Yes in my opinion it was worth it. I consider myself a straight male. However, the beauty is its sexual prefrence not law. Therefore, while I date woman it is also fine to fool around with men. The other plus is while a woman can perform excellent oral another man knows exactly what a man wants and therefore it is often better.
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I'm not into kissing or the anal stuff either but I sure do like to suck cock!
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I agree. I'm not into kissing or any of the emotional aspects but I love the thought of having a dick sliding in and out of my mouth.zetacon4 said:NO! It's not fucked up. You just happen to fall into a very large main group of fellas that love to experience cock sucking. This group is not interested in male emotional sexual bonding or such. They just want to have dick fun.
I think the reason you (and I) are not turned on by gay porn is because it is meant for the emotionally gay male psyche and not you and I. Just because they are doing the same activity (sucking) that we might enjoy, doesn't make the scenes truly enjoyable for us to watch. Too much else is happening between the actors that does NOT fit our emotional or mental profile.
Whew! That was the long version. Hehe!
Bi or not, that is a very confusing targeting of one's sexual positioning these days. I think you fit better into the group that I find myself in: simple male sexual games with no emotional attachment. It is just an extension of your love of all things sensual and the male cock is definitely sensual! There is no reason women should have all that fun, now is there?
Tommy4u said:I agree. I'm not into kissing or any of the emotional aspects but I love the thought of having a dick sliding in and out of my mouth.
I couldn't agree more! And, I've seen so many wonderful cocks here on Lit.... I just go nuts wanting to play with them all.
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... this is my first message here - I only discovered Literotica a couple of weeks ago when a friend mentioned it to me. I've visited the site a few times mainly to read some of the stories. However, yesterday I peeked inside the forums for the first time and spotted this thread. I read a few pages and it inspired me to register and post myself.
I am in my mid-40s, married with 3 kids ... well they're young adults in their own right now actually. I regard myself as happily married and my sex life with my wife is pretty good - not quite as frequent as it was when we were younger, but I don't think that is tremendously unusual.
However, I do masturbate and fantasise frequently - and my wife is well aware that I do and she seems pretty relaxed about it. I guess because when she is in the mood I am still more than happy to make love to her - I absolutely adore going down on her. Aside from giving her pleasure it makes me as horny as hell - I just love everything about it.
When I masturbate - well sometimes I do it fast, just to get the release. But other times I really get into it - I enjoy the feeling of my prick being rock hard. I enjoy playing with the head - rubbing precum around it and when I am really in the moment, I love to bring myself to orgasm just by getting myself all juiced up with precum and strumming the frenum gently. I can have really mindblowing orgasms this way. When I am doing this I often take some precum and suck it from my fingers - and the taste is great. And I have it in mind at that point that when I cum I will do it into my hand so that I can put it into my mouth and swallow it.
BUT - at the moment of orgasm the desire to do this disappears in seconds ... I don't really understand why but it does.
However, one of my fantasies is to play with, masturbate, suck another guys prick. I am pretty sure that if I were horny and in the moment that I would be unable to stop myself from letting him cum in my mouth etc.
I've never managed to fulfill this fantasy - although I've come close a couple of times. When I was a teenager I had a good friend - we had been out to a party and we came back to my house. The plan was we were going to stay over at my house - there was not much space so we ended up sharing a double bed. I had this all planned out before hand - and we were both pretty drunk. Anyway, pretending to be sleeping (yeah, right) in bed I sort of put my arm around him and moved my hand to his prick and started stroking it through his boxers. He got hard pretty quick and he rolled over and did the same to me and then he went down on me ... it felt great. But then I kinda freaked because my Mum was in the next room and I was scared that she would come in and find us doing this. We both went to sleep and the next day there was much embarrassed silence ... and our friendship was never quite the same again, which was on the one hand understandable - but a shame even so. Now when I look back on this - this was raging teenage hormones - I wasn't getting anything except by my own hand - and I figured that we might be able to help one another out !!
Interestingly, the very same friend started hanging out with another guy and they started going to a gay club together. I think though - that this was just more experimentation on their part. A couple of years later - I went to the same club and in a rather seedy encounter - ended up with another guys cock in my mouth, but he didn't seem to want that - he seemed more interested in getting me to cum - which he did, he gave me a rather lacklustre handjob.
