Spring Carolina Litogether

[yourdestonie]

Nite all I'm off to bed sweet erotic dreams

 

[1sexylady]

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Can I be easy then ????

Yeah..we will let you..

 

[1sexylady]

Nite all I'm off to bed sweet erotic dreams

Ok so do you want one of my bad poems too???

Nite Sis....

 

[MischievousGntlman]

Actually its most men and maturity usually plays no part in it.

Young or older they seem to go in the pretense that we will find Our own G-spot or make our selves go over the edge. While expecting us to help them. Now mind ya I don't care to give it a little push once in a while. but the only man I've ever been with who really Really did it him self actually knew his way around my body and used his knowledge to well you get th e picture.

just laying there while we ride to climax isn't my idea of help, if we did that we'd be called something like a dead fuck.

ok ladies am I right????

That's EXACTLY right! But what if the lady is really, really getting off on riding you? Would you stop her? Get real. If it's not broke, don't fix it....ya know?

On the other hand, if she's not having a fantastic time, then the guy has to respond to that and start exploring until she goes out of her mind. There's not a time limit!! However long it takes is good enough. What? Guys don't like exploring women's bodies? Well...not this one. Pencil me into that schedule ANY time...unless she stinks or somethin'. I don't care if I gotta end up hangin' ya from your friggin' toes and going over your whole body w/ a feather duster. ANY guy should. I mean...what's the point if she doesn't enjoy it? That's like putting up a bill board on the highway that says "hey everybody, I'm lame!!" (Yeah, the analogy refers to women's tendency to gossip. Not that men don't either, though.)

Bottom line: I learned a long time ago that if she's not happy, I won't be happy either. It's MUTUAL!! That's why they call it "coupling."

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

*giggles* pick em out young and raise em like ya want em

Ya going to bring her with ya in May??

Oh no!! It was really weird. She's my student and I've NEVER done that before. She heard I was separated after 25 years of marriage and it's like she thought I was "Mr. Clean" or something. She's actually a virgin, but only because she's a suck slut. Look me up at the Litogether and I'll fill ya in. It really, really was one of the weirdest encounters I've ever had.

I was DEFINITELY not the one in charge! This girl needs a leash or something.

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

No shes right its 72 the blue are those who live close enough not to need to reserve a room.

WooHoo!!! Very, very cool, indeed.

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

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You would have had to have been in Ashevill back in Sept at the late one to know and its something you'll definatly know after leaving Charlotte *grins*

OK....you've definitely got my attention. I'll look forward to finding out.

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

Thing is most men know tht they just don't put it to practice. And thats just fact.

That really, really is a shame. It's a TOTAL ego trip for me to experience a lady's reaction. In fact, without that reaction, it's shit. I feel like some kinda low life who's just using somebody ...and that's a TOTAL turn off. Unless I was drunk, I'd even lose my hard-on. I'd rather just jack-off and be done with it if it's just a matter of busting a nut. Ya know? It's the whole interaction of two people "merging" into each other that makes sex worth while. In fact, that's what makes the other person SO important: they gotta be on the same page or there's no friggin' point in it. I'd rather have a hooker or watch porno and just be honest w/ myself if it's a matter of self-indulgence.

Sounds to me like you need to be more picky. Granted, there's a time and place to please the other w/ no regard to yourself, but that should be exception to the rule, NOT the rule.

Honestly, if that's not typical in your relationship w/ your significant other, then they REALLY aren't that "significant" 'cause they're really not lookin' out for your interests.

MG

 

[Angelofsex]

Smacking your ass...bad angel...bad angel. ALL THE TIME!!!!

Oh hellllllllllll, you are always smacking me. Can't help it if I am a bad angel at times.

 

[Angelofsex]

Ok everyone following is a list of the BDSM workshops that will be held on Sat of the Litogether. The Workshops will each be held to a 20 person limit so if your interested please let me know so I can get you on that particular list before it fills up.



Rope Bondage 101 11 am till 12:30 pm Sat

“Rope bondage is one of the cardinal kinks. It can also be one of the most complicated, but it doesn’t have to be. A little knowledge, a little practice, and a little rope are all that is necessary to safely & securely tie somebody up (or down).
Rope Bondage 101 provides all of the essentials, including a discussion of safety, a look at different types of rope, and lots & lots of hands-on practice. The only prerequisite is that participants be able to tie their own shoes – everything else, including rope, will be provided.”


“Neil is an engineer and a photographer who lives in Charlotte, NC. For him, rope is a culmination of both of those interests, an engineering and an aesthetic challenge that pleases left & right brains.”


Spanking 1:00 PM - 2:00 pm Sat

Think spanking is just a hand a nice bare ass? Think again. There are lots of different elements you can introduce with your partner to make it rewarding for the both of you.

