stretching

[thelaughingcat]

It's a big thing for my OH - he loves doing it to both sides of the coin as it were *grins* I can take it or leave it honestly - does flip all for me! I tend to be absolutely fine, then I suddenly start to panic for no reason at all...as long as I keep that under control though, it does add a certain je ne sais quoi to our sex life

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

One thing I would say is hygene. Make sure you have clean hands and no snaggy nails. Wearing surgical gloves is good as there is less friction and will be clean.
Lots of lube is a must.
Go slow.
Don't get in then immediately start pistoning your hand in and out, it hurts and you are likely to be punched in the face.
Remember the lube.

It's fun but there are dangers so please take it easy.
You do return to the usual size pretty quickly if you excercise.

 

[Joeknoxville]

Don't get in then immediately start pistoning your hand in and out, it hurts and you are likely to be punched in the face

Unless she's in the mood for it and wants it that way. Haven't been punched yet!

 

[faeriephoenix]

I've been on my back, and while being on one's tummy might allow deeper penetration, the first few times (or most times, for me), it takes a while, and I love being able to see him, and have him see me.

I second the lube thing. And the towel thing

 

[subintraining28]

Thank you for starting this thread! This is something that really turns me on and I would really like to try. I haven't done it yet but working on convincing my husband to try it. Any suggestions for someone just starting? Would you start with the ass or the pussy first? I absolutely love having my ass full and I feel like I would enjoy that more.

 

[LoveHerNow]

I've been on my back, and while being on one's tummy might allow deeper penetration, the first few times (or most times, for me), it takes a while, and I love being able to see him, and have him see me.

I second the lube thing. And the towel thing

Yes! I totally second the, "allow him and her to see" thing!

 

[Bellabell19]

My partner has very large hands but can manage, Just, 4 fingers. I agree the feeling if vein full is amazing. And knowing its naughty only adds to the pleasure. Fisting. Mmmm. Even better when his other fingers are teasing my ass too.
One bit of advice. Lube. Lots of lube.

 

[MissCautious]

I LOOOOOVE fisting my wife. Though it takes quite a bit of time and patience its so exciting. But what I love even more is watching as she fists herself. That is one of the SEXIEST sights I've ever seen!!!

Wow. She must be very .... agile!!?

 

[subintraining28]

This sounds fabulous! Your wife is a very lucky woman! I really want time try this but haven't found a willing partner yet.

 

[txwife594]

He has stretched me.now to where I can take our new toy with a little lube. Dildo 7.5 around

 

[snatch lover]

nice

nice tx thats hot. you planning on going bigger?

 

[lowcollar]

I love being anally fisted. However, it took a lot of pegging to get to the point where I could be fisted. Fisting a pussy is really vulnerable. If a woman is post menopausal, this might be dangerous for her.

 

[Submissivepat]

It's a wonderful feeling to feel full down there but I think I'd be too scared to try fisting

Go slow, a few fingers at a time. It’s really wonderful.