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availableslave2u

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i'd tell you who, but i don't know what alt he's using now. his birhday is this friday, november 20th.

i was involved with this person last year. he told me that he had a brain disease. we actually met in person and had an enjoyable time. unfortunately, his brain disease got worse. i got an e-mail from "his son" in late december telling me that his father had passed away.

as many of you know, i was heartbroken. i found out then what incredible people there are on lit. caring and compassionate. i felt very blessed that i had so much support to help me through that difficult time.

something was bothering me about the whole thing though. i had the gut feeling that something was wrong. i did some research and found out that he never died. i obtained his new e-mail address and sent him an e-mail asking why he did what he did. no response, of course. i had no choice but to put the whole thing behind me.

i did, until in early june when i was talking to a friend of mine and she told me how upset she was. she had recently been hurt by someone she was talking with online. we commiserated and imagine my surprise when she sent me a picture of her man and it was the same guy as mine!

let me start this next part by telling you that i'm usually the kind of person who believes that it's better to turn the other cheek. i don't like to hurt anyone and i don't believe in alts. well, i went against all three of those beliefs and i did somethings that i've never done before, and will never do again. first off, i created an alt. i did it for one reason only, to get the chance to talk to this person again and hopefully build a phony relationship with him and work towards my revenge. i want to make it clear that i never talked with anyone as my alt. i never played with anyone as my alt and i won't post again as this alt, or any other. no one got hurt by this alt but my intended target.

it worked. in short time, my alt and his alt were talking on e-mail and instant message. it was rather easy to have him fall for her. after all, i know all of his likes and dislikes. i knew his fantasies. she was his perfect woman. he couldn't believe his good fortune at finding her. i do feel bad that at the time we started taking he was talking with another woman on lit. he ended their relationship. i know she was hurt, but in the long run, she was hurt less by what happened than she would have been by what would have happened.

it didn't take long for him to profess his love to my alt. they were going to meet. all was happiness and sunshine. during this time however, he was posting under yet another alt. this alt was created a few years ago, which is rather scary. who knows how many alts he has and how many women he's hurt. my alt said that she had a dream he was posting under another name. she badgered him about it and he eventually stopped posting as this alt.

things were going well between my alt and him and then i think i tipped my hand. i said something that i think made him suspicious. he sent an e-mail that he had to go out of town. then he got the flu and that's the last they spoke. i guess she was supposed to believe he died from his sickness.

he is sick alright, just not with the flu. i want to caution women here to be careful with who they hook up with. know that not everyone is who they portray themselves to be. if you meet someone that lives in wisconsin, michigan, or florida, be careful. if this person has a background as an emt or another medical person, be leery. if his fantasy first meeting involves no words before a long deep kiss, run like hell.

yes, you asshole, that was really me pretending to be someone else. my ultimate plan was for us to meet, but when i opened up the hotel room door, it would have been me and not the woman you thought you were going to meet. i wanted to give you back the fake rose you gave me. i realize that you will never change your ways, but i hope this has shown you that others can play your game and one day you will get caught.

oh, and one more thing. kiss my ass.
 
Wow. That's quite a story. What a cruel thing to do.
Sounds like he really does have a brain disease. I'm glad you never meet him again, there's no telling how he might have reacted
 
Wow hon, I am sorry to hear this.

I think many of us that have spent any time on Lit have been played false. I know I had strong feelings for someone on here but could not get past the multiple lies, game playing and lack of respect including the fact that there was one set of rules for me and another for him and him spreading lies about me in order to gain sympathy from various females on here.

Lesson learned. This is the internet and there will be people who play false with your emotions.

I hope you and the other ladies move on and are able to meet men that are not only real, but good men.

There are several here on Lit.:rose:

Hugs and again I am sorry some people have to be such losers and play games, hurting so many in the process.

HUGS
 
I am guessing here, but I think I should be wishing him a Happy Birthday with many happy returns....LOL
 
i'd tell you who, but i don't know what alt he's using now. his birhday is this friday, november 20th.

oh, and one more thing. kiss my ass.

Oh holy HELL girlie...
{{{{BIG HUGS}}}
Going to dig out my batgirl boots on your behalf and HOLY HELL!
I'm sorry you had to deal wit that... I'm sorry anyone had to deal with that.
You hear stories and all, but sheesh... omg...
We could arrange to have him dead... just saying... . :D
Living well is the best revenge... be happy girlie..
and to the loser well karma is one hell of a bitch.
 
{{{{Slave}}}}

Good for you!

