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[Chris_Xavier]

*cries in agony* i fell down this morning in the snow!!

I hurt my knee and busted my bum. someone bring me soup and cookies.

Sorry about your bum, SG. Tomato soup and chocolate chip cookies okay?

How come Georgia and Alabama are getting all the snow?

 

[SweetGigi]

so long as it is tomato and mushroom bisque soup and homemade chocolate chip cookies.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

so long as it is tomato and mushroom bisque soup and homemade chocolate chip cookies.

Mushrooms are NASTY spawn of the devil things. <gags>

Patience is such a hard thing to practice.

 

[SweetGigi]

You and Jim are alike. He hates them too.... I love them.


I am patient. I am trying really hard to be. I think I'm doing a good job.

 

[Millificent]

Sorry to hear about your misfourtune Gigi! Hope you feel better soon!

P.S. Send some snow this way!

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

<sends Gigi LOTS of hugs>

 

[CurlyKat]

I'm going to bump this thread back to life and come hang out in here for a bit. He's on vacation for two weeks and won't be able to talk to me during that time due to the time difference then and all. It's only been three days so far, but I miss Him already. It's weird to go from talking to Him every day for months to nothing for a couple of weeks!

 

[subkitty72]

I'm going to bump this thread back to life and come hang out in here for a bit. He's on vacation for two weeks and won't be able to talk to me during that time due to the time difference then and all. It's only been three days so far, but I miss Him already. It's weird to go from talking to Him every day for months to nothing for a couple of weeks!

i feel your pain, fellow Kat.

Daddy lives in another state and although i have seen Him for days every month since October, i miss Him when We are apart.

We talk everyday, but i am afraid the distance is making me a little ill even. i cannot focus and am depressed. i feel anxious and insecure. very unlike me.

He will be here in February, but it seems so long off...

 

[CurlyKat]

i feel your pain, fellow Kat.

Daddy lives in another state and although i have seen Him for days every month since October, i miss Him when We are apart.

We talk everyday, but i am afraid the distance is making me a little ill even. i cannot focus and am depressed. i feel anxious and insecure. very unlike me.

He will be here in February, but it seems so long off...

Distance is so mean like that! Growing up moving around so often, I can deal with big breaks between actually seeing and being with someone (most of the time), as long as we get to talk most days.

But hey, cheer up! It is February now! And if you're anything like me, His embrace and the sound of His voice will chase that depression and anxiety away!

 

[SweetGigi]

hey girls. I know how you all feel. I read the most interesting article on sub drop tonight. It might help you all too- if you've not already read it. Hang in there, girls, it won't last long.

http://www.steel-door.com/sub_rebound.htm

 

[Bandit58]

hey girls. I know how you all feel. I read the most interesting article on sub drop tonight. It might help you all too- if you've not already read it. Hang in there, girls, it won't last long.

http://www.steel-door.com/sub_rebound.htm

Doesn't just happen to subs. When I was in a vanilla LDR we would manage to see each other for a few days every couple of months, but when I went home I'd feel so sad and depressed for the next week or so. It did help that we had IM and phone, but the intensity of being together for those 4-5 days, and then nothing, was very hard to get used to again

 

[subkitty72]

hey girls. I know how you all feel. I read the most interesting article on sub drop tonight. It might help you all too- if you've not already read it. Hang in there, girls, it won't last long.

http://www.steel-door.com/sub_rebound.htm

Thank you, gigi!

You considerate, lovely girl. For reaching out, you get the gold star (errr, not the Holocaust gold star... shit, you know what i mean!)

 

[subkitty72]

Doesn't just happen to subs. When I was in a vanilla LDR we would manage to see each other for a few days every couple of months, but when I went home I'd feel so sad and depressed for the next week or so. It did help that we had IM and phone, but the intensity of being together for those 4-5 days, and then nothing, was very hard to get used to again

Bandit, how did you deal with those feelings?

i fear i am sabotaging what i have with Daddy because of these emotions.

Can you help me?

Please.

 

[Bandit58]

Bandit, how did you deal with those feelings?

i fear i am sabotaging what i have with Daddy because of these emotions.

Can you help me?

Please.

I kept myself busy.

I went out with friends for a drink or two. I went shopping (didn't always buy anything, but was nice to look). If I needed to cry, I did - I didn't hold my emotions in. Loud music in the car and at home. I'd lose myself in a book or a movie.

I didn't put my life on hold just cos we weren't together.

 

[wannabeesis]

I am a slave looking for a mistress, can anyone tell me how to find one?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I am a slave looking for a mistress, can anyone tell me how to find one?

You could try posting in the BDSM personals section. You need to clarify whether you're looking for something online or RL and whether you want a full time relationship or an occasional play partner.

Good luck.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Bandit, how did you deal with those feelings?

i fear i am sabotaging what i have with Daddy because of these emotions.

Can you help me?

Please.

This is exactly what I am going through right now and my inability to come to terms with the reality of the situation may destroy my relationship.

So I have no advice. I was always able to handle it because I knew approx. when I would be seeing him again and that would carry me through. Right now things are where we don't know when we will see each other again and it is absolutely killing me.

My husband is military and has deployed for both 6 months and 12 month tours. It can be very difficult but I am used to separations. But I have to have a end in sight. Open ended situations are just impossible for me.

Anyway, I wish you luck. Concentrate on other things. Keep yourself grounded. Things are what they are and I have found men to be far better able to handle that then myself. Which is another thing that is making me hurt. Why does it seem so easy to for him to accept what we can not change, not being able to get together, when it is hurting me so badly?

All my best to all who have to go through separations

 

[CurlyKat]

hey girls. I know how you all feel. I read the most interesting article on sub drop tonight. It might help you all too- if you've not already read it. Hang in there, girls, it won't last long.

http://www.steel-door.com/sub_rebound.htm

Thanks for the link! It's definitely good information to keep tucked away, and very well presented.

 

[rida]

Being far from the one you love is hard ...

HUGS to you all

"The opposite of loneliness, it's not togetherness. It is intimacy." ― Richard Bach, The Bridge Across Forever

 

[SubKekiLee]

hey girls. I know how you all feel. I read the most interesting article on sub drop tonight. It might help you all too- if you've not already read it. Hang in there, girls, it won't last long.

http://www.steel-door.com/sub_rebound.htm

Thank you for youre article... it was great... How do I deal? Well I can tell you it is difficult being 2800 miles away and I can fully agree that at times I am depressed when he is busy with work or cant call for some reason, although we do chat, email and text at times...But I am like you when we have no plans I miss him so much... Right now I see an end cause we are planning a few days in Florida at the end of the month.. THAT will be heaven.. But leaving him I will be depressed .. but he knows this and tries to reassure me that he cares and we will be together again soon.... I can feel for all those that hurt .. Thats why we are all here and we are all here for those that are saddend

 

[SweetLissa]

hello All

 

[CurlyKat]

hello All

Howdy right back at ya!

 

[HottieMama]

Hello..hello

i'm in "droppy hell." Need chocolate, and snuggles...

 

[CurlyKat]

Awwww, HottieMama, I'm sorry! Will Dove dark chocolate bite sized pieces work? I've given up sugar and simple carbs, so I've got them all ready to give away....

And yes, totally with ya on the snuggly thing!

 

[HottieMama]

Mmmhhmm...Dark chocolate would be lovely... i've given up sugar and simple carbs too..but this is medicinal.