Spouse/SO admits a secret fantasy—did you love it or hate it?

[Charlesbarber]

So my very conservative and somewhat prudish wife were playing one of those card games for couples and the card “Share a secret fantasy” got drawn from the stack. Now, my wife is very self conscious and very tame these days, but in the last (before kids) has let loose a few times. So to get her talk about sex topics and fantasies…it’s extremely rare and difficult to get her to open up. So it was her turn and she tells me that she’s fantasized about bringing another woman into our bed. that’s just the beginning. She continues hinting that she’d want to play with herself while watching me and this mystery woman go at it. Wtf?! Now I’m getting hard. Lol! I asked her, “you get turned on thinking about me messing around with another woman right here in our bed next to you while you touch yourself watching us??”
“Well I’d join in after a bit, but yes.”
Holy shit! Told her that’s the sexiest thing I’ve heard her say and that she had gotten me super hard. I pushed my luck a little further and told her how hot it would be if she directed our play by telling us what to do to/with each other while she watched. Suck him here, lick her there, fuck her harder, etc etc. She said “yeah, that’d be fun.” My wife said this. Crazytown. It will never happen in real life, but so super sexy to talk about.

So my question to you people of Lit…has your spouse or SO every disclosed a fantasy to you and how did you receive it? Did it turn you on? Turn off? Did you share your fantasy with them and what was their reaction? (Side note: my disclosure of fantasies with her have not always gone this well. )

My SO texted me her fantasy while I was at work. She said her desire was to lick and finger my asshole after a good bareass OTK spanking. I immediately sent her a video of me ejaculating into the toilet in one of the bathroom stalls at work

 

[Charlesbarber]

My SO texted me her fantasy while I was at work. She said her desire was to lick and finger my asshole after a good bareass OTK spanking. I immediately sent her a video of me ejaculating into the toilet in one of the bathroom stalls at work

Of course that led to a photo exchange and her butt naked when I got home

 

[meagain23]

When my wife and I were first dating we shared past experiences, turn ons, turn offs, fantasies, etc. She floored me when she readily admitted that she was curious what it would be like for her to be with another woman. It’s a fantasy for her at this point and I would certainly never push her to do it, but I’m definitely a fan of her fantasy. I like to use this fantasy a bit when we are in bed together to get her wound up. One time I asked her what she would do if two beautiful women seduced her and wanted to have their way with her. Her exact response was “I probably wouldn’t say no”.

dont push but definitely encourage her

 

[RodgerMe]

My wife also fantasises about being raped by a stranger, I have to say it's the biggest turn on ever. Of course we don't want it to happen irl but he sex we have when we talk about it is mind blowing.

 

[RodgerMe]

She told you this scenario? With all the details? That’s insanely hot! Even if it never happens, just hearing that she’s thought this out in detail is enough to get me hard. Lol! That’s awesome.

That's so hot it's got my cock throbbing, I'd love to think my wife could have a fantasy like that. I'd definitely be up for letting her actually play out her fantasy so long as I could watch lol

 

[ChuckWolf]

Most of the time I love and encourage it, but if the fantasy is "icky" to me (incest, anything super-messy or violent), I'll try to 'negotiate" her fantasy into something we can both work with (Example: instead of roleplaying her "dad", I'll be some other authority figure, a college professor, cop, etc. who "punishes" her).

In the old days, my experience that getting a woman to share her fantasies, was like pulling teeth and when they did share, it was some kind of vague, vanilla bullshit (kissing under a waterfall).

Of recent years, with premium/mainstream TV getting more explicit, I believe that has helped get the conversations about sexual fantasies, going.

 

[AnthonyT0715]

I think I had posted before but our favorite game was," who would you fuck if you had the chance and why"! She didn't like some of my answers lol

 

[Samantha47]

I think I had posted before but our favorite game was," who would you fuck if you had the chance and why"! She didn't like some of my answers lol

Why honey

 

[AnthonyT0715]

Why what sweetie? My answers?

 

[Samantha47]

Why what sweetie? My answers?

Yes

 

[AnthonyT0715]

Because one of them was my best friends wife

 

[Samantha47]

Because one of them was my best friends wife

That would be nice

 

[AnthonyT0715]

Yes she was. My wife was only an A cup but she knew I liked big tits( thats the only porn we rented). Best friends wife was 40dds lol
Actually hubby wanted to swap one night but wife said no

 

[Guardianweekender]

Lucky you! My wife has always claimed not to have any sexual fantasies
(As opposed to me)

Same with me.

Means by fantasies involving her are increasingly naughty and dark! Would teach her a lesson for not having fantasies

 

[Solsurfer]

I think I had posted before but our favorite game was," who would you fuck if you had the chance and why"! She didn't like some of my answers lol

That’s a very dangerous game. Lol!! I’d love to play that game but my wife would not. Especially if we started talking about people we know personally.

 

[Horndauwg]

That’s a very dangerous game. Lol!! I’d love to play that game but my wife would not. Especially if we started talking about people we know personally.

My partner would not enjoy it either. She always says she has no interest.

 

[AnthonyT0715]

That’s a very dangerous game. Lol!! I’d love to play that game but my wife would not. Especially if we started talking about people we know personally.

Yeah. Kinda backfired on her lol

 

[Qky75]

She keeps dreaming I died in various violent ways.....oh sure she says they were nightmares but I'm not so sure

 

[Charlesbarber]

Because one of them was my best friends wife

I did my best friends wife and the girl he cheated on her with, and him!

 

[Horndauwg]

She keeps dreaming I died in various violent ways.....oh sure she says they were nightmares but I'm not so sure

Lol

 

[Horndauwg]

I did my best friends wife and the girl he cheated on her with, and him!

Nice

 

[Solsurfer]

Yeah. Kinda backfired on her lol

You’d have to keep it to famous/celebrities. Even then, my wife doesn’t like to play that game. Unfortunately.

 

[Horndauwg]

You’d have to keep it to famous/celebrities. Even then, my wife doesn’t like to play that game. Unfortunately.

 

[AnthonyT0715]

You’d have to keep it to famous/celebrities. Even then, my wife doesn’t like to play that game. Unfortunately.

She mentioned celebrities, I picked real people lol

 

[Charlesbarber]

My wife also fantasises about being raped by a stranger, I have to say it's the biggest turn on ever. Of course we don't want it to happen irl but he sex we have when we talk about it is mind blowing.

I’d like to help you. I find rape fantasies so hot.