Str8 males and bi sex

[HotChuck]

I think you should follow your feelings on this. I have felt this way for quite a while now.
I was talking to a guy in a chat room one night and found out he lived in the same town as I did, so we hooked up and we went to his place and talked for a long time and got to know each other. I ended up sucking his cock while he did me and I even swallowed all he shot into my mouth.
This was my first time and I don't regret it at all...would like to do it again. It was very satisfying.
Go for it my friend!

 

[urok4me]

MMF

I think it would be easier for my 1st bi experience if your woman was there to help us along. I've been thinking about pleasing another man for a long time, the opertunity never came up though. If your woman is turned on thinking of you with another man I think that's great. My wife is so straight that she wouldn't think about sex with someone else.
I'll be in Lake Tahoe June 15-18 if you're still looking for that 1st time.
40yo MWM 5-11/190#
urok4me@hotmail.com

 

[krspy2001]

I think you should follow your feelings on this. I have felt this way for quite a while now.
I was talking to a guy in a chat room one night and found out he lived in the same town as I did, so we hooked up and we went to his place and talked for a long time and got to know each other. I ended up sucking his cock while he did me and I even swallowed all he shot into my mouth.
This was my first time and I don't regret it at all...would like to do it again. It was very satisfying.
Go for it my friend!

sounds like you know what were talking about..................i intend to meet my friend very soon

 

[paradiself]

So your a fag now, huh?

 

[Jacqwo]

Sucking cock

First post, nice to be here.

I have always been bi-curioius. Have had many fantasies about bisexual sex during masturbation and the only thing that really ever stopped me from going through with real life is the feeling I always have after orgasm. Not really a feeling of disgust but an enourmous turn off kind of feeling... until the next session.

I even fantasize about it sometimes during sex with my wife.

Once whilst on a trip to London, I found myself entering a gay sex shop which had a gay movie theater. This older guy sat right next to me and after a couple of minutes asked me if I'd let him suck me.

I did and I can tell no one had, since that day has sucked me so well.

Ah well

 

[PinkOrchid]

Re: Sucking cock

 

[Jacqwo]

Re: Re: Sucking cock

First, Welcome!

If it helps, I find this thread very stimulating and erotic. For the most part I have been an avid lurker and enjoyed every minute of it.

Thank you for the welcome!

I hear you about the stimulation bit. Am enjoying it also. Guess we are all 'voyeurs'. Sure thing is: "Tis the brain what is the biggest sexual organ!"

Perhaps that's why the idea of bisexual sex turns me on!

 

[JarringJoe]

Query for Jacquo

Jacquo wrote a bit ago: Have had many fantasies about bisexual sex during masturbation and the only thing that really ever stopped me from going through with real life is the feeling I always have after orgasm. Not really a feeling of disgust but an enourmous turn off kind of feeling... until the next session.

Comment: Look, could the "enormous turn off feeling" be due to the lack of a partner? Does this sort of negative reaction come only when you think about guys while masturbating? You mention that you also think about bisexual play during intercourse with your wife. Do you feel the same let-down after ejaculating in her? If so, something seems a bit amiss here, in my opinion. Most persons manage to shed jack-off guilt in their teens by accepting it as a natural practice.

I get the idea that a lot of the posters -- and thinkers -- are overlookng a key part of the word "bisexual." I've always defined it as being interested in having sex with both genders. My experience is that most of us have a preference -- in my instance, given an either/or decision, I'd opt for the Great American Pussy. Nonetheless, this does not prevent me from enjoying an occasional romp with a consenting adult male. The ideal mix, which I've been fortunate enough to enjoy many times, is with a couple where the wife applauds bi play and also desires and demands some good fucking in the process. I've been in a couple of situations where the wife was content to watch but not participate. In these instances, I felt as if somehow I was "on exhibit," and I did not repeat with either couple.

I guess my bottom-line advice is, "If it makes you feel bad or guilty, don't do it."

 

[Jacqwo]

Re: Query for Jacquo

I guess my bottom-line advice is, "If it makes you feel bad or guilty, don't do it."

Doesn't me me feel bad or guilty. When I come after making love to my wife, I feel like I can make love to her again, even if I have to wait a while to recuperate. If I have a bisexual fantasy whilst making love to her or masturbating, I do not feel like that.

But I guess you are right in that I have never tried it and so do not know what it it would really feel like. Reading your experiences with your consenting ladies are a turn on though.

Being bi-sexual definitaly does not make me feel guilty.

