Talk Dirty to Him

[Nasty_Deeds]

Obviously, if you're female and have ever fucked anything with a penis, more than likely you've talked dirty at some point in your sex life. I'm finding myself at a creative impass as of recent, and I'm saying the same phrases over and over like "Cum on my face," and "I want your dick in my mouth," etc. You get the point. I used to be so good at talking dirty I could have him begging for more before I even got him out of his pants. Now... I guess I've just lost my touch. I need help getting him back exactly where I want him, which is hanging on my every word, completely mesmerized.

Oddly enough, I have never been all that turned on by a woman talking dirty during sex. I am the most aroused when I feel like I am corrupting the virgin Mary. I guess I just like to work for what I get, but to each his own.

 

[sereneone4u]

It can't be forced. Some girls can whisper "I"m gonna drain your balls" and you believe them. Others sound as if they are reading from a script.

I agree...it is in how you say it. If you are talking in a toneless voice...oh. ya. baby. do. me. *yawn*

Not going to work, sorry..

But if your voice is filled with the desire and passion you feel for that person and you are saying dirty hawt things to them, works every time.

 

[Lust Engine]

I agree...it is in how you say it. If you are talking in a toneless voice...oh. ya. baby. do. me. *yawn*

Not going to work, sorry..

But if your voice is filled with the desire and passion you feel for that person and you are saying dirty hawt things to them, works every time.

Let's not be afraid to toss in some well motivated moans and groans too. But again, it has to be genuine- nothing faked or contrived. Sex is supposed to be a shared experience- so let him know you're actually enjoying it.

And as a guy, nothing's better for a little more excitement and the ego than a woman enjoying what he's bringing to the bedroom. It's motivating, captivating and stimulating all in one fell swoop.

 

[Ex Princess]

Try not to over think it. Some of the hottest dirty talk I have enjoyed was when she simply verbalized what she was doing or feeling or what she wanted next.

I don't spend a lot of time thinking about dirty talk. The best stuff comes in the heat of the moment anyway. My boyfriend went nuts when I told him to fill my ass with cum once and he likes it when I send him dirty little messages like "I miss how you feel inside of me."

Does your man need dirty talk to get off? Have you asked about some of his other fantasies? Maybe after tapping into what gets his motor going you can incorporate that in.

 

[A_gentleman_lvr]

Obviously, if you're female and have ever fucked anything with a penis, more than likely you've talked dirty at some point in your sex life. I'm finding myself at a creative impass as of recent, and I'm saying the same phrases over and over like "Cum on my face," and "I want your dick in my mouth," etc. You get the point. I used to be so good at talking dirty I could have him begging for more before I even got him out of his pants. Now... I guess I've just lost my touch. I need help getting him back exactly where I want him, which is hanging on my every word, completely mesmerized.

I love 'dirty' talk but I agree with the person who said keep it simple. It's easy to say too much and sound corny or just spoil it. Say what your feeling or what you want. As a guy (I know its probably all ego) I love having my partner say things like how good it feels when I'm squezing her tits or how hot my cock feels when she's stroking it. Talk can be very arousing.

 

[mike_always_horny]

Some suggestions based on what I like (however, everyone has different tastes)...

I generally find that sexual rapport/dirty talk fall into two different categories. One is usually very honest, sincere, poignant, (maybe even romantic, gasp). The other is usually highly playful, teasing, wicked, dirty, sometimes vaguely cruel. And it all depends on the mood that my partner and I find ourselves in.

The former category, I am usually give a ton of compliments and describe the degree to which I've been lusting after my partner. "Fuck, your pussy is gorgeous." "I want you to know that I couldn't stop thinking about the taste of your wetness all day at work today." I'll tell her what I want to do to her and what I especially love about what she is doing to me. "Mmmmm, god I want to feel you convulse under me." "Damn, you are brilliant with your tongue, holy shit." Etc.

The latter... the goal is to try to make your partner feel like a pervert, slut, horny bastard/bitch. Tease them, and encourage them to fuck harder/kinkier. From female to male, things like... "You've been wanting this all day, haven't you? You've been thinking about blowing your load all over my face, haven't you, you horny bastard." "You're not just going to suck my nipples, are you? Fucking bite them, fucking make me scream." "I saw you staring at my tits the whole time we were at dinner. You really can't stop thinking about fucking me, can you?!"