I don't wish him any RETURNS. I wish a large bus to drop out of the sky on his ugly ass (you all know who else I hope is standing next to him when that happens)

I wish perpetual ass itch on his ugly hide.

Not for the tears *I* shed over him. Sure, that farewell email had me in tears for a couple days....that matters NOT... but for breaking the heart of one of my sweetest, kindest, happiest through hardship, lit friends.

What kind of person does that? I don't think he is sick. I think he is cruel.

Shame on you, D. I don't so much believe in Karma...but I do believe in a 2 x 4 studded with nails...and if I EVER see you, that's what I'd like to do. Cosh you in the nuts with it.

I drive by your brother's and feel sorry for HIM!

K...who doesn't feel kind or generous about this.
 
I was far from Lit almost a year and yesterday I decided to went back.

I still didn't meet all my old friends here, but I still remember lot of posts of availableslave2u. When I see a thread open for her about a "birthday" I decided to read... and I'd found this tale about good girls and a bad man...

Well, as a man, I can't forgive people that can hurt so deep and so cruel way a nice lady like slave is. I can only give her my best wishes and offer her my friendship if she wanna talk (in my bad English :) ).

Maybe put his photo can help others, or open a new thread for "People you won't should meet because will hurt you" can be a good idea.

Well done, slave, you was very brave for do this. I admire you for having the strength to do it.
 
Oh holy HELL girlie...
{{{{BIG HUGS}}}
Going to dig out my batgirl boots on your behalf and HOLY HELL!
I'm sorry you had to deal wit that... I'm sorry anyone had to deal with that.
You hear stories and all, but sheesh... omg...
We could arrange to have him dead... just saying... . :D
Living well is the best revenge... be happy girlie..
and to the loser well karma is one hell of a bitch.

no truer words...unless it is the karma...

yaknow the rabid second admendment bunch would help in a heartbeat. ;)

I lubs ya Slavey. :kiss:
 
I was far from Lit almost a year and yesterday I decided to went back.

I still didn't meet all my old friends here, but I still remember lot of posts of availableslave2u. When I see a thread open for her about a "birthday" I decided to read... and I'd found this tale about good girls and a bad man...

Well, as a man, I can't forgive people that can hurt so deep and so cruel way a nice lady like slave is. I can only give her my best wishes and offer her my friendship if she wanna talk (in my bad English :) ).

Maybe put his photo can help others, or open a new thread for "People you won't should meet because will hurt you" can be a good idea.

Well done, slave, you was very brave for do this. I admire you for having the strength to do it.

I think this qualifies him for gilipollas status, don't you, trisquel?

Well, Slave, you know how I feel about this. I'm always going to be sorry that this happened to you. But you came out stronger, you triumphed, and I'm so very proud of you.

Unfortunately, as we well know, his outing doesn't lessen by much the number of true jerks -- both male and female -- that still remain who will use Lit and other sites to hurt others. Yours is a cautionary tale that many would do well to heed.
 
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I think this qualifies him for gilipollas status, don't you, trisquel?

Well, Slave, you know how I feel about this. I'm always going to be sorry that this happened to you. But you came out stronger, you triumphed, and I'm so very proud of you.

Unfortunately, as we well know, his outing doesn't lessen by much the number of true jerks -- both male and female -- that still remain. Yours is a cautionary tale that many would do well to heed.

Wise words, Natty.:rose:
 
(((((((((Slavey))))))))):rose:

YOU GO GIRL!!!

I fear that asshole hasn't given up on his antics. WAY to many similarities for it to be coincidence. This man has taken friendships and more than one woman's love....and abused them in the worse way. Piss him off by continuing to get stronger from his actions.

Kendra....that nail studded 2 x 4 sounds like a GREAT plan!!!

Melody....Karma is a bitch...as he will eventually find out.

Lying asshole...what goes around...comes around...and I hope you get yours tenfold.
 
Nothing more to add, other than wishing again for a chance to kick someone, but thought this was important enough to stay on page 1....
 
Damn this is interesting and shitty all in the same context. Poor dear, but good for you for gettting him at his own game. Makes me want to know who? but not my business.
 
Well done slavey... but I still think you should out the bastard.... and all the alts he uses. His kind prey on their victims suffering in silence, or blurting so that their identity is unknown.

Well done though.... I just wonder who he is now.

:kiss:
 
After all the hurt the bastard has caused....his alts AND photo needs to be made public.
 
After all the hurt the bastard has caused....his alts AND photo needs to be made public.

Well... much as I'd like the photo posted... I think it might break all sorts of rules :(

But the alts... yes.... I'd like to out them, but I promised not to... not my place. :eek:
 
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