So .. a couple of times, close but no cigar. Not long afterwards - I met the girl who was to become my wife - and like many other young people besotted with one another, we were at it like rabbits. And I can honestly say that I never had any thoughts of sex with men for well over 15 years.
I can't remember when the fantasy started to come back into my mind. But it has been there now for well over 5 years. My ideal scenario would be to have a good friend, male obviously, who feels the same as I do. Clearly, in this day and age I am concerned about the health implications. But, still there is this undeniable urge to experience some sex with another man - and the longer it goes on the more I want to experience. I would like to kiss another man, I would like to masturbate and be masturbated by another man, mutual blowjobs and anal sex too eventually.
Whether I ever will get to fulfill this fantasy or not I have no idea. But one thing I am sure of having read most of this thread - I am not alone !!
... this is my first message here - I only discovered Literotica a couple of weeks ago when a friend mentioned it to me. I've visited the site a few times mainly to read some of the stories. However, yesterday I peeked inside the forums for the first time and spotted this thread. I read a few pages and it inspired me to register and post myself.
I am in my mid-40s, married with 3 kids ... well they're young adults in their own right now actually. I regard myself as happily married and my sex life with my wife is pretty good - not quite as frequent as it was when we were younger, but I don't think that is tremendously unusual.
However, I do masturbate and fantasise frequently - and my wife is well aware that I do and she seems pretty relaxed about it. I guess because when she is in the mood I am still more than happy to make love to her - I absolutely adore going down on her. Aside from giving her pleasure it makes me as horny as hell - I just love everything about it.
When I masturbate - well sometimes I do it fast, just to get the release. But other times I really get into it - I enjoy the feeling of my prick being rock hard. I enjoy playing with the head - rubbing precum around it and when I am really in the moment, I love to bring myself to orgasm just by getting myself all juiced up with precum and strumming the frenum gently. I can have really mindblowing orgasms this way. When I am doing this I often take some precum and suck it from my fingers - and the taste is great. And I have it in mind at that point that when I cum I will do it into my hand so that I can put it into my mouth and swallow it.
BUT - at the moment of orgasm the desire to do this disappears in seconds ... I don't really understand why but it does.
However, one of my fantasies is to play with, masturbate, suck another guys prick. I am pretty sure that if I were horny and in the moment that I would be unable to stop myself from letting him cum in my mouth etc.
I've never managed to fulfill this fantasy - although I've come close a couple of times. When I was a teenager I had a good friend - we had been out to a party and we came back to my house. The plan was we were going to stay over at my house - there was not much space so we ended up sharing a double bed. I had this all planned out before hand - and we were both pretty drunk. Anyway, pretending to be sleeping (yeah, right) in bed I sort of put my arm around him and moved my hand to his prick and started stroking it through his boxers. He got hard pretty quick and he rolled over and did the same to me and then he went down on me ... it felt great. But then I kinda freaked because my Mum was in the next room and I was scared that she would come in and find us doing this. We both went to sleep and the next day there was much embarrassed silence ... and our friendship was never quite the same again, which was on the one hand understandable - but a shame even so. Now when I look back on this - this was raging teenage hormones - I wasn't getting anything except by my own hand - and I figured that we might be able to help one another out !!
Interestingly, the very same friend started hanging out with another guy and they started going to a gay club together. I think though - that this was just more experimentation on their part. A couple of years later - I went to the same club and in a rather seedy encounter - ended up with another guys cock in my mouth, but he didn't seem to want that - he seemed more interested in getting me to cum - which he did, he gave me a rather lacklustre handjob.
So .. a couple of times, close but no cigar. Not long afterwards - I met the girl who was to become my wife - and like many other young people besotted with one another, we were at it like rabbits. And I can honestly say that I never had any thoughts of sex with men for well over 15 years.
I can't remember when the fantasy started to come back into my mind. But it has been there now for well over 5 years. My ideal scenario would be to have a good friend, male obviously, who feels the same as I do. Clearly, in this day and age I am concerned about the health implications. But, still there is this undeniable urge to experience some sex with another man - and the longer it goes on the more I want to experience. I would like to kiss another man, I would like to masturbate and be masturbated by another man, mutual blowjobs and anal sex too eventually.
Whether I ever will get to fulfill this fantasy or not I have no idea. But one thing I am sure of having read most of this thread - I am not alone !!
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Your right, your not alone. There are a couple of threads on this subject. I have read a couple of them since their origin.
