stretching

I had a girlfriend in my 20s who had lovely slender hands, and could fist me comfortably. Her thumb was always a challenge but it was part of the fun and the dialog (relax, you can take it; let me in honey, etc.). She was doing her residency for ob/gyn and commented that I was rather narrow. Oh those words! I had to have c-sections for both babies (over 8 and nearly 10 lbs moose), and Master has never been able to fist me--and he has fairly slender hands for a man. It's always fun to try, though. :cattail:

Ah, the dialog! You're so right, almost as fun as the act itself. I've used the "relax and let me all the way inside you. You know how you love it." many, many times.
 
So was my wife until we finally tried it. We went slowly, used lots and lots of lube, and once I was all the way inside her ( the toughest part fo her) I stayed motionless until she calmed down and then slowly started moving. Again, once she got used to it, I gave her more and more and now she can't get enough. It's a wonderful feeling for both of us. Kind of naughty, but also very, very nice.:)


Maybe I need to just keep working on my stretching skills in the interim ....
 
I'm very curious about this. I would think having a good partner who is patient but also continues to apply some pressure would help. I would think if you "pop" out it wouldn't be as much fun.
 
She definitely is looser than she was before we started this. She has 2 teenagers and doesn't do kegels. Who knew how much fun it would be to play with her know knowing I made her loose. Such a turn on.
 
My wife has never liked the "regular sized" dildo telling me that it's just poking her. However, she has always liked the thick ones that we have (2" wide) she has always liked two then three and four fingers but I've never been able to get past the knuckles and thumb. She is about 5'5" and 110 lb and I just think that a small woman who can take and enjoy large dildos or four fingers is SO HOT!
I for one like that my wife's pussy can take four fingers and that she likes the thicker dildos, we aren't 25 any more and she's had 2 kids so if bigger is better for her then I'm here to please her as her loving husband. Plus there are few things hotter than seeing your wife take great pleasure from a nice thick dildo! She has never told me that the thick dildo feels better than me but I gotta think it gives her something that I can't.
 
Get real

4 fingers is acceptable. Once a fist goes in, or a baby head comes out, it's ruined forever.

If a woman does Kegel exercises either before or after childbirth, then she can make the vaginal opening seem like she is still a virgin. Doctors recommend these exercises.
 
My wife has never liked the "regular sized" dildo telling me that it's just poking her. However, she has always liked the thick ones that we have (2" wide) she has always liked two then three and four fingers but I've never been able to get past the knuckles and thumb. She is about 5'5" and 110 lb and I just think that a small woman who can take and enjoy large dildos or four fingers is SO HOT!
I for one like that my wife's pussy can take four fingers and that she likes the thicker dildos, we aren't 25 any more and she's had 2 kids so if bigger is better for her then I'm here to please her as her loving husband. Plus there are few things hotter than seeing your wife take great pleasure from a nice thick dildo! She has never told me that the thick dildo feels better than me but I gotta think it gives her something that I can't.

You're so right. There's nothing quite as erotic as a petite woman's pussy forced to open and stretch to accommodate something bigger than it is used to. Painful, yes. Pleasurable, definitely!
 
So was my wife until we finally tried it. We went slowly, used lots and lots of lube, and once I was all the way inside her ( the toughest part fo her) I stayed motionless until she calmed down and then slowly started moving. Again, once she got used to it, I gave her more and more and now she can't get enough. It's a wonderful feeling for both of us. Kind of naughty, but also very, very nice.:)

Your wife is a vey lucky woman....I have never had more than three fingers pushed in down there, but I am so craving the sensation of being stretched further. I imagine it takes time and practice with the right person to be able to be properly filled.
 
If a woman does Kegel exercises either before or after childbirth, then she can make the vaginal opening seem like she is still a virgin. Doctors recommend these exercises.



I agree with you. I've been trying to stretch myself some as I'm very tight, and despite stretching, I'm still tight afterwards.
 
Your wife is a vey lucky woman....I have never had more than three fingers pushed in down there, but I am so craving the sensation of being stretched further. I imagine it takes time and practice with the right person to be able to be properly filled.

Keep trying, you'll get there. My wife loves being stretched and filled and I love doing it to her.
 
Definitely worth it!

Jw5, congrats on your willingness and hands-on approach to pleasuring your lady!:D

I used to also think 'there's no way I'd ever let someone fist me' and none of the women I had the pleasure to date ever even suggested it, let alone the guys. But two years ago while we were making out on the couch, my then-boyfriend/now-husband (who is ambidextrous with all that that implies) pulled out a sachet of lube while he was fingering me and just started slowly putting in more hand. The result is that I had my first ever Real Life Squirting Orgasm about two minutes after he got the whole thing in there, and I've become a convert for life.

Obviously the vag is a great instrument capable of tremendous feats of awesome, but why not help her out? Wear some smart balls before and after stretching sessions, do your goddamn kegels, and for petessake don't skimp on the lube when you're attempting this.

One thing I will say is that you'll definitely be less tight immediately after being fisted (duh) although that snaps back into place pretty soon. So if anyone is up for trying it, why not let him come first for once while the muscles are unstretched and then lay back and enjoy him concentrating on you? This works pretty well for us, and by the time I've had a half-dozen orgasms my fella is recovered and ready for more of his own fun.

My god it's been weeks since we've done this--I suddenly have an idea of how I want to spend my evening!:devil:

Claire:heart:
 
Totally...

Anyone into Labia stretching?

I am seriously turned on by labia that protrude, preferably hang down, so that they are visible even from several feet away. My GF has labia that hang down a little, very nice, but she's not into them.
She is a smoker and somewhat of an exhibitionist, so when we're at the nude beach we get her to approach men for a light, so that as she stands above them they have to look up at her bald pussy and long labia. I would like to do stuff to make her labia even longer, but she's not into it; and I'm not sure if you can actually make them permanently longer.
 
Hubby has been stretching me for the last months. He got 4.fingers just past the knuckles last time. He likes to buy big toys. One is 8 x 6. I can take most of it now. Guys what do u get out of this?
 
Hubby has been stretching me for the last months. He got 4.fingers just past the knuckles last time. He likes to buy big toys. One is 8 x 6. I can take most of it now. Guys what do u get out of this?

What do we get out of it? I for one love doing it to my wife. Getting my fingers and then my hand up inside her, hearing her moan, having her grab my hand (or wrist :), which is her signal for me to ease up, and then letting go of me when she's ready to take more and me bearing down on her, watching her pussy slowly accept being filled and violated until I'm all the way deep inside and working on her pussy until it shudders in orgasm. It usually doesn't take very long!:devil:
 
I LOOOOOVE fisting my wife. Though it takes quite a bit of time and patience its so exciting. But what I love even more is watching as she fists herself. That is one of the SEXIEST sights I've ever seen!!!
 
Enjoyment for both

I started stretching my wife shortly after we were married. She always cumms so intensely from being stretched. She is able to have multi orgasms and I would continue until she would beg me to stop. Then I would make her have one more. I continued stretching her until I got my fist in her. She screamed and started to cum Harder until she nearly passed out. She started begging me to stop and said please stop my leggs are falling off. We still laugh about that statement. It turns me on so much to make her cumm really hard. I also stretched her ass,, but never have got more than four fingers in. And that was only to the second knuckle. So my advice is to keep playing and maybe you will get your fist in.
 
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