BlueMorpho
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I tried starting a thread on the general board, but no takers so far. So, how does one successfully solicit cyber around these parts anyway?
Successfully solicit cyber sex
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Bobmi357
Knit one, Perl two...
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BlueMorpho said:
You might want to try the playground section of lit. The General Board is for all those people that tend to speak first and think second.
This section is where we look under your hood and point out all your flaws and problems in excruciating detail until you vomit and promise to join a convent. By the way, has anyone spoken to you about your casual approach to sex?
You're welcome to ask any guy here on this section for sex... as for the girls, they'll kill you. And smile while they do it.
LukkyKnight
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Well, you don't want your thread to start out with a rant about your not-yet-an-ex, that draws advice about not doing things that might imperil your impending nullification proceedings, ya know? The GB is almost never what anybody expects it to be. You should see the reactions to adultery threads.BlueMorpho said:
Try this. Make friends. Expand your social circle (online) and see if something interesting doesn't present itself (or himself, or herself, as the case may be.)
SweetErika
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The short answer is try posting an ad in Personals or Lit Chat. Or, if you're completely desperate, tell people you're a horny woman, and you'll be bombarded by offers in no time flat!
The longer answer is you'll have a lot more success if you actually participate on the boards and get to know members as people, rather than masturbatory aids. Show them you're polite, literate, imaginative and interested in their pleasure - basically prove yourself as a good chat partner who is worthy of their time and effort.
In your ad, tell people about yourself and say you'd like to make friends and perhaps exchange erotic thoughts (if that's true). Be confident and relaxed; don't bump your ad a bunch of times or get huffy if you don't get the responses you want. Be willing to put some time and effort into meeting someone who's a good match. Don't treat Lit as an all-you-can-fuck buffet or use the shotgun approach, sending out a bunch of unsolicited PMs for cyber/pics/whatever to anyone who appears to be in your desired demographic.
Yeah, it takes a little more energy, but doing this kind of stuff will help distinguish you from the many other horny guys who are looking for a free, easy way to get off, which will give you much better results. It's a lot easier to find one or a handfull of good partners by cultivating relationships than it is to continuously try for quickies with the standard Horny Net Guy approach.
The longer answer is you'll have a lot more success if you actually participate on the boards and get to know members as people, rather than masturbatory aids. Show them you're polite, literate, imaginative and interested in their pleasure - basically prove yourself as a good chat partner who is worthy of their time and effort.
In your ad, tell people about yourself and say you'd like to make friends and perhaps exchange erotic thoughts (if that's true). Be confident and relaxed; don't bump your ad a bunch of times or get huffy if you don't get the responses you want. Be willing to put some time and effort into meeting someone who's a good match. Don't treat Lit as an all-you-can-fuck buffet or use the shotgun approach, sending out a bunch of unsolicited PMs for cyber/pics/whatever to anyone who appears to be in your desired demographic.
Yeah, it takes a little more energy, but doing this kind of stuff will help distinguish you from the many other horny guys who are looking for a free, easy way to get off, which will give you much better results. It's a lot easier to find one or a handfull of good partners by cultivating relationships than it is to continuously try for quickies with the standard Horny Net Guy approach.
The Personals section is an appropriate place to post such a thread but be warned that it suffers from "Single's Bar Syndrome"; that is, an overabundance of horny males that makes it hard to stand out and allows the ladies to be quite choosy.
You might also try joining or starting a thread or so in the Sexual Roleplay section, BUT, in that case I recommend that you follow LukkyKnight's advice, above. Don't join or start threads to find cyber partners: Get involved in threads that you're genuinely interested in writing, and see if you don't wind up writing with people whose interests and sense of the erotic are similar enough to yours to generate some chemistry.
It doesn't happen in every thread - far from it - but neither is it unheard of.
You might also try joining or starting a thread or so in the Sexual Roleplay section, BUT, in that case I recommend that you follow LukkyKnight's advice, above. Don't join or start threads to find cyber partners: Get involved in threads that you're genuinely interested in writing, and see if you don't wind up writing with people whose interests and sense of the erotic are similar enough to yours to generate some chemistry.
It doesn't happen in every thread - far from it - but neither is it unheard of.