It seems many, including myself had the same issue with the "feeling" fading after they cum. I thought, what would it be like if I went through with the fantasy witn someone, only to want to bale after I came. Who knows.
I never had the experience you had, and, that a lot of other guys seem to have had in their youth. I didnt get it the notion , until I was near the end of my twenties. Before that, not a single thought. As I get older, the more I think I would be able to do almost anything without a hitch.
I have some of the same fantasies, alas, married w/children (not grown), wifey wouldn't be the understanding kind. Oh well, I guess why they are fantasies and not realaties.
It seems many, including myself had the same issue with the "feeling" fading after they cum. I thought, what would it be like if I went through with the fantasy witn someone, only to want to bale after I came. Who knows.
I never had the experience you had, and, that a lot of other guys seem to have had in their youth. I didnt get it the notion , until I was near the end of my twenties. Before that, not a single thought. As I get older, the more I think I would be able to do almost anything without a hitch.
I have some of the same fantasies, alas, married w/children (not grown), wifey wouldn't be the understanding kind. Oh well, I guess why they are fantasies and not realaties.
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Very nice bit of history there! I have never been fortunate to have any fun with another male. Back in my childhood and teenage years, the homophobic mania was soo pervasive, I didn't even entertain the idea of sexual fun with another male. Also, my Christian upbringing killed any thought of experimentation in that area.
So, over the years, I've slipped away from my strict upbringing and allowed myself to ponder what I might be missing. Hehe! I guess I will at some point have to abandon all this if I want to return to my spiritual roots! Life is full of conflicts!
Very nice bit of history there! I have never been fortunate to have any fun with another male. Back in my childhood and teenage years, the homophobic mania was soo pervasive, I didn't even entertain the idea of sexual fun with another male. Also, my Christian upbringing killed any thought of experimentation in that area.
So, over the years, I've slipped away from my strict upbringing and allowed myself to ponder what I might be missing. Hehe! I guess I will at some point have to abandon all this if I want to return to my spiritual roots! Life is full of conflicts!
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I have a story about my bi experience I'd like to share.
I am 53 and married for almost 30 years. My wife, Jennifer, and I have always had a great sex life. Now that the children are gone, it has probably gotten more intense, if not frenquent. We regularly do it all, and have actually had a couple of swinging experiences. We live in Florida.
I travel several times a year, usually to the company home office outside of DC. My counterpart, Mike, in the Chicago office is usually there as well. He is about 40, but still with teenage children. Also, his wife has lost interest in sex, and has never given him a blow job, just a few licks when then were younger. We always make a joke that he might get laid once a month if he is a good boy.
Whenever we're together, we always go to the strip clubs. I still get a thrill having a 20-year-old put her shaved pussy in my face. Mike lives for our meetings and monthly trips to the bar.
One time a couple of years ago, I went to his hotel room before we went hit the clubs. He neede to take a shower first. I poured us a drink and turned on the pay-per-view. While he was in the shower, I watch a hot sex scene and got turned on. When he came out wrapped in his towel, he sat on the bed while we watched. One girl was very thin with enormous tits giving a guy one hell of a blow job.
Mike was mesmerized and said he jus wished his wife would do that once. I looke over and could see her erection through the towel. He looked desperate.
Why, I don't know, but I reached over and rubbed his erect cock through the towel. He sighed, leaned back, and said,"Oh, yes!"
What do you do? I opened the towel and started rubbing him. Again, I hear a "Yes." So I thought, what the hell, and leaned over and licked the head. I don't know that I actually knew what to do, but I licked, the shaf, the took him in my mouth massaging the head with my tongue.
He came almost immediately, and absolutely filled my mouth with cum. I swallowed and sucked him dry until he completely lost the erection.
A few minutes later he looked at me and said "Thanks man, I really needed that."
He got dressed and we went to the clubs. We probably spend more that usual on lap dances.
When we got back to the hotel, he suggested we go back to his room and watch another movie "together." When we got to the room, we both stripped and lay on the bed. Once we got hot, he sucked my and then I did him again.
Now, on our trips, we follow the same routine and a trip to the clubs and followed by a little private action.
By the way, our relationship has not changed in any way. Although he has talked his wife into licking him now.
I am 53 and married for almost 30 years. My wife, Jennifer, and I have always had a great sex life. Now that the children are gone, it has probably gotten more intense, if not frenquent. We regularly do it all, and have actually had a couple of swinging experiences. We live in Florida.
