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Taking a deep breath....

RubenesqueAphrodite said:
Bingo

Tell us we're beautiful. Tell us we're sexy. Tell us you are mesmerized by our charm and intelligence...but don't tell us we're not fat. It's an immediate red flag.

There are too many people (not just here, but the world in general) who will say ANYTHING...do ANYTHING, to get what they want from you.

If you are going to start off with a flat out, verifiable lie, why in the ever-loving fuck should we trust you?

And it's not about being "politely euphemistic." It's about acknowledging a truth, but seeing beyond that. Knowing that a man will touch and caress my rolls of flesh and STILL love me? =Keeper

Because my body habitus is just one of the many pieces that make up my puzzle, and you have to have all of them.

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YES!! Phew! At least if I am crazy, I'm in good company! Thank you!


5StarsUK said:
Dear Blu,
I look at your photographs and I see a beautiful, sensual body which stimulates and excites me. I read your posts and I sense a lady who is intelligent, thoughtful, self aware and caring and who, for these reasons, is interesting and sexy. Thank you for sharing your photographs and thoughts.
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Thank you. :kiss:

30bandits said:
2 thumbs up blu...:)
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:D
 
WYSIWYG sounds good. But, just don't either of you or any future Sisters use it as a put-down. Hot AF first, fat (if that's what you want) second. Okay?
 
blulilacgrl said:
Taking an extra deep breath today....


Hang on guys because this is gonna be an emotional post. But it’s one that is months in the making. Hell, it is years and decades in the making.

I’m going to start off by saying that I know y’all mean well and you are trying your best to be supportive in the best possible way. But can I say that I am really irked when someone’s response to me saying I’m fat is “no, you’re not”. Bless y’all’s hearts but let’s deal with facts. I’m fat. I have fat. I have a lot of fat. Lol. And I have more today than I did four months ago. And I have less than I did a year ago. And there are days when I wish I was as fat as I thought I was as a teenager. But wishes and weight fluctuations don’t change that I am (and have been for most of my life) fat.

I started this thread in order to become more comfortable in my own skin. To accept and see beauty in myself. And it didn’t work. Mainly because I chose carefully cropped, carefully edited pics. Pictures that I thought were fun or cute or silly. But I never really showed me. Which meant when anyone complimented a picture, in the back of my mind I always had to acknowledge that what they were responding to was a manipulated version of myself. A showcase of my best assets, so to speak. Now it wasn’t a complete waste. This first half of my journey woke me up to the realities of pictures. Because I know what I can do to emphasize or obscure different parts of my body, it woke me up to how others do the same. How professional photographers use lighting, angles, cropping, and editing to get a better photo or shot. As a result, I stopped comparing my body to others. So that’s the first step.

Now the second step. A few weeks ago I had a moment that brought me to my knees. A beautiful, absolutely stunning picture of a fellow big girl. I realized in that moment that if I see the beauty in her, I need to starting looking at the beauty in me. We all need to start seeing the beauty in each other. In people the same size or bigger or smaller. We need to stop thinking that beauty resides in the shape or size of a person. Okay…. I need to stop thinking that. If I can love someone else’s pictures, then I have the capacity to love my own. That’s where I’m starting today. I am loving me. And I am declaring myself.

I am fat AND smart. I am fat AND beautiful. I am fat AND funny, quirky, cute, silly, pretty, sexy…. You name it and I am all those things. Most importantly I am those things AND fat. Because fat doesn’t negate them. Being fat doesn’t make me less and it doesn’t make me more. It is just a part of who I am.

This is me….

https://i.imgur.com/Dd65Kbd.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/7S9fo2J.jpg

Oh boy... okay. Breathe, blu. Just breathe....
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You are great! Thanks for being you.
 
Hmm, still hot. :kiss: Hardly any of us all "model-esque" at all. Let the truly vain worry about that stuff. Be comfortable with yourself. Too many people beat themselves up around here.
 
TANSTAAFL58 said:
WYSIWYG sounds good. But, just don't either of you or any future Sisters use it as a put-down. Hot AF first, fat (if that's what you want) second. Okay?
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Okaaaay. (totally adopting an annoyed teenage stance complete with eye roll). :kiss:

Jakevillines said:
You are great! Thanks for being you.
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Thank you, Sweetie. I am great! ;)


tallguy78 said:
That confidence just makes you sexier, can't wait for more!
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And here I thought it wasn't possible for me to be any more sexy, but look at that! ;) :kiss:


EndlessNameless said:
Hmm, still hot. :kiss: Hardly any of us all "model-esque" at all. Let the truly vain worry about that stuff. Be comfortable with yourself. Too many people beat themselves up around here.
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Hmm, still smooth as silk. :kiss:
 
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