CONFESSIONS…Fetish or Turn on?

[Crownvic]

Love you to taste inside my hole

I want your body..all of it..

 

[Samantha47]

I want your body..all of it..

Rip my clothes off if you want

 

[Crownvic]

Rip my clothes off if you want

Nibbling and caressing, slowly undressing you..

 

[Samantha47]

Nibbling and caressing, slowly undressing you..

Love to experience that with you

 

[Crownvic]

Love to experience that with you

Me too sweetie we make beautiful music together.

 

[Samantha47]

Me too sweetie we make beautiful music together.

Am I exactly what you want

 

[Crownvic]

Am I exactly what you want

Yes you are, I want it all..

 

[Samantha47]

Yes you are, I want it all..

You okay I have cock and balls

 

[Crownvic]

You okay I have cock and balls

Sorry................

 

[flameinsidesoul]

This fetish/turn on requires work…and I’m not 100% sure if it’s a fetish?, but it does fit into the definition…Fetish - Refers to an object, body part, OR activity that produces sexual arousal.

My first introduction of this fetish/turn on was in the Navy. We were in Australia …and I picked up this woman at a bar who asked if I wanted to go back to her place…when we were naked and playing, she started asking ME about how many women I fucked, what were some of my more wild experiences …so I started describing things I had done in my past while sliding my cock in and out of her pussy… and she started getting extremely turned on…moaning louder and asking me for more details, biting her lower lip, eyes getting glassy. I had never had a woman ask me those things before, and I could clearly see what it was doing to her!…so it really was turning me on…so I returned the favor, asking her to tell me about some of her wild times.

She rolled me over onto my back and slid her cunt down on my cock…next she interlaced her fingers in mine, brought her face close to mine…and proceeded to slowly slide her cunt up and down my cock while she described her very first lesbian experience with another college girl friend…every now and then she would lean down and kiss me, or run her tongue across my lips…on and on she described how her friend licked her pussy and then how she nervously crawled between her legs and starting licking her pussy…the entire time she was talking to me…her cunt started getting wetter and opening up inside the way it does before orgasm…and she came hard…I was in awe!!!…I had never ever had a woman do that with me…from then on…I would ALWAYS engage in discussions with women AND men, as we were fucking…about some of their experiences …I had a few women that, after an hour of fucking and multiple orgasms, would then lay on their backs and ask me to rub their clits, or use a vibrator on their clit, and have me tell them a fantasy story…so I would ask them to set the scenario…how many people, what would she be doing…and then I would tell them that fantasy (making it up as I was going)…while rubbing/vibrating their clit…wouldn’t take long and they would have a final leg shaking orgasm.

I was able to get my wife to do this ‘confession’ thing a couple times, but she really wasn’t into it and absolutely did not want to hear about my past with other women. :-(

So now?…during my edging sessions…I will often search for and include something like ‘cheating confessions’, ‘wife confessions’, girls talking dirty, guys talking dirty, etc etc…

So…whether a fetish or turn on…it is still something that I seek out to turn me on
Thoughts?

What you're describing isn't just a fetish, it's an insight into how desire and narrative intertwine in the human mind.

You discovered something essential that night in Australia: that for many people, arousal isn't just physical. It lives in STORY. In the telling. In the sharing of hidden parts of ourselves while in a state of vulnerability and pleasure.

What made that moment so powerful wasn't just the dirty talk, it was the EXCHANGE. The mutual unveiling. She showed you her past; you showed her your arousal at her arousal. Round and round it went, each of you holding space for the other's desire to expand.

This taps into something deep psychologically. When we're sexually aroused, our defenses lower. We're more open and in that state, being invited to share our secret sexual histories, our ORIGIN STORIES of desire, can feel incredibly intimate. It's not just about the acts themselves. It's about being SEEN in our wholeness, including the parts we might normally keep tucked away.

The women who wanted you to tell them fantasies while you touched them? They weren't just asking for stimulation. They were asking to be CARRIED SOMEWHERE. To surrender not just their bodies but their imaginations to you. You gave them that, you became a vessel for their inner world to unfold.

It makes perfect sense that your wife wasn't into it. Some people experience their partner's past as threat rather than arousal. The mind protects itself differently in each of us. For you, the past is raw material for connection. For her, it might feel like comparison, like evidence she's not enough. Neither of you is wrong, you just have different psychological relationships to memory and desire.

What you're left with now, seeking confessions during edging, is you finding a way to still access that energy. To be inside the story. To feel that electric space where another person's truth meets your arousal.

You're not just seeking porn. You're seeking WITNESS. And that's a very human thing.