhile and all I would have to do is finish my thoughts.

 

[Angel9476]

I agree! I like nothing better than to be kissed passionately all the while feeling my lovers fingers teasing, and pleasing my pussy. Making me so wet and hot, until I can't stand it any longer and beg him for the main course! Bon Appetite!

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm my fave

aren't fingers great!!!!, I love when a man is going down on me with a few fingers in me HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. i have actually never been able 2 CUM without fingers in me

 

[Felsen von Baum]

I've never thought to ask, but can a woman achieve orgasm simply by having a finger---her lover's or her own---moving in and out of her vagina with no clitoral contact?

I'm pretty sure that I've brought off a few women that way, but thinking back on it, there could have been inadvertent clitoral stimulation on these occasions.

 

[Guest]

I recently had my wife give me a lesson. Now that was fun. I just had her tell me exactly what she wants how she wants it. Turns out she doesnt like any touching inside, entrance to the vagina good inside bad. No matter how ready she is, she says she only wants one thing inside her nothing else.

But this ALWAYS works on her. When she is doing the dishes I come up behind her and grab onto her and say into her ear I love you as I stick my hands into her pants. She goes instantly limp and I have to hold her up

BTW gets me out of doing dishes as she says that is worth more then me doing the dishes. I hate dishes like cooking though

 

[Sweet Marie]

Nothing better than having your honey slide his hand into your panties under the cover of a table cloth while the two of you are having a romantic dinner out. Or him pulling you off into a corner and fisting you until you shake all over and it takes all your control not to scream with pleasure. Mmmmm

 

[Violette]

The only one who can finger me...is ME!

I'm still teaching my mate how to use his equipment. How can fingers that long not have no IDEA what the hell they're doing?!

*sigh* So right now, I'm left to my own devices. I prefer to bend over, slide my panties down and tickle my clit before diving into my warm, pink folds. Sometimes, I'll have to grab one of my ankles for balance, but only sometimes! Two handed fingering with your ass in the air...Ah! now THAT'S an adventure!

 

[Angel_Babe]

I love fingering myself. Just let the fingers do the walking!! hehe... I've orgasimed everytime. Playing around makes me even hotter, then when you actually do the action, it's greater. Omg!Everyone else has said what I'm thinking about it. Nothing is greater than having fingers inbetween your legs. It's the true way in knowing your body and how you like to be pleasured. uuhhhhhh.... Happy holidays!!!!

 

[Felsen von Baum]

I wish someone would answer the question I posted a week or two back: Can you make yourself cum simply by moving your finger in and out of your vagina and without touching your clit?

 

[Violette]

Well, you could...

if you can find your g-spot, you could have a very good chance at bringing yourself off without clit stimulation...seriously, though, why not let your clit in on the fun?

 

[TheOlderGuy]

what a lovely thread

i don't want to feel like just a voyeur 'watching' all of you, but i don't want to violate the female perspective either. perhaps when things slow down the guys can add their own anecdotal evidence

 

[lovetoread]

I wish someone would answer the question I posted a week or two back: Can you make yourself cum simply by moving your finger in and out of your vagina and without touching your clit?

Well,I personally can't. Heck I havent even found that g-spot so the search is still on....sigh......

 

[Lillith Veniziano]

*Grins* ...Well, fingering by your partner is always fun...but sometimes there are those places and things that you want to be touched, and touched right -now-. I've found it's a bit difficult to convey your desires to your partner, especially through words. So I guess it comes to no real surprise when I say that I prefer to finger -myself-, than to have someone -else- do it. *laughs* ..Only I can know all the right places to be touched and when they should be touched, or how. Sure, having a partner with a gift for it perform it on you is always a thrill...but it just can't beat personal knowledge. I think some of you ladies will agree with me. There's no shame in admitting that you masturbate. I'm admitting it freely, here and now. It's a wonderful thrill, and there is no hand more experienced than your own.

 

[Lillith Veniziano]

I neglected to mention something in my above post.