 

[lqqkin41stcoc]

Bi curious

I have never have tied but i have had many fantasies of being in the middle of a guy sandwhich. Do not know why I think of a threesome never had a single cock and I can only seem to think of having two. Go figure

 

[want2havefun]

My friend has been the lucky reciever of my curiosity of trying this. The first time we were watchin a porno and just jerking off, when he asked if he could come closer to watch me. I said yes and after a while I told him I wanted to try something. I then jumped on my knees and started to suck him for a while.

It was great. I didnt swallow him that time. The second and last time, we were both jerking each other off when I asked him if he was close to cumming. He said yes so I just wrapped my lips around him and started to suck. He shot right down my throat. He didnt tast that bad.

I immediately felt guilt at what I did and told myself it would never happen again. But I am thinking I would like to do it again. He said he would think about doing me.

So, the question remains, am I gay? I say no. I love women. I have been married for 8 years now. Though the marriage is not going so good this past year, I have started to move on and have found a girl friend.

So am I bi? I would say yes and no. I do see some nice pics of a few dicks I would consider blowing, but thats all I care for. I dont care to look at the guys face in the pictures. I also do not have the need or care to fuck a guy or be fucked by one.

Anyways, its been over a year now since that second time. I think about if from time to time to help get me off. I bet if I wanted to do it again all I would have to do is give my friend a call. We havent seen each other in about 9 months. We have oposite schedules now. I have known him for a long time now and that is probably why I was so comfortable doing it. I have even shared my wife with him in the past.

Just thought I would let everyone know my experience on this subject.

Thx.

 

[krspy2001]

first off i love pussy more than anything....having said that , i consider myself a very sexual person and into trying things that turn me on.........i consider this bi phase ,just that, a phase....going to try some experiences and then move on.......iam not gay and dont want any mush man sex.....its more of a want to use a penis as a toy....rather than a lifeless dildo a real life cock would be fun to play with for a while

 

[sxylegs]

Re: Sucking cock

First post, nice to be here.

I have always been bi-curioius. Have had many fantasies about bisexual sex during masturbation and the only thing that really ever stopped me from going through with real life is the feeling I always have after orgasm. Not really a feeling of disgust but an enourmous turn off kind of feeling... until the next session.

I even fantasize about it sometimes during sex with my wife.

Once whilst on a trip to London, I found myself entering a gay sex shop which had a gay movie theater. This older guy sat right next to me and after a couple of minutes asked me if I'd let him suck me.

I did and I can tell no one had, since that day has sucked me so well.

Ah well

Just asking a curiosity question......Is it possible that you have a very empty feeling or a great dissatisfaction? When I was kinda bedhopping I would feel disgust with myself and an intense loneliness and emptyness. And these were with guys and I love guys.....(have only had a couple fantasies about women)....so maybe it is not disgust with the thought process .......
Just a thought.......

 

[Layne]

Right on

Krspy,

I must agree with you. I love women, especially my wife, but would enjoy a little "thrill" from time to time.

Layne
(Who hasn't had any "meat" in over 8 years, and counting, but still hoping to end his dry spell soon)

 

[Jacqwo]

If I said it is the idea of the cock more than the man that turns me on, would I be fooling myself? I have been thinking about this one since my last post and I realized that in all my fantasies, it was never really about the man himself, rather the cock he had.

Nah. Self denial it is. I am also fantasizing about being fucked (can I say that here?)

Self denial perhaps. I know that if the occasion presents itself, I will try it. It's not as if I have never had a gay experience before. I did let a man suck me in a movie theatre and to this day am still to find a woman who does it better.

 

[sxylegs]

If I said it is the idea of the cock more than the man that turns me on, would I be fooling myself? I have been thinking about this one since my last post and I realized that in all my fantasies, it was never really about the man himself, rather the cock he had.

Nah. Self denial it is. I am also fantasizing about being fucked (can I say that here?)

Self denial perhaps. I know that if the occasion presents itself, I will try it. It's not as if I have never had a gay experience before. I did let a man suck me in a movie theatre and to this day am still to find a woman who does it better.

They say that if you want oral sex performed right you need to find someone of the same sex. I am still trying to find that lady. I dont believe that anybody could be as good as my boyfriend, but Oh well. Congrats on that experience.

 

[just a thing]

Jacqwo says:
If I said it is the idea of the cock more than the man that turns me on, would I be fooling myself? I have been thinking about this one since my last post and I realized that in all my fantasies, it was never really about the man himself, rather the cock he had.

