Stimulating ALL of a woman's clitoris

Pad_Foot

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If the WHOLE CLITORIS is all of this?

Why isn't THIS taught in school?
It would seem that that men need far better sexual educations. It's no wonder, for many women, women make better lovers.

How does one go about stimulating all those parts??

Please be as explicit as you need to be. Men are slow. We are!
Hell in college we thought the "G Spot" was a joke, not a real thing that we should REALLY seek out.

I assume somewhere in that massive sexual organ, one would find the gspot? Or do women have THAT as well all the rest of this?

So unfair. Multiple orgasms. Longer orgasms. Really really wet orgasms. Nipples that have a purpose.

And then, the downside, women get REALLY horny when things are perhaps at an awkward level of kinkiness most won't explore.
(Despite the invention of showers!)
 
I think the clitoris extends to the front wall of the vagina. I discovered I could stimulate my wife by rubbing the front wall of her vagina right behind her clit.
 
I think the clitoris extends to the front wall of the vagina. I discovered I could stimulate my wife by rubbing the front wall of her vagina right behind her clit.
You just found her gspot lol. The clit isn't just the main button, it reaches down through the labia. The button is of course the hotspot of nerves
 
With other women, I was right to the clit and finding what felt good.

But with my wife??

Her clit is super sensitive. So much so that she doesn’t like it stimulated much and definitely not directly.

When she masturbates w her hitachi, she actually hold the head of the vibrator over her pubic bone. This stimulates her to very intense orgasms.

When going down on her, I can’t kick her clit directly. Soft kisses work and occasionally light tongueing.

She is a squirter and g spot stimulation is more of her jam.
 
Men, If you're really interested invest in the book "come as you are" by Emily Nagoski. You'll learn about the g spot and more. It's an excellent read, once you’ve read and understood it you'll begin to appreciate that great sex doesn't start in the bedroom.
 
I'm in my 30's and I still feel like I'm still learning what feels good and doesn't. Yes its more than just the little part at the front although thats still what stimulates me the most :heart:
By exploring your body, you’ll find all the magic spots. So masturbate, explore and touch/rub every inch of your body.
I would love to help you and teach you, but chat with the ladies here to find out more.
And always share with your partner what you discover and what makes you feel great.
 
By exploring your body, you’ll find all the magic spots. So masturbate, explore and touch/rub every inch of your body.
I would love to help you and teach you, but chat with the ladies here to find out more.
And always share with your partner what you discover and what makes you feel great.
If you like, I can go over your whole body and make a diagram of all your most sensitive spots.
XO
 
I find that the biggest sex organ is located between the ears...
Pay attention to every inch of Her body, skipping the "big three" and you'll find that Her g-spot gets hyper-aroused... done properly, you can make your girl cum with verbal stimulation as you make love with the back of Her knees... then you can focus on the g-spot for multiples.
 
I'm in my 30's and I still feel like I'm still learning what feels good and doesn't. Yes its more than just the little part at the front although thats still what stimulates me the most :heart:
I recommend getting the clitoris sucked and licked and flicked with a tongue while a finger or two curls against the g-spot, located just north and inside of your vagina, on the wall facing the same direction as your clitoris.

I have spent many an hour touching the inside while suckling the outside to completion. It is good times for the lady who is the recipient of such.

Also, a vibrator on the clit instead of a mouth, can work if you have a difficult orgasm, and dildos do in fact work and so do vibrators you can slide inside.

It's fun times. I would be happy to demonstrate and also, hold the vibrators. Or suck the clitoris. Or massage the g-spot with my fingers, any two of the above.
 
Sheesh. There is absolutely no evidence for G spot existing as a discrete organ present in all women. There is natural variation in how the clitoral / vaginal / urethral nerve complex is arranged in different women (like height and hair color vary). For some women there is a higher density of nerves lying close to the front vaginal wall, but not in others. As I generally add here - this same variation goes some way to explaining why some women like anal sex more than others.

I feel like I explain this twice every week.

As for what a women likes / wants? Fucking well ask her, OK?
 
I recommend getting the clitoris sucked and licked and flicked with a tongue while a finger or two curls against the g-spot, located just north and inside of your vagina, on the wall facing the same direction as your clitoris.

I have spent many an hour touching the inside while suckling the outside to completion. It is good times for the lady who is the recipient of such.

Also, a vibrator on the clit instead of a mouth, can work if you have a difficult orgasm, and dildos do in fact work and so do vibrators you can slide inside.

It's fun times. I would be happy to demonstrate and also, hold the vibrators. Or suck the clitoris. Or massage the g-spot with my fingers, any two of the above.

My wife likes me to suck on her clit like im trying to suck a wendys frosty through a straw.
 
I feel like I explain this twice every week.
It is possible this is a triggering issue for you, in my experience every woman I have been with has had such a spot, and confirmed for me it felt really good.

The evidence I have is anecdotal but if it were rare, I'm kind of hitting the jackpot, a lot.

So, if it doesn't exist in some women that's interesting but also not that relevant.
 
It is possible this is a triggering issue for you, in my experience every woman I have been with has had such a spot, and confirmed for me it felt really good.
It’s possible I’m stating established scientific fact. But hey, we’re allowed to create our own realities nowadays, so enjoy yours.

I have no idea what percentage of women have a preponderance of nerves vaguely in the area identified with the G spot. It could be 80%. It could be 10%. But it’s not 100%.

It could also be that women like to flatter partners sometimes.


And I’d suggest you avoid applying triggering to people you don’t know in future. It never is received well.
 
My wife likes me to suck on her clit like im trying to suck a wendys frosty through a straw.
It is very sensitive and nipples also can be, so whenever i suck on a lady partner's body part, I make sure to avoid sucking too hard.

I have had a partner tell me I was sucking too hard once, and forever after that, i take the approach of suck gently, and increase the heat so to speak, until my partner is very happy.

And then, if she says harder or softer, follow instructions.

I absolutely would suck hard with reckless abandon, I just need to be instructed to now, and told that it is okay and doesn't hurt.

If your wife wants you to suck her that hard, I am glad she has you to do it.
 
I think the clitoris extends to the front wall of the vagina. I discovered I could stimulate my wife by rubbing the front wall of her vagina right behind her clit.
So we’re saying here that the gspot is really part of a larger organ we point to as the clitoris?

For crying out loud… this changes everything.
 
…natural variation in how the clitoral / vaginal / urethral nerve complex is arranged in different women (like height and hair color vary). For some women there is a higher density of nerves lying close to the front vaginal wall, but not in others. …
Honestly…

I have led a reasonably enlightened life, but this is all new information, at least for this man, so thank you.

Go easy on us Emily, some of us, speaking for myself, haven’t been working with all the facts.
 
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