I travel several times a year, usually to the company home office outside of DC. My counterpart, Mike, in the Chicago office is usually there as well. He is about 40, but still with teenage children. Also, his wife has lost interest in sex, and has never given him a blow job, just a few licks when then were younger. We always make a joke that he might get laid once a month if he is a good boy.
Whenever we're together, we always go to the strip clubs. I still get a thrill having a 20-year-old put her shaved pussy in my face. Mike lives for our meetings and monthly trips to the bar.
One time a couple of years ago, I went to his hotel room before we went hit the clubs. He neede to take a shower first. I poured us a drink and turned on the pay-per-view. While he was in the shower, I watch a hot sex scene and got turned on. When he came out wrapped in his towel, he sat on the bed while we watched. One girl was very thin with enormous tits giving a guy one hell of a blow job.
Mike was mesmerized and said he jus wished his wife would do that once. I looke over and could see her erection through the towel. He looked desperate.
Why, I don't know, but I reached over and rubbed his erect cock through the towel. He sighed, leaned back, and said,"Oh, yes!"
What do you do? I opened the towel and started rubbing him. Again, I hear a "Yes." So I thought, what the hell, and leaned over and licked the head. I don't know that I actually knew what to do, but I licked, the shaf, the took him in my mouth massaging the head with my tongue.
He came almost immediately, and absolutely filled my mouth with cum. I swallowed and sucked him dry until he completely lost the erection.
A few minutes later he looked at me and said "Thanks man, I really needed that."
He got dressed and we went to the clubs. We probably spend more that usual on lap dances.
When we got back to the hotel, he suggested we go back to his room and watch another movie "together." When we got to the room, we both stripped and lay on the bed. Once we got hot, he sucked my and then I did him again.
Now, on our trips, we follow the same routine and a trip to the clubs and followed by a little private action.
By the way, our relationship has not changed in any way. Although he has talked his wife into licking him now.
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zetacon4 said:
I have read a lot of posts that are similar to my own situation. Zetacons is one.
I remember being about 16 and having an urge to grab a friends cock. For fear of getting beaten up, of course I didn't.
I had other opportunites, but my conventionality prevented me from giving in. I wrote a story posted on Lit about one such episode, except that the story fantasizes about what might have happened.
Now, I have tried to sate my bi-curiosity. So far, with out any luck.
Like many guys here, I do not expect to fall in love with a man; it's just a hedonsitic experiment. I had an openly bi acquaintance in college who claimed that he liked sex too much to restrict himself to women only. And he always seemed to do OK with women, too.
It's interesting to read that some women get hot watching guys do each other. I know I love to watch women eat each other on porn films. Don't know why, but I never thought that girls would enjoy bi-male action.
Anyway, good luck to those, like me, looking to find a willing partner in debauchery.
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Hmmm....isn't this, by definition, impossible? I mean, isn't a straight male turned bi when he has "bi sex?" And I'd like to point out that I have no problem with bi guys. I just have an issue with people being to scared to call themselves what they are. If you're bi, you're bi. Straight is straight. You cannot have both worlds. I think it boils down to guys just unsure of what they are. Here's a hint: if you are attracted to guys and girls, you're bi. Not that tough of a concept.
ToySoldier said:
I had to laugh when I read your post. I believe I know where you are coming from with your statement. It is also interesting to go back and read some of our past posts here and discover that, while curiousity is present in many males, they don't have any intent for emotional involvement with another male as they might with a female.
Another point that has been made in past posts talks about what level of physical acts one is willing to participate in with another male. It gets a bit complicated if you dig a bit deeper into this area of interest. Reading over the things people have openly and honestly posted here gives one a new view on what many guys are thinking when they consider male sexual play.
And, my last point is about the term, Bi. It falls so short of really describing a very large group of people who are on the fringes of same gender sexual interest. Perhaps the thread starter used words that seem contridictory, but his general intent was to attract men(and women) who might be interested in this area of discussion. I for one, am glad he started the thread. It's been a very enlightening experience for me and many others.
Please don't take my reply to you in a negative way at all. I am glad you posted here and please feel free to speak your mind further as to your feelings and experiences you or your friends might have had. Thanks!
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ToySoldier said:
I think your definitions are wrong. A bi sexual is one who dates both males and females. I think what this thread is about is not dating, but just the fun of sex.
