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Submission is a gift

I guess the point is that I don't care and deep down I've never cared. My time here has shown me who I am inside and let me know that I don't need to apologize for who I am inside.

Who I am inside? I'm the guy who you turn to for intimate emotional support who understands you like no other can but at the same time uses you because I am deep down a violent, cold, heartless bastard while I fuck. After I want to be close but while I'm on top it's all about my own perverse needs. Once you make me cum I'm all yours, heart, soul, cuddly and nice but I do cherish both sides of that.

Not all the time though, sometimes I'd use you and just go to work while you are still recovering on my floor.

The only thing that comes back every time is that this cute lil girl I'm looking for.. this b/c cup petite waif that I'm turned on by is also the one person on this earth that I truly love. Her and her alone. If she's bi then other girls are going to happen for her but it will always be my girl who I fall asleep with my arms around.

Also, there will be other girls in our bed so just get all excited about that. Yes I will be fucking them and you too. No, you will not ever be fucking other guys. It is not fair. That is just the way it is and no matter how in love with you I am if you ever fuck another man just pack and leave and save us both the pain of having me kick you the fuck out.

Collar is also not negotiable. If your parents/siblings don't like it then direct them to me and I will work that out personally with them, probably with them wearing a collar that they did not ever expect. It will not end well but if your father has to be pinned down and collared against his will so be it. Easier to just let me stay home for your family reunions that to have me make them my bitch.

Also, if you aren not a cute, young, petite woman feel free to be my friend but we will never be lovers. I like my girls in their early twenties or if they are real special a bit younger. It's not fair. I admit that. I don't care a whole lot. Leave me alone.

If you are a friend tho then feel free to message me. If you want me to find your god then be prepared to have your faith crushed, pissed upon and kicked over the cliff. I do not care for religion. Worship me if you must but a higher power will not save you from me and if you think it will deep down then when I am controlling you, you are basically lying to me and faking it and that is not what I want so fuck the fuck off and find some weak willed piece of shit to pretend to dominate you while you secretly pray to some other higher power.

If you are a lesbian then contact me as you and I will probably be good pals.

I think that about covers it.
 
the_mgp said:
IMO, submission is not a gift. It's just one of my many skills :D

Impatience, now there's a gift.
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Patience is a virtue. For subbies because we doms are so fucking far behind and in denial.

You tell us that we love you but we fail to believe it until you are passing us by. :confused:
 
Wow. I think my non negotiables on boys were submissive bi liberal breathing and cute (up for my interpretation), between 26-66.
 
i don't think submission is a gift but Daddy did say He has the best present last night... me :)

Being a little girl isn't something i give to someone, its what i am. There is no Dominant-ego me to give it to someone else anymore.
 
the_mgp said:
Really... most of the time I feel like patience is a burden. It's the thing that made the wrinkle on my forehead. If I was more impatient, I'd probably be a better communicator. *shrugs*
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If you were more patient you would have checked what you wrote before you posted it. :D
 
If you're not as patient, maybe you're more likely to just blurt out what you're thinking or feeling, rather than waiting around and hoping it'll get better? I dunno, but that's what it sounded like to me.
 
the_mgp said:
Yeah, that's pretty much it. If somethings bugging me, I'm more likely to think hey, it might just be easier for me to do/say nothing and hope it goes away than to actually speak up about it. Maybe if I was an impatient person I'd be less stressed because I'd just be blurting stuff out whenever I get the shits instead of brooding on it. Although, I have a friend who tends to just blurt out things when she isn't happy and it's lead to some er, interesting dinner dates. But I guess she's still a pretty stressed out person, but I'm not entirely sure it's got anything to do with her not being capable of holding her tongue.
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I'm guilty of that, too. But I won't say it's because I'm patient. I just always feel like I'm a burden to other people if I talk about things, you know?
 
the_mgp said:
Yeah, that's pretty much it. If somethings bugging me, I'm more likely to think hey, it might just be easier for me to do/say nothing and hope it goes away than to actually speak up about it. Maybe if I was an impatient person I'd be less stressed because I'd just be blurting stuff out whenever I get the shits instead of brooding on it. Although, I have a friend who tends to just blurt out things when she isn't happy and it's lead to some er, interesting dinner dates. But I guess she's still a pretty stressed out person, but I'm not entirely sure it's got anything to do with her not being capable of holding her tongue.
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Oh I see what your saying! :eek:

Allow me to explain why I didn't get it then..... The ability to talk, blurt things out or even just to express yourself, does not neccesarily mean you have the ability to communicate.

I shall now to do my lazy-best to explain myself by copy/ pasting wikipedia-

Communication is the process of attempting to impart information from a sender to a receiver with the use of a medium. Communication requires that all parties have an area of communicative commonality. There are auditory means, such as speaking, singing and sometimes tone of voice, and nonverbal, physical means, such as body language, sign language, paralanguage, touch, eye contact, or the use of writing. Communication is defined as a process by which we assign and convey meaning in an attempt to create shared understanding. This process requires a vast repertoire of skills in intrapersonal and interpersonal processing, listening, observing, speaking, questioning, analyzing, and evaluating. Use of these processes is developmental and transfers to all areas of life: home, school, community, work, and beyond. It is through communication that collaboration and cooperation occur.

This backs up nicely my point that communication and talking are often mutually exclusive. They certainly are in at least 80% of what comes out of my mouth, or my word processor for that matter.

There's nothing wrong with not being able to articulate your point as far as relationships are concerned, in fact, as it says above, communication is conveying meaning to create a shared understanding. So, I reckon, if there is something wrong and you can't put it into words, then saying, "I have the shits/ am upset but don't know why", then you have shared your feelings and the other person can help reach an undersatnding of what it is that you're feeling. But of course that then becomes a trust issue and depends on whether you trust the other person to help you reach the true answer or whether they will twist it to make themselves right or achieve the upper hand, without actually solving the problem.

A solitary glance can communicate more than a thousand words (NB this is why I'm not a fan of IM, it's only words on a screen and often doesn't leave much time for thought).

I hope I have communicated my thoughts appropriately. :)
 
Kajira Callista said:
Sex is a gift
BJs are a gift
Allowing spankings is a gift


WTF??


Someone pleasssssssssssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeee explain all this to me.
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LOL That doesn't work for me. The whole 'gift' thing. I like sex too much for it to be a gift from me to him. It's more like a mutual gift - since we both get to get off. :D And BJ's are just me doing my share in sex. It doesn't ALL get to be about me, ya know. :rolleyes:

Beyond that, if my submission is a gift, his dominance is a gift. I get as much from it as he gets from my submission.
 
An easy reply for me. It is about the attention...and of course it works both ways. When he inspires, I am compeled. I crave his attention and he loves my responses when he gives it. A BJ is my gift to him for his attention...yadda...yadda...yadda.
 
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