When fingering myself...I like to start it slowly. It's much more of a turn on for me to just brush over my sexfolds with the tip of one finger. I'll start first on one side, travel up or down the length of my outer fold on that side, before I slide over to the other side and repeat the actions there. Then I take two fingers..usually my index and middle fingers...and run them up and down on both sides at once for a few moments, before I spread myself open using my pinkie and index finger, and begin to brush up through the middle with my middle finger. I usually repeat this up until the point it forces a gasp from my lips..and then I end up using my ring finger as well.

At that point, I'm usually aroused and moist enough to start sliding my fingers into myself..and from that point on I end up using my thumb to stimulate my clit until I make myself cum.

 

[njgurl]

fingered

Now most men have no clue as to method nor tack...What you need to do is watch your lady in the first place.... There is no plastic toy inside that you need to dig out...go about it slowly....Thats not the only sensitive spot....Slowly touch and caress as you go and don't just dive in....go in slowly and build up a rhythm...and then everything else should go just the same....

 

[Felsen von Baum]

Re: Well, you could...

if you can find your g-spot, you could have a very good chance at bringing yourself off without clit stimulation...seriously, though, why not let your clit in on the fun?

Oh, don't get me wrong! For the past many years, any time I've put my finger up a vagina, I've also either stroked or tongued my partner's clit to bring her to orgasm.

The reason for my question was that, on a few occasions in the somewhat remote past, I've stroked my finger in and out of a vagina and (I think!) brought her to orgasm without clit stimulation. I've heard of "clitoral orgasm" and "vaginal orgasm" and the argument as to whether the lateral is possible or not, and I just wondered if I'd been kidding myself all these years.

 

[Felsen von Baum]

Sorry for the typo! That should be "whether the latter is possible," not "whether the lateral is possible."

 

[ksmybuttons]

soft, gentle fingers...

A cool dry finger, sliding over from the top of my cleft along the inside of my lips, lying right next to my button. The dry, cool against my moist hot. Ummm.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Re: Re: Well, you could...

The reason for my question was that, on a few occasions in the somewhat remote past, I've stroked my finger in and out of a vagina and (I think!) brought her to orgasm without clit stimulation. I've heard of "clitoral orgasm" and "vaginal orgasm" and the argument as to whether the lateral is possible or not, and I just wondered if I'd been kidding myself all these years.

Clinically speaking: Just as your penis does not end at the top of your balls, the clitoris is not just the little button at the top. It, too, has a root and extends back towards the vagina. You might not have been stroking the head of the clitoris, but it is difficult to not touch that root when you are sliding your fingers in unless you are going straight in or from the back.

 

[Felsen von Baum]

Re: Re: Re: Well, you could...

Clinically speaking: Just as your penis does not end at the top of your balls, the clitoris is not just the little button at the top. It, too, has a root and extends back towards the vagina. You might not have been stroking the head of the clitoris, but it is difficult to not touch that root when you are sliding your fingers in unless you are going straight in or from the back.

In most instances of the experiences I've referred to, I was putting my finger in from the front, my partner being slumped down in a seat, so I expect you're right that I was stimulating her clit if only by "remote control," so to speak.

However, a young girl of my acquaintance (many, many years ago) liked to have me move my finger in and out of her vagina while she was on her knees and elbows. So, my finger indeed was going straight into her vagina, and I was pretty sure that she had orgasms that way, because I could feel her vaginal sphincter squeezing my finger. Since I was so much older than she was and married, she never would let me replace my finger with my cock, much to my regret. The only way she would repay the pleasure I gave her was to allow me to have intramammary sex with her. Even at the age of 14, she had D-cup breasts, and they could completely engulf my erection between them. My own pre-cum juices lubricated the way, and my orgasms by that method were memorable. And, yes, I am a dirty old man---and have been since I was 17.

 

[Lillith Veniziano]

Heh...we seem to have gone from a discussion of how we like to do it or have it done into a "How To" of sorts. ;p Pretty interesting how a sexual discussion can turn scientific at the drop of a hat, isn't it?

 

[ksmybuttons]

Poof!

 

[njgurl]

Fingering

Either it's a how to or how cum...We all cum to the same conclusion.....I see....

 

[MasterMe]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Well, you could...

<snip> And, yes, I am a dirty old man---and have been since I was 17.

Right on!

 

[lovetoread]

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