I see what I described as more friendly fun among firends. What I find interesting is that we never have a headache. Most of the time we turn on a porn movie, get hard, take off our clothes, and 1) jack ourselves off, or 2) jack each other off, or 3) finish each other off with a blow job. I will admit that I have rolled over and taken it in the ass a couple of times.
What I have learned is that oral sex and swollowing is not bad. We have had not problem swollowing the other. Why is it such an issue with women? (Taking it in the ass is not bad either.)
Regarding bi sexual, I have no desire to be with, date, suck, fuck another man.
I just consider this masturbating but with another man.
Comments are welcome.
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One more thought on the bi sexual thing: If any women want to send me some nude pictures, I would appreciate it.
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jvillcouple said:
Maybe I misunderstand this post but you have done these but you don't have the desire too?
For me I am more along the line "while curiousity is present in many males, they don't have any intent for emotional involvement with another male as they might with a female". I'm not into the guy but I'm into the guy sex and to be specific only oral sex. I personally have no interest in anal anything.
I've been with many women but only 3 guys but only because of the social ramifications my world presents. Given the opportunity to go down on a guy and I'm there. There are some physical aspects in that I would not do just anyone but the "desire" is always present.
2 cents.
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Denial
It's amazing how much denial, self-loathing and homophobia there is recently in this discussion. You JUST want to masturbate with some male friends while watching x-rated movies? If you 'just' wanted to do that with, say, a few thirteen year old boys what would you call that? How do you think others would feel about it? Use any label you like. Words are just words. But when you have sex with a man you know what you are doing, and if you have so much ambivalence about it, maybe you should consider why.
It's amazing how much denial, self-loathing and homophobia there is recently in this discussion. You JUST want to masturbate with some male friends while watching x-rated movies? If you 'just' wanted to do that with, say, a few thirteen year old boys what would you call that? How do you think others would feel about it? Use any label you like. Words are just words. But when you have sex with a man you know what you are doing, and if you have so much ambivalence about it, maybe you should consider why.
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please read give advice st8 95 % bi-sexual 5 percent
i have thought about sex with another guy for years, i know i coulod never live with a man care for a man or ever love another man ever ever ever...
my girl friend doesnt know this but recently i tasted my own cum while watching some serious hard core lesbian sex, i did it years ago as well in my early teens now im in my late twenties but the thoughts have changed while doing it. it just got me so horny, for years i wondered what i tasted like when my g/f would suck me off and want to kiss me afterwards i wouldnt let her due to some stupid homophobia in my mind. i was watching heavy porn while i saw girls licking themselves after putting thier fingers in their pussy, i saw this also on girls gone wild as well anyways i tated my pre-cum while playing with my 8.5 inch cock. it didnt taste great and it didnt taste horrible. in fact it had no taste at all really which was wierd maybe like the way protein in its rich form tasted. Now i feel really wierd. When i watch my g/f suck me off i can see the way she goes up and down my thick cock, she even tells me how to do it while she is sucking she goes push yor lips out and watch for the teeth it drives me in-sane because she looks up at me as though she giving me that you know you would want to try it thing...... yes i would like to suck a dick for once in my life, it doesnt mean i want to go drag now or move to the gay neighborhood or have all this gay sex with every guy around. I know i would never come up on any gayradar at all with any woman, because the way gays carry themselves disguts me, i dont want a guy talking to me like a girl, thats why i dont like drag queens, why go out with a chick with a dick you may as well stay with a woman.
I agree with others there is way more to being bi-sexual then a one time fling to try something. Just because a girl decides to have sex with another or a male to male doesnt mean that they are out of a closet or all bi/gay. I know a guy that has had one time sex with a friend in high school uears ago, he has been married over 20 years and has children and has said he has no desire ever to try the sexual experiment again. being st8 bi or even gay meana nothing to me at all its all labels......
my 1st time experience for you straight guys to understand me and for those who have tried bi sex, would have to meet certain conditions, first the guy couldnt be all out gay flamming ect, you all know what i mean, i dont want to be offensive here at all, there is nothing wrong with gays at all im just not attracted to any affection towards a gay male in that way holding hands kissing talking feminine ect, secondly the guy would have to look great almost the guy i wish i could look like lol the cool one ect, can get a chick and doesnt use homosexuality as a substitute for pussy. You all know what i mean. Next everything would have to be perfect, we would meet make contact no not at a gay bar or porn shop where ugly sex addicted males all hang out to give each other unprotected blow jobs that discusses me, and any one straight bi or gay male or feamle that doesnt practice safe sex is a fool..... anyways if the conditions were met, and we both felt we were hot i would want to do the guy. my fantasy is have a girl watch us do it, she wouldnt have to join in, i have thought about sucking a good white clean pink cock like myself thick maybe a 7-8.5 i dont think i could deep throat, does anyone who has sucked a guy with a condom suggest using a flavored one, one guy was telling me that all you taste is condom but i think the act would fullfill my bad boy desires just to truly understand myslef and my own personnal desires.