Master Rickford and slave kimmie began their M/s relationship 5 years ago.
Through out this time they have enjoyed the journey of learning about
themselves and their relationship as Master/slave. Both have presented
workshops and facilitated discussions on M/s relationship topics. Their
presenting history began with slave kimmie presenting at BR2002 and things
took off from there. They are both happy to have presented to groups
throughout the southeast. Their presentation/workshop on Ageplay has been well received for over the past year and a half. Their workshop topics include Words are
Cheap if You Don't Know The Language - a workshop on relationship communication,
Identifying The Early Signs Of "Frenzy" Both From The Top And Bottom-
learning what comes with and what to look for out of someone who is starved
for a "fix", Myths & Legends of Littles - Most everything you may not have known
about the world of ageplay, "Uncommon Beauty" - More Than Just A Perfect 10 - covers the Uncommon Beauty of not only the bottom/sub/slave but also of the
Top/Dom/Master, You Are Your First Line of Defense - this is a workshop
intended to help raise the "save the Top/Dom/Master" awareness level among
the bottoms/subs/slaves. Recognizing the red flag areas that come up in you
and helping them be identified by others you may have relationships with or wish
to have relationships with.

Master Rickford and slave kimmie won the Southeast Master / slave contest at
Together In Leather, becoming Southeast Master 2004 and Southeast slave
2004. Both are looking forward to the new faces and educational opportunities of
their title year.


Age Play 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Sat

Ageplay: Myths and Legends of Littles:
A fun and educational look into the world of Ageplay, through a
presentation, including audience participation, skits, interesting facts and laughter.
There will be coupons given to those "Non-Ageplayers" who attend, and helpful
hints to those "kids-at-heart" folks. They will open doors to not only the kink
of Ageplay but will also talk on Ego Play (AKA Humiliation Play), other
Role-play situations and scene prep. So as Mr. Willie Wonka sang, "Come with me and you'll see a world of wild imagination."

This Demo is also presented by “Uncle” Rickford and kimmie

Play Date 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Sat

Play Date!!!
So many toys so little time.
If you have a pair of overalls, a dress with lace ruffles, a Disney shirt,
or just any favorite "play clothes" this would be a great time to air them
out.
Bring your dolls, stuffed animals, toy cars and games. Also if you are
interested in learning more about the "Big" side of an ageplay relationship
this is a great time for you to ask questions, watch and join in if you feel
comfortable.
What the "Play Date" offers to those interested in learning more
about the workings of Ageplay, is a place to stretch their wings a bit. It's a
more relaxed atmosphere to ask questions, chat and color of course. I understand
space may be limited so I would encourage you to RSVP now, it's gonna be
fun, I promise )
slave kimmie



Knife Play 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Sat

Fire, Knife, and "Mindfuck" play
Presented by Master of the Midnight Thunder
*** Warning, this is not a "kinder, gentler" type of scene and may not be
the first thing you want to be exposed to. Please evaluate your comfort
level and feel free to check with one of us first. Remember that we have
another workshop this month.***

Midnight Thunder/Sir John will show and speak of the different ways to
incorporate knife play and fire play and fear into a scene as well as show a
scene that is nothing but those things, showing different techniques that
can be done and said to increase the intensity of the scene. Sir John is a
firm believer that one does not have to inflict pain to send a submissive
into subspace.


Master of the Midnight Thunder (AKA Sir John) has been active in the
lifestyle for 3 years, having been interested in it for many more before
that. He is a 37 year old electrician. He has very many varied tastes in
BDSM. He enjoys flogging and caning, whips, etc. But His passion and
favorite activities are knife play, wax play, fire play, electrical play,
Fear Factor (aka mind fuck). He was brought actively into the lifestyle by
a friend. He learned from her and from others around Him. He has an
instinctive way of working a knife/fire/fear scene and loves to teach
others.

With Him will be angeleyez (Reba), who has been in their full service for
11 months. She has been a submissive in the lifestyle for over 5 years. Reba
enjoys pain as well as fear, fire, knife, wax, electrical, latex play. Reba
is 25 years old, and will be the "volunteer" so to speak in the demo.

With Him also will be Mistress Angel of the Night (Mrs. Alynne Ma'am),
co-owner of Reba. She has been active in the lifestyle for a year, eagerly
learning with a passion for wax, latex as well as making floggers.
Mistress Angel will attest to the fact of being more D/s orientated than
S/M. Sir John and Mrs. Alynne Ma'am have been Married for 18 years and as
of April 29th they have owned Reba for 11 months.


Japanese Rope Bondage 101 4:00 PM - 5:30 PM Sat

Intro to Japanese Style Rope Bondage

Think this looks complicated? Think there are just too Many knots to learn? I will help dispel that myth and add yet another style of bondage to your play. You will learn the basic building blocks and gain a new outlook on something which you may have only admired in pictures.

This is typically a hands-on demo, so if you have a willing victim/volunteer, bring them along. If you happen to have a couple pieces of rope just lying around doing nothing, shame on you - but bring them anyway, we will try our best to find a use for them.