That's how I feel, too. I fantasize about sucking a cock everyday.

But if I'm walking down the street or standing in line at the supermarket and I ask myself "Would you suck that guy's cock?" I always answer 'no.'

I love the idea of sucking a cock, but as soon as I put a face - ANY face - on that cock, I lose interest.

I'm the same as Jacqwo: I want cock but I don't want a man attached to it. It seems I have a paradox on my hands.

 

[jracer347]

i also feel the same i would love to suck a cock and i do luv the taste of cum.. ( i eat my own ) my girl friend loves when i eat my cum.. she luvs when i tell her i want to eat cum she also talks dirty and tells me how she immagines me sucking cock.. i want to suck cock but i dont want a face involved...just the cock...i am a not gay....BI????? i did have this boy when we were 7-8 years old suck my dick in the bathroom stall in school..acouple times.... she luvs when i put my legs over my head and shoot into my mouth!!! i wish i could suck my own cock!!!

 

[zetacon4]

I totally understand about the "face with a cock" thing.

But, my restrictions are that I must know the man and feel safe with him biologically, and emotionally.
I want fun with him, not just his cock.
But, the main idea in my mind is how much fun it will be to feel his hot cum shooting into my mouth! But, I am very orally fixated!

 

[krspy2001]

I too want the appendage not the man lol......its a toy more or less.....but unfortunately in this day of scary diseases you must first really know the person before anything further can develope...which brings a face into it......its too bad that we have these diseases or going to a glory hole type thing would be awesome

 

[sxylegs]

I too want the appendage not the man lol......its a toy more or less.....but unfortunately in this day of scary diseases you must first really know the person before anything further can develope...which brings a face into it......its too bad that we have these diseases or going to a glory hole type thing would be awesome

That is kinda funny....I know lots of women that want the appendage but not the guy that comes with it........LOL

 

[krspy2001]

That is kinda funny....I know lots of women that want the appendage but not the guy that comes with it........LOL

LOL

 

[Layne]

I can now join the club, well sort of

Hello all,

Well I can't be a member of the club just yet, but I have finally been corresponding with another married guy, 45 years old, married with kids, who would like to get together and see what happens. He lives away from here, but comes into town on business frequently. He says he has no desire to find a relationship as he love his wife, but is interested in the same thing I/we are. We are going to try to arrange a meet over lunch or coffee within a couple of drinks. Seems that every time he comes to town, he stays at the same nice hotel. He wanted us to meet this week, but I couldn't swing it. He'll be back twice more this month. We shall see what happens. He is 45, a good bit older than me, but that may be ok. I agree with you KRSPY, while I am not as interested in the man as I am the encounter, I must insist on getting to know him first, as what I desire more anal than oral.

Layne

 

[krspy2001]

i had corresponded with my friend for quite some time and had spoken a few times on the phone....when we finally met i was excited and way nervous...we sat in his car but it was kinda small and i asked if he wanted to sit in my truck ,which is a 1 ton crewcab with tinted windows............we moved into my truck to chat further...i really did not know at that point if i was going to do anything or not........well afetr about 15minutes of chatting about what we wanted and our marriages....i asked if i could see his cock....he unziped and pulled it out...it got instantly hard and i asked if i could touch it....he said ok of course lol.......as i touched my first cock other than mine i got really horned up of a sudden and then licked it....he said "wow"....so i engulfed it in my mouth and took all that i could in....then i pulled off to get his reaction...i said "more"?? ....he leaned back and i went dwn on him......i stated sucking like a pro so he says.........he made me stop as he was about to cum...i could taste a little pre-cum and i was not ready for the cum in the mouth thing yet..........i sat back and he asked if he could see mine....i took my shorts off and he touched and sucked it a little while....i made him stop as i was going to cum...........i asked him if he wanted to get a look at my ass......he said OH YEah.....i turned around to show him and to my surprise he started running his hands over it..........then he let a finger drag across my hole.....i pulled awaya s i was not ready for that either..........i sucked him a little more and then finished him off with a handjob...then he jerked me off...........it was a great experience...it took me such a long time to get the guts to meet.....i am still trying to get the guts again as i want him to do whatever he wants next time....i am hoping next week will work out....i guess we will see.....i will give a full report you can be sure......with pics.

 

[Layne]

Sweet Story

Krspy,

Thanks again for sharing your story, I do envy you. While I do, I must admit that I am looking for a longer more intimate experience. What do you have planned next, any good news on your little group?

Layne