with all that said, i have never ever been with a male at all, i have sucked a cock or anything, i wasnt born gay at all, i have had many famale partners over the years not that im a stud or anything but many girls love well fit clean cut us marines... i dont consider myself gay at all, i may not even be able to go down on a guy and may chicken out. The added protection and use of a condom is a must, and i would watch this one hard core lesbian porn that i have as sick as all this may seam.
i know im kind of messed up i dont think that during matrabation tasting my own CUM has anything to do with wanting bi sex now, because i tasted my cum years ago once and i was just curious with it thats all and at that time i never had any thought about guy sex only pussy and eating pussy.... so with all that said i dont think you become bi or gay by simply just trying a sexual experment. There is the matter of do you prefer each equally as sexual partners., Doctors will say many bi men and women are married to the oppsite sex but have a little drive for the same sex depending on the situation. for this i say as a st8 male that everyone is a little bi sexual i guess because if the conditions are right and the person is by some sense attractive then yes a str8 male will if the conditions are met perform a gay act. it may be the 1st and the last but it can happen and has happened. I am seeking my 1st but im may never get that chance because im not looking for just any1. I dont want to have sex with a gay male, i would be attracted to a guy like myself... thats probally why ive tasted my cum rignht because im always gabbing my dick and telling myself i love myself,,, hey but im italian go figure......
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i have thought about sex with another guy for years, i know i coulod never live with a man care for a man or ever love another man ever ever ever...
my girl friend doesnt know this but recently i tasted my own cum while watching some serious hard core lesbian sex, i did it years ago as well in my early teens now im in my late twenties but the thoughts have changed while doing it. it just got me so horny, for years i wondered what i tasted like when my g/f would suck me off and want to kiss me afterwards i wouldnt let her due to some stupid homophobia in my mind. i was watching heavy porn while i saw girls licking themselves after putting thier fingers in their pussy, i saw this also on girls gone wild as well anyways i tated my pre-cum while playing with my 8.5 inch cock. it didnt taste great and it didnt taste horrible. in fact it had no taste at all really which was wierd maybe like the way protein in its rich form tasted. Now i feel really wierd. When i watch my g/f suck me off i can see the way she goes up and down my thick cock, she even tells me how to do it while she is sucking she goes push yor lips out and watch for the teeth it drives me in-sane because she looks up at me as though she giving me that you know you would want to try it thing...... yes i would like to suck a dick for once in my life, it doesnt mean i want to go drag now or move to the gay neighborhood or have all this gay sex with every guy around. I know i would never come up on any gayradar at all with any woman, because the way gays carry themselves disguts me, i dont want a guy talking to me like a girl, thats why i dont like drag queens, why go out with a chick with a dick you may as well stay with a woman.
I agree with others there is way more to being bi-sexual then a one time fling to try something. Just because a girl decides to have sex with another or a male to male doesnt mean that they are out of a closet or all bi/gay. I know a guy that has had one time sex with a friend in high school uears ago, he has been married over 20 years and has children and has said he has no desire ever to try the sexual experiment again. being st8 bi or even gay meana nothing to me at all its all labels......
my 1st time experience for you straight guys to understand me and for those who have tried bi sex, would have to meet certain conditions, first the guy couldnt be all out gay flamming ect, you all know what i mean, i dont want to be offensive here at all, there is nothing wrong with gays at all im just not attracted to any affection towards a gay male in that way holding hands kissing talking feminine ect, secondly the guy would have to look great almost the guy i wish i could look like lol the cool one ect, can get a chick and doesnt use homosexuality as a substitute for pussy. You all know what i mean. Next everything would have to be perfect, we would meet make contact no not at a gay bar or porn shop where ugly sex addicted males all hang out to give each other unprotected blow jobs that discusses me, and any one straight bi or gay male or feamle that doesnt practice safe sex is a fool..... anyways if the conditions were met, and we both felt we were hot i would want to do the guy. my fantasy is have a girl watch us do it, she wouldnt have to join in, i have thought about sucking a good white clean pink cock like myself thick maybe a 7-8.5 i dont think i could deep throat, does anyone who has sucked a guy with a condom suggest using a flavored one, one guy was telling me that all you taste is condom but i think the act would fullfill my bad boy desires just to truly understand myslef and my own personnal desires.
