Taking the plunge...how did you do it?

[Wuzzy_Gonzo]

Its hard to find someone who's serious. I find not ppl are only "looking" while they are horny and want pix. After they cut, the post-nut clarity must kick in. Because I rarely hear back.... And I've had little to no luck trying to actually meet up

 

[Excitabletom]

For me, the challenge is the "where?" Home security cameras have my house closed for hosting. No one ever wants to host and I do not want to chance being caught in public! Where do you go for good ol man sex?

 

[Ciceri]

Never take your communications off the platform and don’t give out your phone number.

That's such a frequent request. They always want to communicate on a different platform. Also, don't communicate with anyone who calls you dear

 

[starfish71]

That's such a frequent request. They always want to communicate on a different platform. Also, don't communicate with anyone who calls you dear

And every scam story starts with taking comms off platform… every one

 

[Biguy77578]

Things were much more simple before internet and security cameras.
I love the internet but hate the scammers and deceivers and you can't be sure you are not being watched anyplace you go.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Still looking here, still hopeful

 

[BillyWalrus]

My trans girlfriend always looked for dates on Tinder. She was always straight up about being trans and being a pure top. No surprises there.

 

[dobbins1]

Silver Daddies is a legitimate site. What I've learned is that the younger (under 40 or so) are looking for relationships and not just a hook up. Some can host but for those of us just looking for a playmate, it's not a fit. Then you have the 50+ group who are also looking for just a hookup and can't host (because many of us are married). Then there are those who are divorced and can host, but they're in the "older" group, which disqualifies those of us looking for "younger" guys. It's all a matter of supply and demand I suppose. Just my observations. Open to any others opinions.

 

[phil1955]

I can see the difficulties in finding a place to hook up for married guys. I am older so my hookups have been with older divorced men who had their own place. So we can meet for golf or whatever, go back to his place and do our thing. My wife knows I am bi so do not have to hide it from her but would need to be careful of bringing guys to my house to keep the neighbors from getting too inquisitive.

 

[danieldanman]

Never bring a stranger home. Never go into a stranger's home.
Sadly so many people just want to cum and run. But I am always hopeful.

And, if I need a good manly man for my manly needs and just play...well, I head to Black Eagle in Toronto and be the best cocksucker imaginable.

I did enjoy the baths when younger but gawd they have just become filled with creeps and there are not as many as there once was.

 

[JiminNC]

Thats probably true for quite a few, but i'm single, I just can't afford to not be discrete when it comes to my family and friends and work. None of them would understand. I am outwardly completely straight, no one has a clue about my desires.

Go to SilverDaddies.com. Plenty of older gentlemen would love to deflower you. Trust me, I’m one of them! You can search by zip code.

 

[Tempted_Weak]

Go to SilverDaddies.com. Plenty of older gentlemen would love to deflower you. Trust me, I’m one of them! You can search by zip code.

Just as simple as that?

Asking for a friend...

 

[JiminNC]

Yes! There are three chat rooms, older/younger, older/younger with emphasis in CDs, and older/older.

 

[Tempted_Weak]

Yes! There are three chat rooms, older/younger, older/younger with emphasis in CDs, and older/older.

My friend says he finds the idea interesting, stimulating even!

 

[JiminNC]

My friend says he finds the idea interesting, stimulating even!

Well, hit me up there!

 

[Uncut1969]

I can see the difficulties in finding a place to hook up for married guys. I am older so my hookups have been with older divorced men who had their own place. So we can meet for golf or whatever, go back to his place and do our thing. My wife knows I am bi so do not have to hide it from her but would need to be careful of bringing guys to my house to keep the neighbors from getting too inquisitive.

Wow wife knows and a fwb you got a nice situation going I envy you

 

[rockoid2]

I can see the difficulties in finding a place to hook up for married guys. I am older so my hookups have been with older divorced men who had their own place. So we can meet for golf or whatever, go back to his place and do our thing. My wife knows I am bi so do not have to hide it from her but would need to be careful of bringing guys to my house to keep the neighbors from getting too inquisitive.

I have always fantasized about having a house with playrooms that I could "rent" for folks to get together and maybe even join them every once in a awhile. Something discreet with a number of rooms, open areas and maybe outside areas.

 

[phil1955]

Wow wife knows and a fwb you got a nice situation going I envy you

Wife knows and is fine with it. Of course she has her hobbies too.

 

[phil1955]

I have always fantasized about having a house with playrooms that I could "rent" for folks to get together and maybe even join them every once in a awhile. Something discreet with a number of rooms, open areas and maybe outside areas.

Perhaps a work shop with a discrete back door.

 

[dingdongditchding]

I want to explore my fantasies of giving head and getting anal. I have had these desires for a very long time. However, I need to be very discrete due to my family and work. I also don't want just some random meet in public, I want to be comfortable and take my time without looking over my shoulder worried about being discovered. Any advice?

I have been trying to meet a M FWB. I have talked to a lot of dudes and a few women. Few women, hahaha. Anyway, I might be getting close. Just message people that interest you and if they talk back well post, then see where it goes. I just want to meet one for now. JUST ONE FWB

 

[dingdongditchding]

That is so right ! Need a discrete guy! Hopefully another married guy that has the same to lose! And compatible non pushy a fwb

yes, non pushy

 

[dingdongditchding]

Same. I try to start looking a couple of weeks prior to exchange emails detailing our mutual expectations.

It's slow and can be tedious, but when it works, it's awesome.

I am still in the talking posting to a very vew (2)

 

[rockoid2]

Perhaps a work shop with a discrete back door.

That would work!

 

[phil1955]

That would work!

Our neighbor has built a very nice workshop for himself. It would be perfect if he added a couch and a back door.

 

[saintcero]

My first time was on his bed in his house. We had chatted on SilverDaddies and he offered to blow me. I had time and the wife was out of town so I drove to meet him.

We chatted a bit but soon made our way to his bedroom. We stripped and he started sucking my cock.

He had edged my twice when I found that I didn’t want to be passive. I wanted to participate in the fun. We repositioned to a 69 and I gazed upon his erect cock.

My inner voice screamed no but I didn’t listen. My lips slide over his glans and down his shaft. His cock lay against my tongue. I was amazed at how natural it felt in my mouth. The fit was perfect. It belonged there.

I went to town on his bone and soon enough I heard him ask, “Do you want my cum?” I immediately said yes and went back to cock sucking. His climax hit him and he sprayed my mouth full. I quickly swallowed as I was worry about a bad taste. He tasted fine so I kept mouthing his softening cock.

The smell of his semen permitted my mouth and sinuses. I was giddy at being a cocksucker. If there had been more guys in his bedroom that day I would have swallowed them all.

Thank you Terry for giving me my first cock and my first load. My time with you is burned into my memory. I am so glad that I didn’t listen when my inner voice said NO. I am now a proud cocksucker.