Of course, it can be fun to engage in the 2nd when your partner is expecting the 1st. Curl up in his arms, wearing some cute pajamas. And whisper in his ear "Fuck me hard, you pervert. Fuck me til I can't walk straight."

Just my thoughts! The chat usually falls into either category naturally. If your partner is giving you a long, sensual massage, things will more likely fall into the 1st category. If you is smacking your ass, more likely the 2nd.

 

[Boundlife]

Just my thoughts! The chat usually falls into either category naturally. If your partner is giving you a long, sensual massage, things will more likely fall into the 1st category. If you is smacking your ass, more likely the 2nd.

That is one of the best summeries ever!

 

[hellsgate]

"Don't you dare cum inside me, I could get pregnant.."

"Oh son, your dad's really going to enjoy knowing you knocked me up this time..."

"Honey, you know how you wanted to know I let someone fill me up and let you clean me up after.."

 

[sweetmoonbeam]

Great examples

Some suggestions based on what I like (however, everyone has different tastes)...

I generally find that sexual rapport/dirty talk fall into two different categories. One is usually very honest, sincere, poignant, (maybe even romantic, gasp). The other is usually highly playful, teasing, wicked, dirty, sometimes vaguely cruel. And it all depends on the mood that my partner and I find ourselves in.

The former category, I am usually give a ton of compliments and describe the degree to which I've been lusting after my partner. "Fuck, your pussy is gorgeous." "I want you to know that I couldn't stop thinking about the taste of your wetness all day at work today." I'll tell her what I want to do to her and what I especially love about what she is doing to me. "Mmmmm, god I want to feel you convulse under me." "Damn, you are brilliant with your tongue, holy shit." Etc.

The latter... the goal is to try to make your partner feel like a pervert, slut, horny bastard/bitch. Tease them, and encourage them to fuck harder/kinkier. From female to male, things like... "You've been wanting this all day, haven't you? You've been thinking about blowing your load all over my face, haven't you, you horny bastard." "You're not just going to suck my nipples, are you? Fucking bite them, fucking make me scream." "I saw you staring at my tits the whole time we were at dinner. You really can't stop thinking about fucking me, can you?!"

Of course, it can be fun to engage in the 2nd when your partner is expecting the 1st. Curl up in his arms, wearing some cute pajamas. And whisper in his ear "Fuck me hard, you pervert. Fuck me til I can't walk straight."

Just my thoughts! The chat usually falls into either category naturally. If your partner is giving you a long, sensual massage, things will more likely fall into the 1st category. If you is smacking your ass, more likely the 2nd.

I'm mesmerized. Your partner is an extremely lucky woman!

 

[kiwi_submissive]

I find it much easy if the person is engaging in the dirty talk as well. I can't do the whole "oh baby, i want to feel your cum inside me" speil but if he starts it and contributes then I get right into it.

 

[Licia]

The mock argument: create the illusion of anger in the beginning of a statement only to reveal the dirty by the finish. The technique can work much like a shock to an arrested heart?

Text him something racy when you know he'll be busy at work. Bonus points if he is "obsessive" about reading messages - mixed company? (Not that anyone else will see them necessarily, but he'll be thinking about everyone else standing around: 'blah, I hope no one else notices!' *sweaty palms/quickened pulse*)

If you're going for super romance, emote your love reactions into his ear during the acts. Men enjoy whispers just as much as moans, groans, and "screams." A whisper is an intensely personal thing, they have to listen very carefully.

 

[icandothis]

"Damn it! Stop being nice and considerate and just FUCK ME . . . HARD . . .DEEP AND NOW!"

 

[mike_always_horny]

I'm mesmerized. Your partner is an extremely lucky woman!

Why thank you, Sweetmoonbeam!

 

[NativPrincess]

Try not to over think it. Some of the hottest dirty talk I have enjoyed was when she simply verbalized what she was doing or feeling or what she wanted next.

I agree, I just tell my man what i want him to do to me, what i want to do to him, or how good it feels. Would you like some examples? I have a lot of material right now since I have been horny a lot lately.

 

[NativPrincess]

Praise:
You have a glorious cock.
It feels so good. Its so hard.
I love it when: your balls smack my clit, you kiss my neck, you smack my ass...
You look so sexy, hot, etc. when...

Do this to me:
Give it to me harder.
Smack my face with your dick.

And I'll do this to you:
I am going to: make you cum all over..., tie you up tonight, ride you until I collapse, make you dinner naked, etc.

