Swing lifestyle/open relationship

[dannyboy1958]

I have no advice for you, but have enjoyed reading the replies. My husband has wanted to do this for years. While the fantasy may have been good, I wanted it to stay a fantasy. We made a marriage vow to forsake all others, and as a mother, what would my children think if they ever found out.

Wednesday night I finally agreed to give it a try. I have to say, we have both been really horny since then. We have talked about some rules, and I'm sure we are going to talk a lot more before it happens.

We are going to start with me with another guy, and see where thing go from there.

Good luck to the two of you.

be sure and keep us ( me if you want to pm ) how it goes, id be intersted from our own personal relationship , point of view good luck and enjoy..

 

[Jessicasc1970]

be sure and keep us ( me if you want to pm ) how it goes, id be intersted from our own personal relationship , point of view good luck and enjoy..

I will. It is still a work in progress with some things to be decided on before we go any furher.

 

[2small4her]

The lifestyle

After my wife and I married I confided in her and told her it would really turn me on if she had sex with another guy. Janet, who's twelve years younger than me, was shocked. I might point out she is my second wife. My first wife, Linda, who was also a looker and I had had invited other men into our marriage and we'd enjoyed it.
Well, time went by and I brought home a lot of adult movies and toys for her to play with. In addition we were going out to all of the swinging clubs in Dallas. She was getting into it and she's a dancing fool but at that point in time I couldn't dance. She really wanted to dance and I suggested she dance with other guys. That was fine with her but when we went into a club no guys would ask her to dance. Janet is very hot and I knew there was nothing wrong with her. We agreed I would drop her at the door to a club and she would enter by herself while I parked the car. Further, I'd give her an hour on her own and if she was dancing with several guys I'd give her more time.
In less than a month all sorts of guys were dancing with her and their hands wondered of her club wear. One guy really turned her on and I saw that she let him hold her breasts through her clothes. One guy was interesting and we invited him over but things didn't work out although she sucked his dick in our car.
Things were moving along when I discovered an off premise swingers club that was billed as an 'alternative' night club. We joined and really enjoyed it determined not to go all the way with other couples. Another young wife who's bi-sexual came on to Janet and after Stacy, Janet realized she loved sex with women, too. She is very much into women and has had sex with many attractive girls and women. We were with a lot of couples but we kept our promise until we joined another club, INIQUITY also in Dallas. INIQUITY is very much into the lifestyle and one evening Janet had sex with another guy while I was making out with his wife. Today she enjoys sex with other men and I enjoy it too although I do not have sex with other women.

 

[Quantified]

Swinging is a very complicated setup regardless what anyone else says.

If you sense the portential for regret or you sense that from your partner, you'd better back away and get things straight first. Otherwise, it could be a real mess.