Leonard is a 43 year old Dom who’s main passion is rope bondage and damsels in distress. Although his primary focus is on erotic bondage, he does have a pension for the more cruel and torturous variety at times – so if you ever volunteer to help him do a demo, better ask which one he’s in the mood for . Leonard has been “out” in the lifestyle for seven years and has experience doing workshops on Basic Bondage, Advanced Bondage, Rope Suspension, Japanese Style Rope Bondage, Kidnapping, Fireplay and Fire Cupping. He runs the Bondage SIG (Special Interest Group) for Talon, the local group in Greensboro, NC. He also does some photography when time permits.

Hmmmmmmm..........Rope Bondage------gets a yessssssss, if there is room for one more......Spanking Hell yessssss, love my spankings........Age Play......sounds like fun.......count me in.....Play Date.....if there is room, I will bring a toy with me..

NOW about Knife Play I think I would run the other way for this one......nope not my cup of tea....hmmmmmm but I wonder, could it be that bad to sit in.

 

[Angelofsex]

Sure wish I'd be able to make this!!!

{{{{{kayte}}}}}} so do I hon........have my cell with me at all times.

 

[Angelofsex]

LOL -- Just wait a few more years and she has a sleep over w/ a bunch of her friends and you overhear her talking about which boy eats pussy the best...and she's only been on a couple of "official" dates. It took me a while, and many fingernails and cigarettes later, to figure out that young girls talk BS "locker room" trash nowadays just as much as guys did when I was growing up.

In essence, she used our sex talk to make herself look cool and "oh-so-adult-and-informed" in front of her friends. She had just french-kissed a boy for the first time a couple of months before that.



I'll say "hang in there" like everyone else, but I'm not gonna blow smoke up your butt either. It gets MUCH harder! They really do come around in the end, though. It's just almost impossible to see the end of that tunnel while you're in it.

In short, you've done your job now and she's no longer yours. All you can do now is infrequent "tune-ups." If you've taught her right, though, in spite of what her current behavior might indicate, she'll be OK and turn out just fine. All that stuff from childhood really does take root.

MG

OMG {{{{{MG}}}}} well put.......I couldn't have said it better.

 

[Angelofsex]

Hey only an operation will stop me...but AoS said she is cummmming no matter what... sniffing she would leave me behind..

j/k... I can't miss this I just can't..

{{{{{{1sexy}}}}}}} you are so right.......even if I have to stop by the hospital and tied the bed to the back of the car.......YOU ARE GOING.......

 

[Angelofsex]

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LOL---I have no friggin' idea what this inside joke is about the mass re-do, but you've certainly got my "curiosity" up.

MG

Mmmmmmm, got your attention with this one.......didn't we.

 

[Angelofsex]

Oh Goody... Hey can we make it just a bit closer to New Jersey??

Yes, what 1sexy said.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Stock up on your countdown dates

Well then, PLEASE don't clean it before the Litogether.



MG

1sexy's mind is never clean.........so please don't worried....

 

[Angelofsex]

Well I guess that according to what everyone wants *grins* I'm thinking a ladies only wekend might be in order too

Raising my hand........I second that

 

[Angelofsex]

Ok, now for coffee.......setting up the pot and laying out some muffins........have a great day everyone.

 

[TantaLiza]

True....guys are pretty spent after their climaxes, but the trick is getting the girl to have multiple climaxes to the point where she just gives out and says "aw hell, do whatever you want," THEN you pop your cork.

MG

DAYUM!!! What I wouldn't do to find a man like that here where I live!!!

 

[TantaLiza]

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Mmmmmmm, got your attention with this one.......didn't we.

Now that we got MG's "attention", wonder what the heck will happen when he gets the full blown action??? LMFAO


RE-DO!!!!

 

[yourdestonie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Just so you'll know

Yeah..we will let you..

Good I was afraid you wouldn't let me *grins*

 

[yourdestonie]

Ok so do you want one of my bad poems too???

Nite Sis....

I liked your poem

 

[yourdestonie]

WooHoo!!! Very, very cool, indeed.

MG

Your right there its Very cool indeed *grins*

 

[yourdestonie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Or 72 hours to Fido

OK....you've definitely got my attention. I'll look forward to finding out.

MG

Just watch and learn *grins*

 

[yourdestonie]

That really, really is a shame. It's a TOTAL ego trip for me to experience a lady's reaction. In fact, without that reaction, it's shit. I feel like some kinda low life who's just using somebody ...and that's a TOTAL turn off. Unless I was drunk, I'd even lose my hard-on. I'd rather just jack-off and be done with it if it's just a matter of busting a nut. Ya know? It's the whole interaction of two people "merging" into each other that makes sex worth while. In fact, that's what makes the other person SO important: they gotta be on the same page or there's no friggin' point in it. I'd rather have a hooker or watch porno and just be honest w/ myself if it's a matter of self-indulgence.

Sounds to me like you need to be more picky. Granted, there's a time and place to please the other w/ no regard to yourself, but that should be exception to the rule, NOT the rule.

Honestly, if that's not typical in your relationship w/ your significant other, then they REALLY aren't that "significant" 'cause they're really not lookin' out for your interests.

MG

Sweetie believe me I'm Picky to a fault.