Description:
Your dick is getting so big as I...
Its feels so hot inside me.
It fills me up.
F*** me like a little whore, do me right, etc.

And oh so much more.
I like to add nicknames and change them up to keep it interesting.

 

[yuna1981]

Some suggestions based on what I like (however, everyone has different tastes)...

I generally find that sexual rapport/dirty talk fall into two different categories. One is usually very honest, sincere, poignant, (maybe even romantic, gasp). The other is usually highly playful, teasing, wicked, dirty, sometimes vaguely cruel. And it all depends on the mood that my partner and I find ourselves in.

The former category, I am usually give a ton of compliments and describe the degree to which I've been lusting after my partner. "Fuck, your pussy is gorgeous." "I want you to know that I couldn't stop thinking about the taste of your wetness all day at work today." I'll tell her what I want to do to her and what I especially love about what she is doing to me. "Mmmmm, god I want to feel you convulse under me." "Damn, you are brilliant with your tongue, holy shit." Etc.

The latter... the goal is to try to make your partner feel like a pervert, slut, horny bastard/bitch. Tease them, and encourage them to fuck harder/kinkier. From female to male, things like... "You've been wanting this all day, haven't you? You've been thinking about blowing your load all over my face, haven't you, you horny bastard." "You're not just going to suck my nipples, are you? Fucking bite them, fucking make me scream." "I saw you staring at my tits the whole time we were at dinner. You really can't stop thinking about fucking me, can you?!"

Of course, it can be fun to engage in the 2nd when your partner is expecting the 1st. Curl up in his arms, wearing some cute pajamas. And whisper in his ear "Fuck me hard, you pervert. Fuck me til I can't walk straight."

Just my thoughts! The chat usually falls into either category naturally. If your partner is giving you a long, sensual massage, things will more likely fall into the 1st category. If you is smacking your ass, more likely the 2nd.

Yeah I'm going to echo the appreciation for your thoughts others have mentioned, WOW!

 

[mike_always_horny]

Yeah I'm going to echo the appreciation for your thoughts others have mentioned, WOW!

Thank you I guess I've picked it up from hanging around here a good deal, hehe.

 

[StevenWill]

Discovery

It takes some exploration to figure out what works for each of you. Some people love to hear it but have trouble speaking. Some like it flirty and some like it intense and edgy. And each time is a little different from the time before. The point about being non judgmental is key. You have to be free to speak even if it doesn't work perfectly.

I have found that using the talking as part of foreplay is easiest. Once you are in the heat of action it may not be easy to put together to words you are looking for.

I dated a woman who was both very sexual and from a repressive background, like many of us. She tended to be a little shy. She liked "gentlemanly filth." I would say, "You are such a nice girl but tomorrow no one will know that I made you spread your warm thighs and be my little cock slut." She loved that but, for another, it would be silly and uninspiring.

Take time to get to know each other.

 

[SallyIsHere]

Works for me

"You are such a nice girl but tomorrow no one will know that I made you spread your warm thighs and be my little cock slut."
Take time to get to know each other.

Works nicely.

 

[angeloftemptation]

I post audio stories on Lit and there are some really great stories on there where women are amazing at thinking outside the box in dirty talk. It's definatly worth a listen!

 

[beths-virtue]

normal talking, let him know how it feels, why it feels good how it feels good,
oh baby that feels great is a simple line that connotates exactly how it feels for me at any given second, yes , sometimes "oh , it feels great when you fill me up" or , keep doing that etc
normally im pretty quiet so lucky land when i do open up and tell him anything, he loves it, but unfortunately , he cums almost immediately

 

[lemmesee]

You might try this ...."please, please, spray your warm white semen up into me"....

 

[badman1985]

can't go wrong with begging for a man to cum. i really like it when i women demands stuff from me in a dirty way. don't plan what you are gonna say just say it

 

[shortstuff02]

I have just recently started doing this. We have been together over 3 years but a lot of things that happened previously in life shut me down in some ways. I all of a sudden like a light switch started talking dirty during sex and it shocked the hell out of it in a great way. It was one of our best times together. As time goes on it is getting much easier and I know he loves it as well. I just go with whatever comes out of my mouth. It can't be planned just share whatevre you are feeling at that moment.

 

[DefiantOne]

mmm....any dirty talk about getting pregnant, about "don't pull out". or calling me "son", if the lady is older.