with all that said, i have never ever been with a male at all, i have sucked a cock or anything, i wasnt born gay at all, i have had many famale partners over the years not that im a stud or anything but many girls love well fit clean cut us marines... i dont consider myself gay at all, i may not even be able to go down on a guy and may chicken out. The added protection and use of a condom is a must, and i would watch this one hard core lesbian porn that i have as sick as all this may seam.
i know im kind of messed up i dont think that during matrabation tasting my own CUM has anything to do with wanting bi sex now, because i tasted my cum years ago once and i was just curious with it thats all and at that time i never had any thought about guy sex only pussy and eating pussy.... so with all that said i dont think you become bi or gay by simply just trying a sexual experment. There is the matter of do you prefer each equally as sexual partners., Doctors will say many bi men and women are married to the oppsite sex but have a little drive for the same sex depending on the situation. for this i say as a st8 male that everyone is a little bi sexual i guess because if the conditions are right and the person is by some sense attractive then yes a str8 male will if the conditions are met perform a gay act. it may be the 1st and the last but it can happen and has happened. I am seeking my 1st but im may never get that chance because im not looking for just any1. I dont want to have sex with a gay male, i would be attracted to a guy like myself... thats probally why ive tasted my cum rignht because im always gabbing my dick and telling myself i love myself,,, hey but im italian go figure......
ANYONE WHO IS A BRAIN DOCTOR PLEASE COMMENT AND TELL ME HOW JACKED UP I AM IN MY HEAD TAKE CARE I LOVE YOU ALL......
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I’m certainly no brain doctor but I don’t think it takes much insight to see that individual human beings have varied sexual needs, desires, fantasies and actions. These variations seem to fall along a line ranging from no interest in sex of any kind with anyone to traditional heterosexual in the middle to completely homosexual only on the other end. All along the way there are all kinds of little branches off into fetishes, weirdness (to many) and perversions (to others).
Let me say that some rightfully deserve negative labels; pedophilia for one, rape is another. They are and should continue to be illegal and condemned by society.
As for the rest of the labels – so what? I’ve had the same urges that have been described here, I’d love to try sucking cock but I have no interest whatsoever in anal anything or in any emotional involvement with any male. Now, I’ve never done it with anyone, so far just a fantasy. Much like apachie2004 I wouldn’t be caught dead lurking in a bookstore or soliciting a stranger for a meeting online but if I met someone and got to know him and he was the “right” type… yeah, it would be hot as hell to feel another man’s cock in my hand and taste it and feel it pump his semen in my mouth. But I wouldn’t kiss him.
The question is… does the fantasy make me “bi” or does the act make me “bi”. Again, who cares? And if I’m not emotionally involved am I “bi”. Hummm….
Bottom line, IMHO; it don’t matter.
I’m certainly no brain doctor but I don’t think it takes much insight to see that individual human beings have varied sexual needs, desires, fantasies and actions. These variations seem to fall along a line ranging from no interest in sex of any kind with anyone to traditional heterosexual in the middle to completely homosexual only on the other end. All along the way there are all kinds of little branches off into fetishes, weirdness (to many) and perversions (to others).
Let me say that some rightfully deserve negative labels; pedophilia for one, rape is another. They are and should continue to be illegal and condemned by society.
As for the rest of the labels – so what? I’ve had the same urges that have been described here, I’d love to try sucking cock but I have no interest whatsoever in anal anything or in any emotional involvement with any male. Now, I’ve never done it with anyone, so far just a fantasy. Much like apachie2004 I wouldn’t be caught dead lurking in a bookstore or soliciting a stranger for a meeting online but if I met someone and got to know him and he was the “right” type… yeah, it would be hot as hell to feel another man’s cock in my hand and taste it and feel it pump his semen in my mouth. But I wouldn’t kiss him.
The question is… does the fantasy make me “bi” or does the act make me “bi”. Again, who cares? And if I’m not emotionally involved am I “bi”. Hummm….
Bottom line, IMHO; it don’t matter.
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